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MODERN RELATIONSHIPS Author: Živković Vladimir Smashwords Edition Copyright 2017 All Rights Reserved Translator: Maja Đolović

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TABLE OF CONTENT

ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS

Short cautionary tales by Vladimir Zivkovic

Vladimir Zivkovic is the man of the soul

ABOUT THE BOOK

BOOK NO.1: “RETURN TO GOD: MEN AND WOMEN”

Chapter I – MY WORKS

Chapter II –NEGATIVITY OF MEN AND WOMEN

Chapter III – UPBRINGING

Chapter IV – GENDER MISCONCEPTIONS

BOOK NO.2:”SEXUALITY AND SEDUCTION”

Chapter I – Sexuality – A short guide for dummies

Chapter II – Lectures/Discourse on seduction

Chapter III – The examples of seduction (Note: this examples can also be found in the other books)

Chapter IV – Delusions on Sexuality

BOOK NO.3:”RETURN TO GOD: LOVE RELATIONSHIPS”

Chapter I – PSYCHOLOGY OF LOVE RELATIONSHIPS

Chapter II – RETURN TO FAITHFULNESS

Chapter III – RELATIONSHIPS AND KARMA

Chapter IV – DEVELOPING SYMPATHY

Chapter V – EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE

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TABLE OF CONTENT..............................................................

ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS........................................................

Short cautionary tales by Vladimir Zivkovic.....................

Vladimir Zivkovic is the man of the soul............................

ABOUT THE BOOK...................................................................

BOOK NO.1: “RETURN TO GOD: MEN AND WOMEN”................

INTRODUCTION..................................................................

Chapter I – MY WORKS...........................................................

A PREDESTINED WINNER................................................

THE AGE OF EVIL AND OBSCENITY...............................

THE FREEDOM OF THOUGHT.........................................

THE EXPERIENCE OF GOD...............................................

DESTROYING DEMONS.....................................................

THE YOUNG IT ON...................................................

Chapter II –NEGATIVITY OF MEN AND WOMEN..........

WOMAN–SAMURAI.............................................................

WAR.......................................................................................

THE WALL OF PRIDE.........................................................

TIME EATERS (Aka soul crushers)...................................

A MALE HELPLESSNESS..................................................

LUST......................................................................................

MALE UNAVAILABILITY....................................................

IMPORTANCE OF FEELINGS............................................

IRRATIONALITY (Aka short-sightedness)........................

NOT LISTENING..................................................................

ABOUT EXPECTATIONS (Aka, evil man – flexible exploiter of women)...............

FAKING, UNDERMINING, DEPRAVING (Aka, universal example to take with you)...............

Chapter III – UPBRINGING....................................................

A LOVED WOMAN...............................................................

NON-BELIEVERS MATERIALISTS....................................

PROVINCIALISM.................................................................

A FALSE UPBRINGING.......................................................

AN INSATIABLE APPETITE (Aka, voracity).....................

IN BED WITH THE ENEMY...............................................

ADULTERY IS DISRESPECT OF ONESELF.....................

THIS IS MY GIRLFRIEND (Aka, a cautionary tale to reflect on)...............

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THE FALL OF THE FORT...................................................

BRAVERY – MADNESS (Aka, terrible abyss)..................

Chapter IV – GENDER MISCONCEPTIONS.....................

ATHEISM..............................................................................

FAILURE...............................................................................

FASTING...............................................................................

CONSCIENCE......................................................................

CHOICE.................................................................................

THE POWER OF LOVE........................................................

HATRED AND CONTEMPT................................................

INDECISION.........................................................................

SUPERSTITION....................................................................

THE ROAD TO DOWNFALL...............................................

THE BELIEVER’S VANITY – INQUISITION.....................

LACK OF SELF-ESTEEM....................................................

EGOISM.................................................................................

THE MYTH OF POVERTY...................................................

THE CONSEQUENCES OF ACTION.................................

THE GLORY AND MAGNIFICENCE OF GOD..................

THE TRIP TO NEVERLAND...............................................

SEDUCERS – FORNICATORS............................................

THE PAST..............................................................................

THE CREATION OF POWER..............................................

ROADS OF DAMNATION = HUNGRY CROCODILES....

THE OLD AND THE YOUNG..............................................

GURU (also known as Messiah, Avatar)...........................

AN ASSUMED PERFECTION.............................................

SELF-REALIZATION............................................................

LABIRYNTH (Or so-called, plot)........................................

THE SURVIVAL....................................................................

FORGIVENESS.....................................................................

HAPPINESS..........................................................................

THE INFIDELITY OF AUTODESTRUCTIVE.....................

DIGNITY................................................................................

BOOK NO.2:”SEXUALITY AND SEDUCTION”.................

INTRODUCTION..................................................................

Chapter I – Sexuality – A short guide for dummies........

PERFECT AND POSITIVE...................................................

AN IMAGINARY PERFECTION..........................................

THE NEGLECTION OF THE PARTNER...........................

CONTRACEPTION AND ABORTION.................................

CONCLUSION......................................................................

Chapter II – Lectures/Discourse on seduction.................

SEDUCTION = SELF-DOUBT............................................

EXPERIENCE IN SEX..........................................................

SEDUCTION AND MANIPULATION.................................

THE ART OF SEDUCTION.................................................

Chapter III – The examples of seduction (Note: this examples can also be found in the other books)................

SUBURB................................................................................

DESPERATION IN LOVE....................................................

DRAMA..................................................................................

Chapter IV – Delusions on Sexuality...................................

SEX WITH NO STRINGS ATTACHED...............................

TANTRA.................................................................................

OEDIPAL COMPLEX............................................................

THE ABUSE OF HUMAN BEING......................................

ONE NIGHT STANDS (aka, mutual raping/abuse).........

BOOK NO.3:”RETURN TO GOD: LOVE RELATIONSHIPS”................

NOTE TO THE READER......................................................

INTRODUCTION..................................................................

ABOUT THE BOOK..............................................................

Chapter I – PSYCHOLOGY OF LOVE RELATIONSHIPS................

BROKEN HEART..................................................................

GETTING MARRIED............................................................

ENGAGEMENT (betrothal).................................................

TWO FACES/SIDES.............................................................

AN UNHEALTHY JEALOUSY.............................................

HOW MUCH DO LOOKS MATTER?.................................

MATERIALISM.....................................................................

UNFAITHFULNESS AND NEGLECT = RUTHLESSNESS...............

BEING LOYAL TO A PERSON............................................

APPREHENSION (PREMONITION)..................................

SUBTLE PROMISCUITY CALLED MISFORTUNE..........

Chapter II – RETURN TO FAITHFULNESS......................

CONQUERING.....................................................................

RESPECT FOR THE PARTNER..........................................

FEAR OF LOVE....................................................................

CLOSENESS.........................................................................

Chapter III – RELATIONSHIPS AND KARMA..................

SPIRITUAL PARTNERS.......................................................

PERMANENCE.....................................................................

ADAM AND EVE...................................................................

HOW TO (NOT) /BE SUCCESSFUL IN LOVE..................

STORY ABOUT PAIN, SADNESS, AND MISFORTUNE.

RELATIONSHIP WITH YOURSELF...................................

Chapter IV – DEVELOPING SYMPATHY............................

EVIL MEN.............................................................................

ABOUT ABUSE (or, to women)..........................................

SOMETHING ABOUT FAKE FRIENDSHIP......................

Chapter V – EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE......................

ENLIGHTENMENT..............................................................

WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND.......................

MODERN MOTHERHOOD.................................................

ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS

I am grateful both to good and bad people because they have helped me and they are still helping me defining my inner self and reaching the happiness within and around me.

Also, I would like to say thanks to my lifelong friends, Bratislav Jankovic and Aleksandar Petkovic, without their and assistance this book would not be published.

Thanks to my deceased friend Vladimir Petrovic, artist and painter, and to his family for courtesy of painting ''Gold&Silver'' for the cover of this book.

Thanks to Biljana Obradovic and Jovan Kurbalija who have always believed in me and in my path, and to Maja Djolovic for translating this book into the English language.

Thanks to Supreme that is within me, who has never abandoned me, and that is my lifelong friend, protector, and companion.

Short cautionary tales by Vladimir Zivkovic

If you’ve just been searching for self-help reading and an easy and quick fix for your problems, there is no such advice in this book. Vladimir’s trilogy 'Return to God' is an authentic collection of real life stories and situations which were created by the author as the result of his personal spiritual journaling. His stories offer great insights into the modern life of man and women, their inner struggle, and problems they face in their search for meaning and true spirituality. The external influences of the corrupted individuals and society, as well as main reasons and internal sources of corruption, could be found in our closest surroundings. These stories, in a nutshell, deal with the current lack of morality, truth, and spiritual guidance in everyday life, as well in male-female relationships. Vladimir sheds the light on possible underlying problems and their true origin in human misconceptions, blurred moral vision, and false beliefs.

The first part of the book 'Man and Women' covers a current variety of moral issues in life and relationships and to the point. Author’s witty and sometimes satirical examples and comments from the real life and from his own experience offer valuable guidance in spiritual, moral and relationships matters. He points to the ego and lack of knowledge and faith in Self and God as main sources of human misery. His tone is in a role of provoking the readers’ thoughts on the capacity to grow spiritually and believe in Divine Self inside of every living being. In author’s mirror, you can see the reflection of all faces of humanity that we meet in everyday life. This ugly sneering face of reality is teasing all of us to revise our current relationships and true nature of our motives for acting. The stories help us realize the shortcomings and help us recognize our way out of the jungle of modern misconceptions and virtual reality that leads us only away from the true spiritual path of Self and Divinity discovery as well true human values in common everyday life.

So, it is not easy finding answers. It takes the time to spiritually grow and find your true purpose. This reading is just an author’s gift to help you on your way

of discovery. Keep your eyes and your mind open and bear in mind that “Not all who wander are lost”.

Maja Djolovic, English language professional, freelance translator and writer.

Vladimir Zivkovic is the man of the soul

Biljana Obradovic, poetess and the writer of several novels from Valjevo will tell us more about the book: Vladimir Zivkovic is a man dedicated to the lifelong study of the soul. His writing reveals calmness, consistency in his path to God, as the only light that sustains the inner being. I really like his voice which pays special respect to everyone, especially to girls and women. By reading his works related to the faith in God, and therefore in you, I realized that the path of knowledge is difficult but fruitful. I realized that badly directed ego might destroy even the greatest minds, as well as biggest believers. Vladimir talks about the modesty life and balanced desires. Thus he shares his knowledge with others, to make them deeply think about the life they live nowadays, in the modern times.

I hope he will publish more books to shed light on the path of the just and truly believing men. With due respect of this writing, I wish you success and a large number of readers!

ABOUT THE BOOK

This book is the result of four years’ text writing. However, writing is a result of many years of spiritual practice and experience. Each text is a whole in itself. This text collection is made with the intention of helping people find the answers to questions that bother them, and still, this questions and answers define a teaching for each individual while following it, to improve their spirituality and achieve more happiness, love, joy and goodness.

I have never before wanted to publish a book. Recently, some events and experiences convinced me of the purpose of sharing my insights and experience with other people. I must say that I'm not a particularly gifted writer, and everyone must understand that this is more informative reading.

Many examples that I have presented in this book are truth, and many of them represent the state of a human soul. I leave the opportunity to the reader to determine the character of the examples represented. Also, there are many examples with the answer to the question or the problem itself. However, there are situations where it is the best for a reader to find the answers on its own.

This book deals with self-criticism, and further on with self-healing. Also, many sections focus on male and female love relationships. The main reason is that most of the people want to have a loving relationship, to be happy and grow spiritually. Therefore, questions about love relationships, self-healing and recovering one’s own values are important because they are closely related to the spirituality of the contemporary man.

I took part in many spiritual activities and had significant spiritual experiences. Still, this book is not dealing with those same experiences, in general, but with

things that every person should and must know.

I want to point out that this book is a great everyday reading. Thus, generally, this book is meant for reading on a daily basis. It could also be used while praying to God, as a reference to the question that bothers you.

Experiences help you achieve comprehension. Each text in this book is based on the vision, the comprehension, or spiritual experience. Therefore, it takes the time to adopt the truth presented in every text of the book.

If anyone doubts the truthfulness of the revelations in this book, my advice is that the person should check first for the justification of its suspicion.

Words may lie, but actions will always tell the truth.

If I am telling the truth, the truth will reveal itself in the world. So, do not be hasty. Always check for the message of the story that you are reading, and to what extent it is manifested in the life itself and in the world.

BOOK NO.1: “RETURN TO GOD: MEN AND WOMEN”

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INTRODUCTION

Divine Self is related to a universal soul which is inside all living beings.

Self is also Divine Self but it is the single entity inhabiting a particular individual.

The main characteristic of the Modern Era is that man has estranged himself from the God. Some contemporaries practice spirituality, but God doesn’t appear in their spiritual activities. Likewise, some psychiatrists treat their patients, without knowledge of the purpose of their living, and without a goal that will ensure their lasting happiness.

This is the age of false spirituality and mentally disordered psychiatrists. Still, this is the time to get free from misconception and prejudice. So, no matter how much people went astray, as much is better that they recover their spirituality. It is only essential to recognize misconceptions, adopt goodness, and return to God.

What’s the problem here?

Because of their grievances, not only do people not want to return to God, but they would also like to show that He doesn’t exist. That is the common malice, as an effect of being hurt. It is similar to a child that cries, and no matter which toy it gets, it keeps throwing it away and crying even louder. It doesn’t even bother taking a toy, playing with it or being pleased.

Thus, the spite is an act of betraying yourself, others and happiness.

This book offers many answers to questions that many other books may not offer. However, this book also encourages readers to search for some enlightened emotions, principles, and joys in themselves, as well as for some important answers on their own.

Returning to God is returning to oneself. Returning to oneself is recovering happiness and love which further implies regaining self-value and eternity.

I am aware that many people consider my philosophy disquieting. So, what does it matter if you have the opportunity to recover your principles? Is it really important that you have been troubled, and if it bothers you because your vanity or your ego has been hurt?

Current Modernity makes people believe in evil and ignorance, and associate them with freedom. There is no freedom without real connection with God. No man can be truly happy without the presence of God. Modernity doesn’t equal to constantly having new half-witted ideas. Modernity means to always re-create a new and simpler path to reunite with God.

In this book, the effort was made to make intelligible both the contemporariness of man and his quest for happiness and God. It means that the book is full of inconveniences for the common man who has lived egoistically since his childhood. Here lies the misfortune of the modern man. He evades inconveniences and overlooks that evading brings misfortune.

That is why I don’t bother to promote some particular spirituality. That is because I know that all people are one and the same God. That implies that each man is deep inside perfect and spiritual. This story is about common spiritual life, with the fulfillment of desires and in connection with God.

No one will fail to reach God, and no one will reach it by violence, sin, or hypocrisy.

Thus salvation is in joyful living and continual spiritual growing.

Therefore, the purpose of life is in finding Divine Self, which is the God inside you, and in the experience of Divine Self i.e. Self.

Now is the moment to disperse the first misconception. God isn’t revealed only by people who deal with spirituality, faith, and religion. God is mainly reached by people who initially live a common life, work for money, create families and fulfill their goals. Being focused on God, love and joy are growing, and everything false disappears on its own.

That is why you should know that the happiness is in your hands. It’s found in the quest for God, regardless of the way of your life.

Therefore, basically, the chosen ones don’t exist. The man has a choice of its own whether he will be chosen by God itself.

Chapter I – MY WORKS

A PREDESTINED WINNER

It happens that man fights a battle.

It happens that God knows that the man is going to win.

Furthermore, it happens that God has the intention of giving that man reap hook for weed.

What does that mean?

The ones that weed out are favored by God.

Why?

Because God knows that there are many people who grow weed even while sleeping.

Thus, God respects those who weed out. God makes such men invincible.

Keep this in mind.

Not all that glitters is gold and not every ''fool'' is looser.

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THE AGE OF EVIL AND OBSCENITY

Many people are miserable and lonely in today’s world of evil and obscenity. Those who live for fame, power, wealth and sex, are about to discover how miserable they are.


When a person discovers that he/she is unhappy, he/she needs help. No one can really help such kind of people. Many say that love heals. That is, mainly, the truth. Still, I have to mention, miserable man is a danger to himself because the love of others can’t heal him. Healing is found in discovering oneself. Even if the whole world loves you, that doesn’t mean anything to you, if you are unhappy, and you don’t love yourself.

This book is based on my personal experience. I have been through everything that I am writing about. So, I rarely preach someone else’s teaching, although something like that is possible if I consider it beneficial. I believe I could help many people because I have experienced revelations myself.

However, I’m not like many spiritualists who tie the people to themselves. My goal is to offer direction to each person to reach God and healing. Happiness and self-respect of the individual depend on the relationship with God. Thus my goal is to help people in the proper way. That means that everyone has self-healing deep inside, and I can help anyone accomplish it. God is perfect. Life is perfect likewise if God exists in human life.

This book should teach you not to be ashamed of your wishes, urges, and ions. They exist to teach you how to use them, and how to overcome them through suitable, positive experiences. Misfortune and loneliness of the new age are the results of falsely living urges and ions. Many say that everything is created for man, but many have forgotten that everything is beneficial for man only if used correctly and morally, in a Godly manner.

Thus we reach absurd, where many nice songs have been sung, but due to vulgarity and nakedness, everyone’s mind and heart are poisoned, needlessly. That is because sex and nakedness are given more significance than needed. Only because sex and nakedness are placed where they don’t belong at all. Thus, sinners don’t want to it that it’s not freedom and not genuine living of urges and ions, but the sort of weakness and cowardice, which results in loss of dignity and love. No one explained to those people that it’s not possible to find happiness without God, love, and dignity- chances are literally zero percents.

Thus, you could see evil and doubt everywhere. Many people live in fear and sadness. I’m willing to offer them help. Especially to depressed ones. I’ll help by revealing the truth to them, and by pointing out their mistakes. When everyone reveals the truth and feels the presence of God, everyone will be saved, even before they realize it. So, the path to God itself leads to the wholeness of life, happiness, and the most important purpose of life, self-respect, and self-worth. To those people happiness, freedom and love have been predestined.

For me, God isn’t a mere word which many use without knowing It. The commandment is that you shall not take the Lord’s name in vain. However, I’ll constantly refer to it in this book.

Why?

Because I’ll not mention His name in vain.

God is within me, and God is within everyone. That’s the truth that every person will discover.

Happy self-healing, and rejoice!

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THE FREEDOM OF THOUGHT

The history of mankind shows that people in the past weren’t allowed to have their own opinion. Actually, they could have it, but in the most of the cases weren’t allowed to express it. In that way, despotism and hegemony ruled. Those in power had the exclusive rights and control, so people had to succumb to their will.

Why?

Mainly because the conflict of beliefs often leads to real clash, and even to the armed conflicts of unprecedented levels.

Many have been fighting for freedom of thought and speech. It’s called democracy today. That’s why people have been going to the great extremes. Everyone thinks that has right to do, say, and think whatever he/she wants. Such ideology is absolutely incorrect.

The truth is what’s important, not the belief. That further implies that many beliefs are wrong and untrue.

Take prostitution, for example. One might think that prostitution pays off. However, regardless of the thought and freedom of which man has right, the more it cheats, the promiscuous person gets even more miserable. This is an indisputable truth. Many people can deny it, and many may have a different belief, however, no man can be happy by violating intimacy and dignity, which stands in fact for the grave violation of the soul.

Here we are a step closer to what I want to explain.

Freedom isn’t to think and do what you want. Freedom means to love, and have the capability of being good, and therefore doing good deeds. When a man does evil, it means that even his thoughts are evil, so his thinking isn’t correct. That still means that person who thinks incorrectly, also has all the right to keep his/her thoughts to himself/herself and not to poison other people’s minds.

Certainly, despotism is not good if it is improper ideology. In that case, you have to listen to someone who’s unjust. On the other hand, it’s very destructive to use the freedom of thought and speech to live dishonestly, and poisoning the minds and hearts of other people.

So, everyone has the right to think and do what they want. However, this is my pledge. I pledge peace, love, justice and freedom. In case someone doesn’t like that, it’s not my problem. Rightness is the mother of wisdom for man striving towards God.

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THE EXPERIENCE OF GOD

The experience of God is both the experiences of happiness and love. If in the certain moment stops being that, then it’s the experience of perfection.


I’m often explaining that the presence of God is essential for the experience of true happiness. You need God’s presence so that you don’t feel lonely. The presence of God is essential for self-worth.

God is joy itself, the rest are just the paths leading to it.

The man who limits himself limits its own mind, thus he wants everything to be easily explained, to be proven and to be put into its own place. Therefore, giving spontaneous advice to many people to nurture God's presence indicates a tendency towards madness and delusions.

However, happiness is an experience. God is experienced. The world is experienced. If you haven’t experienced God, and you believe that it can be fabricated, that only shows that you haven’t experienced true happiness. Every man experiences its mundane happiness. However, that happiness isn’t complete. This is just fleeting happiness and leaves you with the feeling of frustration, disappointment and, which is the worst, with the feeling of loneliness and rejection when it’s over.

Why is that so?

God is perfection. Experiencing God, you experience harmony. That harmony gives you feeling of happiness, joy, and love to melt your heart. That means that the God’s presence is magnificent and vigorous. In this way, your consciousness can’t be low, even if the worst things have happened in life.

So, the conclusion can be made in this case, that someone who’s never had experience of God has neither experienced true happiness, nor love (i.e. experienced it incompletely).

Why do I explain all this?

People plan their future. However, this plan comes down to something that’s generally not the future, but planning how to live life until death, and to

their ego. In this way, the man isn’t really planning its own future, but the future for someone he isn’t, for his mind and body. Soul acquires body in order to acquire its own awareness through earthly experience. That’s why the only real plan is achieving awareness of God i.e. self. Everything else additionally comes, and if achieved, it must be done in a proper manner, otherwise, you’re in a big trouble, you will be left without God, purposeful life, and what is the worst – the loneliness will set in.

The message is following:

Take your God everywhere with you. Pray to Him and talk to Him. Entrust Him with things that bother you. For the start, take notice of which your prayers and problems were heard and granted by Him. That will help you develop certain unity with God. You are a lucky person if you have God’s presence.

God’s presence can’t be faked. If it doesn’t exist, there is only a lie. The same that you can’t fake happiness and that you’re not lonely.

Here we can see once again how the lack of faith in God reflects a lack of happiness and love and therefore lack of goodness and liveliness in man.

Therefore, when the man is dead, he can explain how the air is inhaled on Earth on the other world, but no one can understand it before being born and breathing air. Likewise, No one can know the experience of God until he has chosen goodness, love, happiness and His presence.

Evidently, here is confirmed that many are blind for obvious, while they pretend that something else is obviously bad and impossible, that certainly isn’t even

close to truth.

According to that, ignorant is the man that denies God, therefore himself, her/his life and Self. Such person is delusional. The evidence is following: the absence of happiness, the presence of sadness, fear of death and loneliness that such person can’t drive away or hide from oneself.

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DESTROYING DEMONS

Each advanced soul can find and destroy a demon.


It’s just difficult until you’ve spotted the first one.

When you’ve spotted the first one, you get scared like you’ve never been before. That happens because it’s ugly, terrible and evil. You think that demon’s going to eat you.

Nevertheless, there’s no way back. You have to face it. It’s emerged from the waters and attacked you. In the beginning, the demon is stronger and fiercer than you, but while you fight, he’s growing weaker.

You destroy it completely in the end.

Enlightened by the victory, you realize a thing:

You came to win. Your destiny is to win.

Therefore, main enemies are not demons that you made and nurtured for ages. True enemies are pessimism, skepticism, and disbelief in God and in eternity.

A piece of advice:

Believe in God. If you do, believe even more. It will lead you to unfathomable heights, achieving true victories, one after another.

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THE YOUNG IT ON

Nowadays it can be often heard that today’s youth is much worse than in recent years, and even much worse than in the older times.


If that’s true, it doesn’t mean that young people aren’t good. For, while growing up they were significantly influenced by their elders. If the older are bad and not improving, then younger are even worse. There isn’t much philosophy. That further implies that if the young are worse, the most responsibility should be assumed by an elder. Certainly, that one’s disposition isn’t determined by the individual itself. So, what child has experienced in the family, that’s carried out onto the street and into the world. Therefore, affinities and ambitions are created in the family and there’s a great influence of the parents, as well as of others and society.

Lately, the entire society is deviant and there’s no wonder that children can’t have much good and valuable experience in real life.

The news is full of accidents, immorality, gossip and fabrications. The basic conception of the press itself and television illustrates the mentality and interests of people.

Here I don’t state that young are not guilty because they’re learned to inflict loss and violation to society. Here I want to say that it’s irresponsible not to understand that the old are directly responsible for such state, and take the most part of the responsibility for that.

If the child had been taught by parents to do harm to itself and society, then even a true spiritual teacher could not easily help such child. Wretchedness was ed on to children. Neither children respect their parents, nor elderly. Children suffer as well as the society. This is because no one understands that life is based on five basic human values (love, peace, non-violence, truth and morality), that are essential to prosperity and happiness.

Only an ignorant person could teach children egoism. Afterward, the same simpleton doesn’t want to take its responsibility. It often happens that parents complain about their children. They refuse to it that they didn’t put enough faith in God, in themselves, and in their children, to bring them up appropriately, and teach them to live for themselves, and not for egoism and selfishness.

Only 10 years ago some spiritual paths made sense. Many made those paths leading astray, as they thought to themselves how extra spiritual they are, so they know so much and make progress. Egoism has grown so much that older are destroying mainly everything valuable created in the past. It’s bad if the tradition made people narrow-minded. However, it’s much worse when people have no regard for tradition, and when the old, good, valuable, and forever sustainable is degraded and rejected.

I explain this because many new innovations have been made that society doesn’t benefit from, but just enlarge someone’s pockets and buttocks. That’s how I am always newly struck with even younger people who foster such philosophy. There are no traces of goodness and mercy. Those come for help, but they can’t be helped. As we know, the person drowning must lend a hand to be pulled out of the water. It’s not enough just to complain, ask for help, and the savior will lend the hand. This further implies that nobody has to come to ask for help if he is not aware that he’s the only one who can help himself.

Is someone earning payment for you, or you earn it on your own? Does anyone eat for you? In which way you think someone else can pay off for your debts? What kind of belief, and what kind of philosophy is that? Isn’t it strange that such Utopia doesn’t exist, and the majority of people still think that they have right to fornicate, do wickedness and evil and that someone will help them in the end?

At this point ego will ask: – So why bother to ask for help, if I have to do it all on my own?

You don’t have to do it all alone, certainly many can help you, but you must allow being helped, you must accept consequences of your doings, and you must pay off all wrong doings.

That means that many people need help with instruction because they haven’t been appropriately raised. If you are taught good manners, you’ll live happily and in peace. If you’re rude, you’ll be miserable and lonely. Sigh, no one can save you from that, not even God.


Help itself is in giving direction and instruction.

It’s true that stubborn man can’t learn anything. Destiny will teach him/her. Thus, not all are stubborn and definitely, not all are badly taught. Some are badly instructed because the worse ones taught them, while they had pretended or been deluded that they knew.

Chapter II –NEGATIVITY OF MEN AND WOMEN

WOMAN–SAMURAI

In the physical plane, there’s only one Universe.

In the astral plane, there are an infinite number of worlds.

In one of those worlds, in a desert, there’s a hall. In the hall, there are all kinds of samurai warriors.

However, the most striking is a woman–samurai, who’s always ready to sacrifice and to give her life, and it seems for nothing.


Woman–samurai is not pathetic.

Why?

For the reason, that her zeal for sacrifice is a God’s gift. Her fearlessness in

sacrifice in itself is a reward.

Contemporary men are blind. Looking for forms and ions, they overlook dedicated wife. This woman loves without reservation, and sacrifices for the man.

The commitment of the woman’s the heart of love relationships. Without these qualities, every relationship is imaginary.

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WAR

In one of the astral planes, there’s a place that is constantly at war. In that area, all kind of beings is fighting with deadly weapons as contemporary scientists can’t even imagine.

When I had seen what kind of horrific machines they were killing themselves, from the very spot I jumped into the abyss at once.

Then I realized how cramped was this small parcel of land. While I was falling, I saw the whole Universe beneath me. I could choose where to fall.


This world, as it really exists, is a human counterfeit.

People are attached to their ego and they lead countless wars in the confined space.

So, jump into the abyss. Leave the fight and hatred. Don’t be afraid. God will allow you the freedom you want. Still, you have to give up on the evil and look for happiness.

Why?

Because the God gives what you seek.

Modern women look for wealth, money, and power in men. They don’t consider if a man has given up on violence and contempt. Afterward, they’re wondering, how they’ve been destroyed and ruined by man.

That is because they don’t look for a man that is nonviolent, and who is ready to jump into the abyss for them.

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THE WALL OF PRIDE

A girl really loved a man. And he got to love her secretly. However, his friends that were against her were the main obstacle. Thus he had no courage to it that. On the outside, everything looked as if the girl wasn’t worth it.

On one occasion, he rejected her rudely, letting her know that she’s not worth it.


His friends applauded since he turned out macho. His parents have been telling him how special and smart he was. He could brag around, because he had refused to love someone, and it turned out that he’s more ''reputable''.


Pride is one of the worst traits. It makes you look good among fake friends but makes your inner world have very poor and pathetic.

Being proud- that means being a dead man before the death of the body.

So you better think twice, how much pride has taken a toll on your life so far?

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TIME EATERS (Aka soul crushers)

There are many people that behave as if the soul could be destroyed.


Today many people jump from one into another relationship. They are, assumedly, in search for “the one”. However, such people can’t help themselves taking someone’s dignity, as well as time.

What’s this about?

When the love relationship is over, then the following things are certain:

As first, you hurt someone, as well as yourself.

As the second, you took away someone’s dignity, because this person carries injuries and disappointment inside, as the relationship should be started with someone else. And how could he explain his previous relationship and sexual relationship to someone else?

Also, failed relationship means lost hope, trust and time.

If you’re keeping someone waiting, you’ve wasted its time. If you’ve cheated on someone, you wasted its time. In case you have abandoned someone, you took its time. It always takes time for healing. And time is God. Who doesn’t respect other people’s time and freedom, he also has no respect for God, therefore he can neither respect others, nor himself.

For that reason, beware of people who’ve left lots of relationships behind, and those who don’t respect other’s personality and time. Those are time eaters. They would like to be soul crushers. Luckily, God exists. No one can destroy the soul.


If you realize that time is God, you’ll protect both yourself and others easily, so you won’t accept sexual relationships irresponsibly, and you won’t stain others or your dignity.

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A MALE HELPLESSNESS

When it comes to human weakness, man uses force in his helplessness and weakness.


A weak and helpless person uses force just when he can’t be braver, either smarter. Such person has poorly developed its mind and heart. And in that way, he wants to control world and people. As soon as the person with a huge ego and complexes thinks that he’ll turn out sheep or weak, then he starts using force. This using of force just confirms his weakness and he’s even not aware of that.

Why?

Because he’s occupied with covering up of this that he knows to carry inside. If he wins by using force, this kind of person hopes to cover up weakness and cowardice. Otherwise, how do you think that stubbornness and resistance originated? A normal person will always go with a peaceful solution to the problems. A normal person always looks after other’s people interests, and afterward after its own. A weak one is afraid that someone will deceive or win him. Thus brute doesn’t think about reasons or consequences of his evil. He doesn’t want to face his weakness, so he uses force. There are few people who use force to defend weaker. Nowadays, stronger are bullying weaker and virtuous. Then, instead to defend weak, stronger team up against weaker, because the cowardice greatly increased, as well as evil in man, so ten stronger people are afraid of someone who is not able to beat anyone.

Have you heard the joke where four men have beaten one man? Some man was witnessing a fight, and thinking to himself whether to interfere. At some point, he ed the fight and said: – Look, we have bitten up the guy together.

That’s not the joke anymore, but a harsh reality.

Therefore, the only real disability is the spiritual weakness. This disability is

starting to cause irreparable harm.

For that reason, always pay attention to man’s actions. If someone wants to dominate, that doesn’t reflect his reason and kindness. Domination is the form of manipulation. That form of manipulation stems from human complexes and distrust in oneself and God. Nowadays there’s widely accepted false conviction that manipulation can cure complexes, and thus achieve happiness. Not only that is it cowardly, but it’s very primitive conviction. If you believe that you’re wise and brave, why would you like to dominate someone and impose your will?

The described type of domination is common mainly for man. They impose it both on men and women. Domination is typical for weak. Mentally unstable man thinks that he has to use force.


Using force and manipulation is showing how much the other side is intolerable, i.e. the one that you want to dominate over. In that way, you subconsciously show how much the other side is better, wiser and smarter from you because if it wasn’t so, you wouldn’t be bothered and have to use the force (in desperation, fear, and weakness).

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LUST

If love had to do with personal appearance and beauty, then mothers with ugly children wouldn’t love their offspring.


If someone doesn’t know love, it can learn it from mothers.

Parents and children are linked by karma and they hurt each other very often. Though a child can be ugly, evil and sick, and mother will still love him/her. That means that present relationships between men and women are mainly based on lust and interest, not on love. Here I just want to point out that love between partners should exist and has nothing to do with looks or material state.

The man usually gets excited visually, and woman tactile. Therefore women that dress provocatively are evil and unfaithful. The man who take advantage of every chance to touch women, and meaning several different women, are unfaithful and irresponsible men.

What this men and women have in common?

It’s common that they don’t have respect for themselves, so for that reason, they don’t respect the opposite sex, so they take advantage of their position.

Which position?

They take advantage of the same position that allows them to dress provocatively, to touch and seduce someone. Therefore, I always repeat that seducing is trait related to people with complexes that don’t know love. Their success in seducing is very important to them because they have low selfesteem.

Therefore, Don Juans are never satisfied, nor happy. They exactly have evidence of being unfaithful. They know how much their victims are unfaithful. Why do I say, victims? There is no love relationship in seducing. There’s only seducer and the one that’s been misled. They are constantly taking turns in changing their roles. The victim becomes a despot and vice versa. Thus seducer never respects neither himself nor his victims. It's because he cheats, he doesn’t love those who cheats on, because what kind of person is the one that is tricked and led into bed by seducer?

What am I explaining here?

Today, when a girl looks good, she’s noticed by the most of the men for her looks. And if such girl succumbs to temptation and has so-called ''boyfriends'', there’s growing contempt inside over the time, and results in her inability to surrender to love.

There’s no wonder that modern girls dress up so scarcely and seductive. Such attire is the consequence of girls’ unconscious revenge. Most girls deliberately provoke lust in men, unconsciously, or out of revenge, because they’re not respected as human beings, but as hunks of good meat. A naive modern man thinks that they’re doing their best for him. Such man is not realizing that provocative dressing is often the outcome of subconscious contempt that woman carries inside in the same manner as lack of self-worth and self-respect.

A woman in love hides her charms only for her man i.e. spouse, because she knows intimacy, loyalty, and trust, and knows its values.

I’m not accusing women in this presentation. It might be even said that I defend them. Nowadays hardly any man could understand the misfortune of the woman that wants to love and be loved, but she only comes across the men who want to sexually abuse her, while they shamelessly lie how much they love and respect her. However, the real truth is usually that even if she was ugly, that man wouldn’t just dislike her, but he would also be disgusted by her.

Thus happens that contemporary women have to make effort to seduce men. They hadn’t been left any other choice.

Poor men are in the similar position, which, if they are noticed for their physical appearance when women see that they are poor, they turn bad. What a pity!


If someone doesn’t respect you, don’t mess with him. If someone tries to seduce you, run as far as you can. If you are seducing, think twice about yourself.

This should help you learn that it’s wrong for a woman to be provocative in public and that only unfaithful woman thinks that it’s good for man to take initiative when it comes to physical . There’s no wonder that many have eventually made the conclusion that they have contempt for the opposite sex, and they’ve never felt love.

Unfortunately, those who still haven’t recognized the truth will be unfortunate in love relationships.

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MALE UNAVAILABILITY

The emotional unavailability of man is often proportional to the unfaithfulness of a woman.


Men have always been more closed and tougher type of person when it comes to tenderness and openness in heart matters. However, modern man is extremely unavailable, far from being tolerable. Of course, this fault is closely connected with man. However, partners in the love relationship share the responsibility equally. Thus unavailability of the man is certainly related to the character of women. So, male unavailability is not a real problem. He was born as a man to learn to open up and surrender emotionally with the help of his woman. There is a problem if man never opens. So if he doesn’t open, his partner is equally responsible.

At this point, I have to point out modern female brutality. This brutality is found in secretive infidelity. The rule is that woman is to choose with whom she will engage in a sexual relationship. If she has sex with anyone outside of the marriage (even with so called boyfriend), her loyalty with time wears out, as well as her dignity.

One could think that dignity is equal to a number of partners one person had a sexual relationship with. That is not exactly the truth. Dignity disappears with committing sin. When it totally disappears, happiness and love also do. Loneliness and misfortune take their place. Thus a number of love partners reflect how much time and effort are necessary for man to heal. Many partners mean more injuries, wasted time for recovering, and more misery and unhappiness (very often sickness).

Male unavailability brings women loneliness and unhappiness.

So, why women look for unavailable men? The answer is: to learn what they do to others, while they think how emotional and clever they are. Neither man can sincerely open if he can’t rely on his woman. Women nowadays ask men to be aware and open, but they actually close the man with their secretive unfaithfulness they naively think to hide and act out their honesty.

Therefore many men close further as women press them more. If some open by force, overcoming fear and complexes, they disappoint even more about that. An unfaithful woman takes advantage of man’s sincerity, even unintentionally. This means that men could manage to open their feelings timely if they had been really loved. Because, men relies greatly upon woman’s fidelity, which women don’t understand, because they value sex differently, and very often completely wrong.

Women value faithfulness according to feelings they have, but their feelings are not sincere frequently. It means that they do not pay attention to purity of the body and sexual organs, which goes hand in hand with love and fidelity. So many women imagine that they love (although they sleep with other partners!), and wonder about how closed men are?


Men are responsible for their openness in relationships. Thus, any normal woman should know if her man is not opening, then it has to do with her character. In this case, I don’t talk about a relationship where man doesn’t love his woman, but he is with her for an unknown reason. Here I think about men that truly love their women.

Women having love relationships out of and before marriage, flirting and arousing jealousy, become extremely insensitive and evil in time, so they find evil men, or at least the men who do not open up and leave them deep inside abandoned and lonely.

So, heal yourself and you will find a good partner or your current one will change. Also, find closeness in self-healing, and happiness and love in a relationship.

Be careful when a woman complains that man do not open to her or cheat on her. That shows that such woman is unfaithful and manipulative, but she doesn’t see it, and no one even bothers to tell her. If someone is interested in such woman, discussion and closure are necessary. No one should think that need for clarity and safety in a relationship is cowardice. The real truth is when someone thinks that one shouldn’t strive for security in the relationship, is actually arrogance, which is the result of real cowardice.

As we see, having a bad partner is also a blessing, because thanks to his help you learn about loyalty and happiness. It’s all matter of choice.

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IMPORTANCE OF FEELINGS

Many people nowadays live as if the sex and money are the most important things in life. Materialism is rapidly increasing nowadays. Though, there are people that think that only feelings matter.


The feelings are important. Although, it is not reasonable that everything in your life depends on feelings. That means that if everything depends on them, then there is no wonder that you feel unhappy. And if you are unhappy, what kind of feelings you could have?

This means that the people that think that feelings are important also live with the illusion that everything has to be good and perfect in their lives. That is how attachment and egoism are developed. This is how developed attachment to family, sex, money, children, pets, comfort and more...

Here is raised the question: how and why is that so?

That is because if your feelings matter so much to you, then you are not interested in the deeper meaning of something. Something happens to you, and you don’t think about the significance of events, and why something happens to

you, about the way to spiritually grow and become happy, but you think to yourself: – Poor me, I am so unhappy! – That is egoism itself that results in misery and misfortune.

When someone dies, people don’t consider why that is beneficial, they think about how to end their attachment and how ruined, tricked and injured they are. And why is that so?

The reason is that people consider themselves pathetic, and depending too much on feelings and pleasure. Love is an integral part of life, and love is free, unattached, and everyone can live it. The main problem is that many don’t live it, so they think it should be a gift from heaven.

What do I really point out here?

Men related to pleasure and easiness fosters selfishness, abandons love, while he believes that love is really important to him.

Also, the love feeling is not the only feeling.

The real trouble is that people find attachment more important, not the love. In that way a man thinks that God is cruel because he created suffering and death, not realizing that suffering and death are inevitable in creation. That is self-pity. Thus people that care about feelings, don’t actually live love, but the worst selfishness. They don’t live for love (although many won’t trust this), and, of course, they can’t perceive underlying reasons of incidents, suffering, and pain, they don’t understand the world around them, they can’t accept the world and people as they really are, and they believe as if they live for love and that they

know love.

Thus, they live for selfishness, attachment, pleasure and belittled feelings, while they believe that they know love and live for it. Specifically, they live for love, but neither they have ever found it, nor lived it.

Some people really don’t understand opposite sex at all, not their partner, and they think as if they know something about love.

It is hard to explain the things I present here.

Nowadays, women mainly glorify their feelings. Yet, exactly these women are lazy to deserve and get real and true love and positive feelings. They live insensitivity, infidelity, and self-destruction, while they are not interested in real reasons of creation and search for God. The question is if something brings misfortune, and you imagine that it brings happiness, does that mean that your happiness is going to be lasting? And is possible for fabricated truth to become reality, i.e. real truth?


Love feeling is important feeling. Though, besides love, there are many other binding and destructive feelings. Many modern men and women confuse these destructive feelings for love. They are so overwhelmed with the importance of their feelings that they are overlooking living egoism and selfishness in reality, and not love. That is manifested through bad luck in love relationships and through sufferings reflecting the lack of understanding of life, creation, and God.

In simple words, no one has right to be evil and unfaithful and make excuses with ''love feelings''. Because, this is, of course, hypocrisy and lie. You can deceive yourself and people on the secular, but you can’t deceive God and karma.

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IRRATIONALITY (Aka short-sightedness)

Once there was a group of homosexuals who moved across forests and dark uninhabited places and raped men.

One night, in some park, there were two youngsters that talked. They got surrounded and provoked by a group of homosexuals who intended to commit premeditated wrongdoing. One of them managed to slip and run away. They let him go, anyway, because they liked better the other guy.

The guy stuck with them said:

– Please, let me go. My friend is very dangerous, he will come back.

They laughed. The young man said:

– I am serious. He won’t beat you up. He will kill you all.

They laughed even more.

The young man that ran away actually went to his car for a weapon, he came back, and he slaughtered them all while they were whining and begging to spare their lives. He killed them all cruelly, with no mercy.

This example, which is similarly repeating every day in the world, is very instructive and brings many teachings:

– As first, evil people that do evil deeds have no common sense. They are not able to judge neither man nor situation.

–Secondly, justice is always carried out, although many things in the world seem cruel and unjustly.

– As third, all people are equal in front of God, and you are considered crazy if you treat everyone fairly.

Thus, watch out for other people’s reactions to your actions? Are people afraid of you and if they cry because of you? The manner in which you affect people today, they will affect your life in future.

Homosexuals mentioned here were not only cruelly slaughtered in this life, but

they will be raped many times in the next lives and without their knowing why.


An only man close to God and has an inner connection with God could know what he can, and what can’t, what is allowed, and what not. People that do evil are not aware of that. That is because they are led by ignorance throughout the life. A timid man is led by fear. That is not good. An evil man is led by complexes. That is also not good. Evil people use other people weaknesses to satisfy their urges and selfish interests. Such people always got tricked and hurt. Afterward, in the next life, they have to pay off karmic debts.

For that reason, cowardice, ignorance, and misfortune are one and same. They actually do not go separately.

Don’t be afraid of evil people and their actions. Be afraid for yourself and what you do, and you know it is not good for sure.

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NOT LISTENING

The common feature of ego is that it likes to think that it knows and can do everything. It likes to have all and is proud of it. Thus strengthening ego brings loneliness. The more man thinks that he knows better, he gets lonelier.


When a person imagines that he/she is smarter than others, it develops a bad personal trait, and that is -not listening. One thinks: why I should listen to anyone when I know the best? Such person will trample everyone by not listening, especially himself.

Naturally, at this point, I should explain the term of not listening. Here, I don’t think about many bad-mannered and uneducated that you really shouldn’t listen to. Here I refer to close people with whom you are sharing your life and time with. These are people that you are inevitably ed with karma, that you could resolve, of course, only if you listen to what others say.

Though, men are actually prone to not listening. Men are those who especially want to be wise and know everything. The funny thing is that men don’t listen to their women when it is really necessary. Also, they hear only what their ego wants to hear. If something doesn’t suit them, then the others are stupid, and that are certainly, their partners.

Here is the question raised: why are you with someone if that someone is stupid and you are always smarter than him/her? Should standards be raised in such case? What kind of meaning has person about himself if he believes he is in the relationship with someone worse and less smart than himself?

As evident, here question results in a principle. A person not listening to his closest one has an inferiority complex, so he presents himself above others in order to feel superior to others. The person that thrives from superiority can neither have partner nor friends, in its true sense. For true partner and friends, it is necessary to accept them and to show them recognition. Showing recognition is the quality of the wise. Why not appreciate what is valuable in others? Why

not appreciate partner and friends, because only ignorant doesn’t know that those are the persons in his life that actually enrich the life? If you show your recognition to them, you show it to yourself too, because you have chosen those persons and let them into your life.

And what does the man who makes friendships and love relationships without listening to anyone, and pretending that others are not good enough to do anything good? Man thus shows too little respect for himself, and lack of selfknowledge.

Therefore, you should never build your relationship on superiority. Especially not in the way I have just described. Man doesn’t listen to anyone, even turns his friends into enemies. Thus, it isn’t the only problem that you are going to stay alone and lonely, unwillingly. The problem is also that you are going to have more and more enemies in the world, and you are going to have issues with many.

As we see, it is no wonder that some people think that there is nothing good in the world, and how all people are evil and cruel. One of the reasons for such experience is not listening, i.e. imagining that you are better and smarter than others.


One of the main reasons of man’s bad luck in love relationships and friendships is not listening. Not listening is pure hatred for yourself and your loved ones. Watch out for such people! And if you experience something like this with a friend or with a partner, be sure to discuss and resolve. The fact is that the person who is not listening has a problem with self-esteem and contempt of which must be cured as soon as possible.

ABOUT EXPECTATIONS (Aka, evil man – flexible exploiter of women)

Girls are extremely emotional beings. They like to indulge other people. Many men are abusing this female trait. With the help of a true case, I will try to present it, too. In this story to onlookers, it seems that ''poor'' man is the victim. The story goes as follows:

A boy met a girl. The boy liked the girl immediately. The girl didn’t love that man. The man noticed that she doesn’t like him. However, despite the situation, two of them started going out.

You ask yourselves, how?

Well, nicely. He expected that she will get to love him, and she expected that she will get to love him.

What they both didn’t know is that the love is not expected. Love simply exists or doesn’t exist. If you expect love today, you will expect the love tomorrow. Why? For love can’t be found in ungodly actions.

Thus, when you don’t love someone, don’t be a hypocrite. it the truth. Don’t settle for principles that are humiliating to yourself and others.


It’s better for a girl to stay single than be with the man that she doesn’t love.

Why?

Thus, such kind of person is robbing her of happiness and dignity.

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FAKING, UNDERMINING, DEPRAVING (Aka, universal example to take with you)

Girls are communicative beings. Girls like true friendships. However, nowadays there is a problem of the vast majority of men taking advantage of this female quality. In order to explain this, I will use a real-life example. A story goes as follows:

A girl has secretly loved a man for a long time. Since she has suffered failures in previous relationships, she was afraid to let her feelings be known publicly. Thus she pretended not to be interested in that man.

However, somewhere nearby, there was always a man who noticed that. When he had realized that the girl loved this guy, he became jealous. However, since he was afraid that his jealousy will come into the light, he started to act as a friend.

What do you mean, what happened then?

Next thing happened:

Under the disguise of friendship, and based on fake kindness and false comion, did malicious things to the girl. To put it more precisely, by his constant presence and with his ''well-intentioned'' advice he made impossible for the girl to reach the man that she loved. He persistently came to her every day to torment and trouble her with his stories, fabrications, presumptions, advice and theories until she broke down and surrendered herself to desperation.

This is a very misfortunate example, but it is very much present nowadays, just people are so resentful that they don’t notice that.

Selfishness and egoism of the man that pretends to be a friend are obvious. However, the question is: what the girl did wrong?

Problem is that the girl shouldn’t be blind to such things. She should be in touch with God and with her own feelings. She should have developed intuitive skills at least to realize when a man does the injury.


Boring and clingy man, no matter how ignorant and narrow-minded, shouldn’t be underestimated. Such kind of man under the pretense of friendship does evil to others, and gets away as a ''good guy''.

Chapter III – UPBRINGING

A LOVED WOMAN

In heart of a loved woman, there are many demons.

When they see me, they whine and run away.

Why?

Because they how I have defeated them last time.


Humble being, the invincible one is the king of the Universe.

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NON-BELIEVERS MATERIALISTS

Nowadays many people can say:

– You can’t live off of love alone.

I can just ask:

– What to live on then?

God fed the hungry and quenched thirst of the thirsty ones. Only a disillusioned man thinks that money can do that.

To be a materialist and to look for sponsorship isn’t love. The materialist is always dissatisfied. Being materialistic means belittling oneself and love, and exploiting the closest people.

If you couldn’t live on love, God wouldn’t care .

Why for the reason that God is driven by love.

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PROVINCIALISM

Wish to have a partner isn’t a sin. Allowing that lust controls you is a sin. So, when you search for the partner, your consciousness is clean. If you look to satisfy your lust, and you pretend to look for love, then you can’t appreciate yourself.


The following exclamation: – Why do you say love, and you think about sex? – Makes more sense.

In modern times the number of women financially ing men is increasing, although it should be the other way round. However, in this newly created world of lust and debauchery, women are much easier to earn money. The fact that many women humiliate themselves for money, and afterward they brag about it, doesn’t mean that they are more able or perfect. Excellence is an outcome of a good character, and not from questionable career success.

Certainly, there are women who work hard and make a sacrifice for the spouse and family. They even don’t emphasize their sacrifice, nor underestimate their man. Such women aren’t the subject of this presentation.

Thus, on social networks, we can often see many women claiming to be skilled equally as men. However, the fact is that man is easier being alone than a woman. That means that even when woman financially s man, it’s for selfish reasons. She can’t be alone. The evidence is that her ego is hurt, so she has to be humiliated the same as men, and to emphasize her earnings and career success. That means if a woman can’t be alone and she financially s man, then the man deserves it. He needs the money he doesn’t know how to earn, and

she needs tenderness she can’t live without.

Such explanation brings up the idea of sponsorship and matching interests.

When women come from poor family, they can marry into the rich family and get out of financial misery. It’s to their benefit that women from poor families are less demanding, inclined to work and family care. Since man likes to feel important and needs his wife to applaud him, poor women even flatter him. Thus many men are not burdened if their loved one is well off. On the other side, men from poor families have difficulties breaking through the life, especially in the modern world full of righteous lawlessness. They have to do it all over again, and few are to succeed in that. Evidently, here is clear that opposite sexes i.e. incarnations offer various experiences and opportunities. What is decent for a woman, it’s devastating for many men, and vice versa.

As I have explained, many could get the impression that I’m criticizing a type of women because of envy, or because they are successful in their careers. The situation is quite the opposite. I want to point out that such women undoubtedly destroy the society, because by destroying themselves (mainly with emancipation), they destroy their partner, then family, and eventually society. And it has nothing to do with career or money earned.

If you say that a woman dared to pull up her skirt in front of the camera and earn money, why should such woman be superior to the man who is not earning enough? What’s the use if a woman destroys oneself and society, and earns money? Who needs money for losing its dignity? Does anyone have clue how many people are there crying over earned money? Crying for days? Crying for months? Crying for years?

Here we come to the point I’ve mentioned previously.

Most women are controlled by lust. Also, women mostly have fear of being alone. Sensible men usually don’t have this kind of problems. Rich men pay for female lust and perversion. Thus is increasing the gap between men and women. Men despise women even more, but they don’t hesitate to take advantage of them. Women do that subtle. For them, it’s just important to have someone who offers comfort and tenderness. Therefore, women still don’t realize they are looking for a partner, but for someone to satisfy their vanity and to drive away their fear of loneliness.

Still, I’ve been explaining it for many times. If you enter the relationship because of loneliness, you will even feel more alone in the relationship. Loneliness is the result of estrangement from God, and of not knowing yourself. For this reason many women today get disappointed. Then, they ask for a man to take the blame. They are not noticing their own infidelity and adultery.


If you’ve made a deal based on interest, then you can weigh forever. The truth is if you make deal with the devil, you will get burned.

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A FALSE UPBRINGING

Youth and children education and upbringing is worse than ever. This is greatly ed by disrespect for mothers.


Many people, and most of them man don’t have respect for mothers. They think those are some other women, not good ones.

And why they think so?

Because they are disappointed by their love relationship failures, betrayed by their wives, and they neither respect themselves nor women. When a man doesn’t respect himself, he also doesn’t respect women. Then he hides behind manliness. He’s unfaithful and malicious. However, hunks don’t exist, as long as we’re talking about modern men full of contempt for themselves and wreak their contempt on others (especially on women).

Why does this matter?

When a child sees that man doesn’t respect or molest a woman, and particularly its mother, he/she’s unhappy. In this way, the child can’t grow normally and properly, and when is grown up, it has no respect for oneself, neither for men, nor it could be happy. Unconscious childhood traumas hurt.

The men, who don’t have respect for women and themselves, actually have a serious problem with their mothers. They suppress their problems and pretend to be special, while they have contempt for women.

Here, it’s evident why you have to be friend with women, while you can have a sexual relationship only in marriage with your wife. Still, I’m talking here about real friendship. The friend that does exclusively good for you, respects you, your individuality, your life, and knows its own place.

There aren’t many left nowadays. People simply despise their friends. Just imagine the conscious and subconscious contempt towards women nowadays? What about kids?

Only spiritually wretched man doesn’t respect the woman, especially the one with children.


Respect any women. Your respect for them doesn’t depend on what they are. Observing is one thing, and respecting is something else. Disrespect to others reflects self-doubt.

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AN INSATIABLE APPETITE (Aka, voracity)

In modern time, parenthood failed big time.

Why?

Parents don’t take enough care of their children. That is the result of materialism taking its toll. Parents have been badly directed, they don’t have positive principles, so they don’t know to raise their kids well.

The question raised here is:

Where the source of the aggression lies?

The answer is:

It’s found in family life.

Many people don’t recognize such a simple fact.

In the past war, it happened that people waited for the food to be distributed from afar. At some point, they’ve seen a woman approaching them. She was carrying something in her hands. They thought it was food. They hoped for food. When the woman came closer, they saw she was carrying gun. One of them said:

– We were waiting for the food to survive, but sudden death came.

The following question arises:

Why death came, and was that intentional?

Also, mother, sister, and brother walked once down the road. Sister fell into a manhole and she immediately died. Neither mother nor brother could do anything, although they were going right next to her. They were just left to cry and mourn. Anyone can say that such situation is accidental. Anyway, if mother and brother had watched for sister’s steps, and if she had looked where she was going, she would’ve been saved.

Young can do whatever they want. Parents that. Many parents want to present themselves as modern and open-minded. In reality, they are disinterested and just care about their ego. They exploit their children both financially and emotionally. So these people don’t only exploit their children, but also tie them to themselves. In doing so they allow them to live in lust and sin and their immorality for the sake of money and ion.

This means that parents their children failure just because they know that kids will bring money home. They don’t care how they children feel, and how unhappy they are. They encourage them living unhappily and saying that it should be so because money, influence, pleasure and fame are the most important. Such children suffer, lose their self-respect and dignity, and no one can help them.

Everyone is the master of its destiny.

My efforts are directed towards saving humanity, and especially young people. Those who don’t care about happy future of the children and young will face the God’s wrath. At that point, it’s not important if it’s parent or foe. That means that

parent who indifferently looks at his child suffering in sin and wrong doings is the worst tyrant of his child. Such parents don’t realize that love and caring make a true parent.

This story means that parents and children should help each other. Here’s explained constant horrible parents’ egoism who consider it is normal for their child to suffer mentally and emotionally because of their insatiability. Such parents don’t realize that they are the chief and main reason of misery of their children. However, you should know and this: God sees everything, and God is just.

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IN BED WITH THE ENEMY

– I want to settle down. – This is the statement of the most of the girls who want to get marry. They don’t ask what and how much it costs. They would even sell their heart and their dignity to get a house, a well-off man, and family.


That means that many modern women don’t take care of themselves and their happiness because they don’t look for man’s traits. They look for his possessions and ability to exploit others and make money. In this situation, such evaluation of the man is an insult to him.

There is an open and a hidden promiscuity in the world. Both are visible, but the mind of contemporary man is twisted, and a hidden promiscuity is considered to be normal. Open promiscuity is called prostitution. There’s so-called sponsorship where two persons pretend to be in love in exchange for material and sexual relationship.

To make myself clear:

I’m against both kinds of promiscuity. In this case, woman hurts herself, doesn’t respect herself, and even the man who doesn’t respect women and thinks he has right to abuse them for money, such man can’t also respect himself. Both forms of promiscuity result in great misery of all sides of such relationship.

So, it happens that a man takes out a young girl for an ice-cream or pizza, or buys her sandals or flip-flops, drives her a few times to work or university, and he already thinks he’s got right to a sexual relationship. To make things worse, many girls wish for such behavior of men.

This kind of men’s behavior is mere disrespect and exploitation of women. Women allow that.

The question is: What’s the root of such evil, negligence and immoral behavior? What’s the source of considering contempt and loss of dignity suitable?

The answer is once again:

It comes from family. Parents are mainly to be blamed for the misfortune of many young people, and for their going astray.

Today many parents pretend to be extraordinary and modern. Mothers foster promiscuity in their sons, and they are pleased when their success in seducing the opposite sex. They don’t realize that they don’t value their sons, and by depreciating girl her son shouldn’t have a relationship with– they depreciate themselves. Because the mother is also a woman!

Furthermore, such behavior causes many major psychological and emotional blocks, which is interesting, ''caring'' parents don’t mention. Also, girls’ parents allow their boyfriends coming to their home, even allowing their sexual intercourse in their own home. In that manner, certain man dishonors their daughter in parents’ house in front of them. Sometimes murder happens, and only afterward parents realize what kind of man they have let in the house and that such man has disgraced and made their child unhappy.


Parents should be acquainted with a spiritual discipline called ''correct behavior''. They should never allow their children give up on their dignity and happiness. It’s really painful when girl sells herself for an ice-cream or going out at McDonald's. Such behavior and abuse of desperate women must be prevented. A woman behaves in such manner because her family has always planted the idea in her head that she must marry ''rich'', for a well-off man. In this case, parents should have taught daughter that only husband, the man who married her out of love, is the only reasonable option.

Also, every man should protect a woman from physical and emotional abuses and injury. However, when a man doesn’t respect woman and sexually exploits

her in front of others, and he’s not married to her, then he stands for the hangman at all her levels of life. Then he’s the cause of all her illnesses and injuries.

What I have explained here is very simple. However, many people don’t take seriously what I say. They don’t see the cruelty of such relationships because they’ve shut themselves inside. Many people overlook how many women hearts are broken, and yet don’t even care. Sponsorship is even not the love relationship. Sponsorship is sleeping with the enemy. It is destroying the whole society, and it is not naïve at all, or harmless, especially for participants in the sponsorship as well for the whole world, and even for you, who are reading these lines.

How comes?

Each sponsorship makes few extra people unhappy, and a few fewer people free for true love. If that number is growing, the number of potentially happy may decrease to zero.

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ADULTERY IS DISRESPECT OF ONESELF

Once I’ve overheard the conversation between two girls. One said to another:

– Then I have told to my friend that if she cheats on her boyfriend, she will also cheat on you.

Because of that, I was surprised. Shortly after that, I have ed that young people nowadays are so estranged from God, so there is no wonder that they say so unnatural sentences and have twisted thinking.

What I’m trying to explain here?

When you are having an affair with someone who is having a partner or is married, then you’re probably the most unfaithful from all people involved. That’s because you cheat on the person who has a partner, you cheat on his partner, and what’s most important, you’re cheating on yourself.

I’m saying it all the time:

– It’s not only stealing that’s a sin. Adultery also represents a kind of theft.

Who sins, he/she steals happiness and heart. Because the person that cheats its partner is a thief. The one who has sex with an unfaithful person is the worst thief. A better option is that you have sex with a person that may be unfaithful, and you are not?! If you’re aware that you’re buying stolen goods then you’re even bigger thief than thief who has stolen the goods

This described unfaithfulness may also be transferred to money. Some people have lost so much their own values that they think it’s possible to recover or gain self-respect if they earn money. They think so because they’ve wasted their time whole and their lives with people who value them based on money and earnings. Such people think that they are no good if they don’t earn money. However, they

don’t ask themselves what kind of people are those who don’t see them as they are, but value them only based on money? That’s the reason why many rich and famous people fall into psychological crisis, they have an unfailing feeling that they missed their life and true life values. Such people don’t recognize their unfaithfulness. They don’t see how much they are unfaithful to themselves because they want to present themselves in front of others as able and exceptional. If they knew who they were, they shouldn’t show to anyone how much they earn and what they have.


Don’t trust people who complain how much you earn and do that so it makes you feel bad. This indicates the infidelity of this people. Thus, if you wake up in the morning and think about the money, it‘s sure that you not only live wrong, but you also act unfaithfully in the world, and that means that good people will avoid you, and idiots will stick to you.

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THIS IS MY GIRLFRIEND (Aka, a cautionary tale to reflect on)

Once, a man went to the bank of Danube to sunbathe. He was sitting near the water and enjoying. Not far from him, he saw a girl with a man. They were holding and kissing each other. The man said to her:

– You’re my girl.

After a while, the man has left. Not long after that, another man came. He was also holding and kissing her. He told her:

– You’re all mine.

Then he also left.

The girl approached the man that was sunbathing. She told him:

– Everyone says that I’m their girl.

The man has answered:

– That’s because your answer is always ''yes''. That’s the same as your answer’s always ''no''.

Then the girl asked him:

–What are we going to do? Are we going to take a bath?

He answered:

– I’m sorry. It’s too late to bathe and look at my pants how clean and shiny they are.

Then the young man saw God bent over the surface of Danube, pouring water from one hand into other.

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Nowadays, people take to one another in mutual love relationships without having any chance to each other.


That means that true values in life are lost. Self-harm came into fashion. It’s considered normal to suppress conscience and feelings. Promiscuity is considered appropriate. In this manner, modern man has built its life on pain and sorrow.

I noticed that the young turned simple going out i.e. ''hanging around”, into hurting their own hearts. That means that young nowadays don’t need to have love or sexual relationships in order to be unhappy or hurt. It’s enough for them to go out.

Human behavior took such turn that it’s considered normal to cause jealousy, to humiliate others, using narcotics and acting insensitively.

At this point, I have to say that every man has feelings, and every person inside itself feels the injury. Injuries can be caused in many ways. In our case, it’s enough to go out and watch what the person you like does and how it acts, and you’ll fall into despair and depression.

In of this madness there’s a bigoted conviction that man should and could do what he wants, and in the way he wants. I’ve already explained many times before, that doing whatever you want isn’t freedom. That’s slavery. Only an ignorant man could think that “saying and doing whatever comes to your mind” and acting in that way is freedom. However, if you have done something bad, and now you have to pay that off, where’s the freedom in that? If you have been free to steal and now you are in jail for theft, what kind of freedom is that?

Thus, nowadays you don’t have to search for misfortune. It’s enough that you’re young and that you’re going out for ''hanging out''. You’re going to get hurt without getting to know anyone. Just imagine how many ways are young hurt by getting into love relationships, God forbid, sexual relationships? People simply don’t care about their behavior. They present their misfortune and rudeness as something ''cool''.

Here I have to mention retarded TV shows that stream some relationships among people. Then they supposedly determine the age ratings for TV shows. As if the grown up and older have no heart? As if the age has much to do with evil and corruption? Television turned so evil, that when God comes to seek justice, I wouldn’t like to be even near people who founded and took part in such shows. Even less I would like to imagine myself in their place.

On television, without any excuse, they show young: violence, seduction, nakedness and vice. It’s one thing when you’re part of nature and creation. Completely other thing is when you have no dignity, and you take your clothes off in public. That means that the one who publicly incites lust is worse than Devil himself.

I see many young people often coming from a night out both in morning and at night. It’s evident that they have to take narcotics and opiates because they want to numb their awareness and feelings. Pains caused to the young by their nightlife are enormous, although no one wants to it that. In addition, what they call a good time, I call that breaking up with happiness and heart.

Why I write this?

Many naïve people might think that I’m judging people. Still, I could never judge them much as they condemn themselves. Many people feel able for some of my presentations. How not feel able, if I describe the truth, and they don’t abide by it, and they want to hide it?

Warning that you do something dreadful to yourself isn’t a judgment. A judgment would be if I was trying to punish people that behave badly. I will never do that. My effort is focused on healing people, and on the awakening of a desire to be happy again and to live in love.


Stop hurting yourself and others. This kind of way leads just and only to misfortune. Don’t go to places where your heart gets hurt. Don’t take actions that

injure other people in any way. Don’t take narcotics and don’t be corrupt. Find yourself a nice company, nice place to go out, and find a partner that you could rely on. Until you acquire a feeling of security that you have someone to rely on, don’t even think to start the relationship, even less to have sex with this kind of person.

Be blessed.

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THE FALL OF THE FORT

Forts are usually built on inaccessible places, on mountains and hills where they can’t be easily reached. Fort could be usually easily seen from the foot of the mountain or hill, but few can reach it easily.


Imagine the fort on the top of the hill, next to the cliff, and imagine densely populated village at the foot of the hill. The fort is huge and bent over the village. As the time goes by, the fort is, even more, slanting and slumping over the village. Nobody even notices that because the fort is moving seamlessly. There comes the day when the fort will collapse over the village. Many people will be affected then.

What does this explanation mean?

Nowadays the facebook is widely popular. Your profile on facebook represents a fort seen from the foot of the mountain. If you post anything lustful or untruthful on your wall, then you’re the same as the bent fort on the top of the mountain. Such profile is fort tumbling down on people. Many people, who don’t have enough knowledge or are not self-assured, look at the wrong things that you post, and they copy and cite them. Then those people take wrong principles into their lives, so in that way they get hurt.

Some people are very naive. They say how it’s their own profile and they have rights to pin everything on their wall. That’s not the truth. Your profile is your expression. Many people see what you put on your wall. Thus you don’t have the right to share false and bestial information on your wall.

Some girls via their profiles teach other girls to be materialistic and adulterous. Imagine a man who has a wife and grown-up daughter, and they’re learning and citing such nonsense on their wall. Such man gets in lots of trouble if his wife or daughter go astray, or take a wrong path. And what will happen with the woman and the daughter if they go astray, I will not even mention. Of course that everyone is responsible for one’s own actions. However, you are responsible, too, if you initiate the wrongdoings of others.

Here’s even bigger problem that many people don’t understand how serious is the thing I’m referring to, and how much misery they bring to themselves and others, and only because they post ignorant, morbid and immoral things to their wall. Also, one of the bad examples is that there are many believers who’re not even close to understanding the teaching of a religion, and they start sharing a false philosophy on their wall. Then many people go astray, and they even don’t know that. It’s easy to know that immorality and violence are wrong. Still, when it’s about spiritual truth, a vast number of believers have no idea about truth and are leading the young astray.

That is why I always say:

– One God, one partner, one heart, and one facebook profile to disclose religion of the heart and love publicly.


Each inhuman profile on facebook brings trouble to those who create it and maintain it. That trouble goes to unfathomable measures. That’s because many profiles are like crookedly built fort on the mountain. Such fort when it’s pulled down will kill the one who lives in it and the one who stands beneath it, and he will look at it without moving.

Thus, steer clear of immoral profiles, and post to your wall only things that God would like to see.

That’s the safe way not to be wrong.

Thus, here it represents one big problem.

Which one?

So, people really don’t have the slightest idea about the importance of the thing I’m talking about.

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BRAVERY – MADNESS (Aka, terrible abyss)

Once upon a time, there was a man who was considered brave and magnanimous. He did all sorts of crazy and daredevil things. He was trying to be in some danger all the time, the biggest one as possible. He has found a woman who was crazy as he was. They have decided to make their own house. They came to the idea that house should embody their bravery and craziness. They made their house next to the very abyss. The abyss next to the house was very creepy. One could see clouds in the abyss.

Soon they got a child. When the child started to walk, they have to watch out for it not to fall into the abyss. One day, a moment of inattention and the child fell into the abyss. They were inconsolable. The worst part was that people didn’t think of them anymore how brave and magnanimous they were. People were laughing at them for building a house on such dangerous place. No one was iring them anymore.

What is this story teaching us?

The desire of proving oneself implies a problem with having complex and not knowing Self. People who are exposing themselves to the danger are crazy, but there’s no bravery. That’s called irresponsibility. Irresponsibility is always a weakness because it actually means giving up on yourself and your happiness.

Many can think that this story is stupid.

It is not because the destiny of the child reveals the mistakes of parents. Thus, the true face of this love partners is seen in the destiny of a child. If someone considers daring to expose oneself to danger, we could think that someone is brave.

This couple via their child realized their negligence.

Some say: – There is a fine line between brave and insane. – I say – Courage – lack of madness.

Who is so mad that it doesn’t recognize the value of their life and so easily exposes it to the unnecessary risk? That can only be done by one who has given up on itself and its own happiness. Such act is neither advisable nor positive. To challenge God or faith is in the least case of vanity (very bad trait).


Take responsibility and learn to appreciate your and other’s life. Such person, who doesn’t respect others, comes into a chance to lose what’s valuable and dear to him/her, in order to realize the evil he does. Then people think how God is cruel.

Of course, God isn’t cruel. God is very merciful. Thus be brave in that way, keep your life and lives of others, conscientiously and humane.

It’s not the same to live for principles and for proving oneself. The second one cause misery and despair, that’s evident from the story itself.

Chapter IV – GENDER MISCONCEPTIONS

ATHEISM

You are the one that you are, and you’re always where you should be, at your own center.


The man has no conscious experience of himself in his search for God. He is wandering and searching. He consciously experiences love and life, but that awareness is the obsession with illusion. So the man accepts only the things he’s aware of. He’s not aware of God, so he thinks that God doesn’t exist. He has no awareness of the time before birth, so he thinks that he hasn’t existed before his birth. He’s not conscious of experience of life after death. Therefore, the life is based on paradox. Things that you know, you know that you know it. If you don’t know what you don’t know, then you don’t know that you don’t know that. Then you even don’t know what you really don’t know, and you know just the things you think you know. Then, there’s no wonder that everybody thinks as if they know something.

The real knowledge can happen only if a man gets to know God. Otherwise, he’ll have to be proud and to pretend to know something.

In this way the man that doesn’t believe in God and thinks that he’ll help other people if he convinces them that God doesn’t exist. For him, the search for God is a mistake and just the waste of time. Still, even a second without longing and

thought for God is the waste of time. Nothing can exist without God. If you deny God, you deny yourself and creation. Isn’t that naive and ignorant? You deny the thing based on which you exist, based on which everything exists, and you accept false and illusory?

Atheism is the actual outcome of skepticism and pessimism. That’s singlehanded acceptance of false, and opting for final disappointment. Thus without God, there’s no way out of spiritual misery. Without God, happiness and love can’t exist. Without God, the meaning of life and creation doesn’t exist. So what do we learn from atheists?

They teach us what we shouldn’t think, or believe. They teach us that you should never be a pessimist. They teach us that it’s very ignorant to deny yourself because nothing will be left for you. They teach us that awareness is not always final, but it still advances and entails, even more, creation. You’re getting more aware and able to spot even the subtlest forms. God is subtle than the subtlest. What’s strange if you don’t see Him? So if a man thinks about what he is going to eat how much money will he earn, so what’s unusual that such man is neither perceiving God nor experiencing it consciously?

An atheist wants to teach you that everything is fleeting, that God’s justice doesn’t exist, and that everything is accidental. That’s really dreadful belief with terrible consequences. Just look at the dreadful destinies of people. All that destinies are the result of lack of faith in God and the lack of awareness of God’s omnipresence and justice. What goes around it comes around. Even the smallest grain of evil won’t unpunished. No good deed will be left unrewarded. Such thing atheist doesn’t know, and that makes him the first class ignoramus.

So, when the man’s an atheist, he needs lots of help. Yet, here lies the problem, because an atheist doesn’t know that he doesn’t know something, but he thinks that he knows something, and how will someone want to learn something that he doesn’t know, and thinks that he knows? He thinks how to teach someone else

ignorance.

Therefore, psychiatrists have to take seriously the problem of atheism. That’s not only common thinking and belief. That’s a very destructive thinking that inevitably leads to loneliness and misfortune!

With an atheist reasoning rarely helps. He’s already enough disappointed and negative- only patience and love help. Every man who’s not related to God is having a downfall, and even deeper as the time goes by until he comes into position to believe in a miracle, God, and God’s omnipotence, mercy, and love. Only then change happens, from softening of the heart to faith in God’s justice and mercy.

According to that, to which ones do you belong to- to ignorant ones, or to knowing ones? The question raised is: what’s knowledge and does it really exist? Thus, there’s no true knowledge without God. God is knowledge in itself.

Thus, without a search for God, none knowledge is the true one. So what can be known by the one who denies God’s existence? And the question is: what kind of heart or consciousness has such man?

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FAILURE

A young man grew up in the very poor surrounding. He didn’t have his own

home. His parents were divorced. Due to lack of principles and unhappy childhood, he had to make it on his own throughout his life and to learn. In his teens, he already had many girls. He wanted to make up for the lack of parental love subconsciously in his relationships. Yet, he wasn’t even close to being mature for a love relationship. The first girlfriend had already left him, consequently, besides rage, disappointment, and contempt, the fear from love appeared. He was afraid that he’ll be abandoned or ridiculed.

As we could see, karma never sleeps. Some man, due to circumstances, gets abandoned both by parents and by a partner. Many people ask themselves, but why?

If you expect something bad to happen, that means that you offer the same.

In which way is that so?

I’ll explain further on in the story.

The young man (at this point without principles) from the story kept changing girlfriends. Still, he hasn’t noticed an important thing. He always had relationships with girls he didn’t love. Interesting thing was that he was at the same time in love with some other girl. For his fear of love, he was being with girls easy to get.

We all know that you have to work hard for a true partner. That’s not about pretense because love needs that you get to know your partner and give him/her maximum of your love and principles. If you don’t give it then you are not really in love.

Therefore, it often happens nowadays that many people are with someone just to prove others they are worth, and that’s just because they don’t have strength to face the person they love and to deserve him/her in the correct way. Such behavior is infidelity that brings a great misery.

Each man has his exceptional story. As we see from the example, circumstances in which the young man was born, and destiny of his first relationship, determined his path that he has to learn to fight for the one he loves, to appreciate and respect it, and above all to learn to be sincere and not to be ashamed of his feelings, and finally, not to be afraid of losing and failure. Thus, in reality, a mere true love in the heart is the success.

What’s important about the things that I’m explaining here?

When people want to prove that they are worthy, they don’t see how they take away dignity both to themselves and to the one they love. The loved one is forced to see you as you suffer and how you humiliate yourself. This even much explains the situations where a partner causes jealousy of the other partner.

Also, when a person feels threatened, he/she considers even the smallest partner’s anger fearful thus is ready to run away and abandon partner. Therefore there are so many instant breakups nowadays. Vulnerable, people don’t understand that if the partner is angry, that doesn’t mean that he/she doesn’t love you. That in most cases means that he/she’s hurt and you have to solve the problem.

If the example was clear, we can understand how people become capable of being with anyone, and they don’t have strength to be with the one they love.

Also, even if the love is returned, and if partner shows its love constantly, such people can’t believe that it’s real. Therefore comion and patience are essential in the relationships, as well as decisiveness and faith in oneself and God.

A piece of advice: If you love someone, don’t try to show him/her how valuable you are to others. God’s merciful. He’ll always show your real value to the one you really love. If you self-initially make it incorrect behavior, you humiliate yourself, and in that way you injure yourself and the loved one.

That’s really uncommon and interesting. While you’re trying to show a partner how much you are worthy, in reality, you humiliate yourself and even more your partner, so both of you grow distant from the inside.

Thus, never put neither humiliation nor temptation into action, even when you have evident reasons for such thing, as the man from the story had. You’ve got your own life, your destiny, and partner that you love for affection and not for nurturing fear and self-approval.

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FASTING

For what you do today, the result will follow tomorrow.


If the man has to fast, it means that in his closer or distant future his body was contaminated. Thus he has to cleanse it. Everything that’s dirty has to be cleaned. Every sinner has to pay off his debts.

Some say that someone’s so dirty that there’s no water that can wash him. However, there isn’t a thing that can’t be washed, and there’s no evil deed that can’t be paid off and repented.

In our country is a widespread spiritual discipline of fasting. Fasting is nothing but the cleansing of the body. That means that fasting is important for the human physical body, and for his hygiene and health. Many people say that fasting, only related to food, isn’t real fasting. They say that it’s important to do good deeds and to have good thoughts and feelings.

I consider such thinking incomplete. Certainly, that thought and emotions are important. Still, the person that’s beginning to fast isn’t immune to negative emotions and thoughts. To say it more precise, the correct fasting regarding food will start cleansing on an energetic plane and on the thoughts and emotional plane, so the fasting is exactly the reason why some people become weak, furious and irritable.

What is this about?

Here I want to warn people that suppressing thoughts and feelings leads to lots of destructions on the internal field. That is why it’s not good to suppress negative emotions that normally emerge because of fasting. That’s why people who want to appear spiritual, suppress everything that bothers them, they even suppress the things they’re embarrassed by in front of others so, in the end, they

are crushed inside and suffer.

I have already written a lot about freedom from negativity and later in the book it will be mentioned. Here I just want to explain that definition of fasting is primarily abstinence in the physical sense and the control of the intake of toxic substances. That means that it’s not enough to fast just because of food like meat and greasy food. It’s much more important not to contaminate your body in any sense. Because there are people who drink or smoke cigarettes while fasting. This fasting is certainly harmful because the man intoxicates his organism with less nutritional ingredients that he would take even if he has eaten unclean food.


Nothing is unusual, or bad, while fasting happens people are weak and negative. That should be the result of the correct fasting. Therefore it’s important to know the process of freeing from negative thoughts and emotions (there will be a word about it further in the book). Thus it’s totally natural that some people become unbearable and weak exactly when they fast. Therefore it’s important for the man to have an understanding of himself and his weaknesses. Still, this understanding shouldn’t be equal to the sugarcoating of evil and ignoring irresponsibility to oneself and to the others.

Any kind of evil doing, adultery and immorality is the attack on your own being. Wake that up within yourself and start loving yourself, and appreciating and respecting your life and your happiness (as well as the others people happiness).

Therefore, anyone can understand what I’m explaining here.

Negative thoughts cause negative deeds. Evil deeds bring misfortune and a bad karma. Then the man becomes unhappy and sick, and his body’s full of toxins, and of course, toxins may consequently cause physical pain. By cleansing the body, the opposite effect is made. By controlling toxins in food, tobacco, opiates and narcotics, the body is cleansed. A cleaner body makes cleaner thoughts and emotions, so as a result negativity needs to be let out. Many people say that Devil is tempting them, but in reality, that’s not the truth. Only evil wants to go out, i.e. to be used up, and man has to show his inner strength, to endure, and to cleanse himself.

And what happens when evil and negativities are worn out?

The man becomes overwhelmed by love, peace, and truth. Therefore this man becomes truthful in his faith in God. This explains how spiritual discipline turns an insincere and evil man into believer capable of love, joy, and peace for everyone.

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CONSCIENCE

In the ancient times the following question was raised: If God instructs you one thing, and king with another one, who are you going to obey?

Based on that answer, many were executed at that time. Idiocy. That’s not just because the question is stupid, but also because those who have asked it thought they knew both the answer and God. If they had known God, they wouldn’t have asked such question.

Of course, that one should listen to the God. And it should be for the reason that God is perfect, thus He gives perfect instructions. As if the God would instruct someone incorrectly? As it has happened to someone getting into a chance to choose between God and king?

The only the king can give wrong instructions.

Also, if God instructed you with something, and your partner with something else, who should you listen to?

At this point some people are confused. I always say that you should listen to what your partner says. Still, the answer is clear here. You should always listen to God. If He says or instructs something, that is for the reason of being essential for everyone’s well-being. In God’s works, there’s nothing that could be wrong or imperfect about it. Such things are conceived only by an imperfect mind.

Here we come to the point I want to explain.

Some say that conscience is God’s voice within you. That’s just not the complete truth. God gave a conscience to the man that the man will be appalled by his sins so that he could act correctly. Anyway, if the man is evil, then his conscience is dimmed. He could change evil for good, and vice versa. Positive consciousness follows only the man of healthy mind and feelings. If the man has a sick mind, even his conscience abandons him.

So some smart guys say that in case God says one thing, and king something

else, you should listen to the consciousness.

Sorry to say this, but the conclusion’s fairly ignorant.

Consciousness comes from God. Consciousness can’t determine if God’s right or not.


If the man can experience God, then conscience is not necessary for him to do right. It’s enough for him just to see God in front of him. That’s neither hunch nor conscience. That’s God, who’s the only reality and the only truth in the Universe.

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CHOICE

In some places on the world, there are still consensual marriages arranged by parents. It often happens that spouses even don’t see each other before the wedding.


Because of the present bigoted "modern" way of life, many would consider narrow-minded this approach to marriage. Still, based on my experience, it’s better to be deceptively narrow-minded than contemporary egoistic and unhappy.


If we start with the stance of God being perfectly just, and that everyone gets what he/she deserves, then we come to the importance of the moral: "as you sow, so shall you reap".

That means that whether you choose your marital partner or your parents, you’ll just get the partner that you deserve. Some will ask, what’s the difference then?

If we think well, the one who chooses a partner on its own (while experimenting with partners) does infidelity and evil, and in that manner, while choosing partners, he deserves even less of good and deserves even eviler and unfaithful partner.

Thus, it’s always better for parents to choose partners for their children, and it’s better for partners not to know each other before the marriage. They will have the marriage and the whole life to get to know each other.

And what’s the partners’ gain in this way?

They get a non-existent premarital emotional injury. They get intimacy and ion that have a tremendous impact on the marriage. They have the

prerequisite for being devoted to love in their marriage.

Those who choose their partners, experiment and change partners don’t have that.

Here we can see how much people were smarter and more affectionate in the past as compared to the present time. The proof is the fact that many will be revolted with this presentation. Just being revolted they show their insensitivity, and in that way, they approve of the fact that those who think to have right to choose, again and again, to change and to tempt partners, don’t deserve a good partner.


By constantly meeting new potential partners, constant experimentation and testing the partner, the man becomes egoistic, senseless and evil. A similar attracts similar. In that way, by becoming the worse person, you deserve an even worse partner, and that you’re even not aware of that. In the end, you think how all persons of the opposite sex are the same, and all of them are not good. That of course, isn’t the truth. The truth is when the person is bad and evil, such partner he/she attracts.

This doesn’t mean that you can’t choose a partner for yourself, but it means that you have to bear in mind that by choosing and tempting you don’t become unworthy. You can assume that based on the potential partners you come across, and on the kind of experience you get.

Thus don’t believe in the possibility of choice. You need a good partner, one

right "yes". Therefore consider many suitors, lots of fans, lots of choices, as well as your wretchedness. This evil will destroy you and that you’ll not even notice that.

So, , chances are great that with every new candidate and with the new choice you’re going to deserve worse, and not the better partner. It all depends on the purity of your heart and ability to love. Still, with every new choice, the man gets disappointed, loses dignity, affection and ability to love, and eventually, he/she can’t be happy with any partner.

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THE POWER OF LOVE

Knowledge about the power of love is the path to happiness.

What does it mean?

That means that many people are not even close to being happy.

That’s because nowadays people are concerned about many things, except love.

If you look around, you will see many people that wish to impress someone. Likewise, the same people are trying to harm others. Many think that if someone suffers from them, and they’ve left someone in pain and suffering that they’ve

done a great thing. Yet, the real situation is the other way round. It’s very easy to hurt others. Many people get hurt all the time, but they hide it. When the society has turned to spiritual wretchedness and hatred, then people have to hide the injuries of their hearts. So it happens that some people offend each other all day long, pretending to be cool. Still, on the inside, such people suffer great emotional loss.

Why am I writing this text?

For people to realize that God created the heart so that always opens for love. Due to the arrogance of modern people, many sufferers are forced to close their hearts. However, when I say that heart opens itself, that means that no matter how many people have closed their heart, it will suddenly open, so if the person for whom the heart has open is bad, the person closes and heart suffers the injury. That means that it’s not hard at all to injure someone. It’s enough just that the person is an asshole.

Therefore, the goal of this presentation is: to see the power of love and to see the vulnerability of the human heart. Who doesn’t know this truth Hell will be his Paradise. That is because as you sow it, so shall you reap it. The one who doesn’t know that the power of love is the path to happiness, it hasn’t been sowing well!

Today, it’s rarely that two opened-hearted persons meet and don’t hurt each other. People appreciate power, adultery, and money. Therefore, there are many reasons of the heart injury.

If you have money today and you need some stuff, you’ll surely spend that money. Still, if you have the chance to love, many people have a different approach. They don’t live love but suppress it believing that later they’ll have time for it. Still, not living love actually shortens your life and takes away your

time that’s necessary to complete your mission on Earth. Also, if you miss ungratefully the gifts of God, He may take a break (sometimes even longer one) in giving.


It’s very easy to hurt people. It’s enough that you’re an asshole and that you’re hitting in the middle of the heart.

Still, which non-believer thinks if he strikes in the middle of the heart he may not break it successfully?

The answer is following:

The great non-believer- the one who doesn’t realize that the same thing that’s hurtful for him/her, also hurts others.

At this point, many will ask themselves:

– God, do really exist such non-believers? –and it won’t be clear to them that they are among them.

That’s because they don’t appreciate themselves, their heart, and their pains. So how are they going to appreciate and recognize others? And even their suffering?

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HATRED AND CONTEMPT

Although very negative, hatred is one of the primal and frequent human feelings; the contempt, too.


Hatred and contempt are two sides of a coin. Still, contempt is different and sometimes is difficult to recognize it. Specifically, the modern people simply confuse love and contempt, that is, you’ll say – very incredible.

If we’re realistic, if manipulation and imposing your own will are considered positive characteristics in the modern society, what’s unusual about people not recognizing contempt, so they confuse it for love in many situations?

People manipulate each other with love as an excuse. Also, they hate each other, believing that they love.

Therefore the contempt’s not the same as hatred. When I talk about contempt, it’s almost always a story about hypocrisy in love and spirituality- a feigned love for partner and God. So, if God and partner don’t fulfill your wishes or demands and don’t pander to your egoism, would you still love them?

Therefore, manipulation is crafty managing the other people’s will for satisfying your personal interests. If you sometimes do something to make someone feel better, then there’s no sign of manipulation. In this case, if some person doesn’t like you, he/she will get to like you if you avoid manipulation. Manipulation is nothing else but causing contempt in you and others. When the pressure gets strong enough contempt must be released. Then it depends on karma and individual actions what will further happen and how.

Therefore my primary mission is related to male–female relationship is to arouse the contempt that’s forced all the time like affection and love. When two people have a sexual relationship and they still haven’t chosen one another, distrust and dignity injuries grow large and immeasurable. That’s how emotional injuries happen. Two people are going out, sleeping together, have sex, and growing contempt for each other. In the physical sense they are together, but in the emotional sense they reached the phase of "mortal enemies".

Thus it’s important to learn to be alone and satisfied. To commit to yourself, to Self and God, and to abandon weaknesses and sins. If you recover your selfrespect, dignity, and self-worth, you’ll become satisfied. Just the true and sincere self-satisfaction will bring you a partner and true love, and not the contempt and separation.

Therefore, I’m not guilty of excessive contempt and breakups, and for telling the truth and warning. Everyone has to realize that everything is in vain, but still, it’s all deserved. Contempt doesn’t bring love, survival of the love, nor the healthy relationship.

It’s high time that people finally get that.

Winning the genitals doesn’t equal to love. It’s not the problem with those used and exploited. The problem is with those who exploit other under the pretense of love.

Be realistic. Everything that’s valuable, will endure. That’s the promise from the God. If two as a couple are dedicated to each other, they’ll be together in love in the present life, in the next lives, and they’ll be even happier and will love each other more and more. That’s both the rule and the promise from God. For that reason don’t distance yourself under any circumstances from your soul mate. Nothing is ever by chance, and God never gives pointless missions. The only the man disillusioned by his lack of faith in God and love creates his own misery and disappointment. Loyalty and decisiveness are equal to love. They don’t go separately. Contempt is disrespect for yourself and others. Hatred is something not understood even by animals.

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INDECISION

A man went into a shop. A beautiful girl was working there. When he saw her, he thought that he had never before seen such beauty. Still, he was not distressed. He had so many times seen before a beautiful girl, and none of them have noticed him. That man was intelligent and interesting, but he didn’t have a good opinion about himself. Thus he couldn’t have noticed that she liked him.

The girl was in love with him. Because of his insecurity, he kept her subconsciously at the distance. Much time ed by. That girl had survived lots of things inside her. He didn’t know that. Very often she was quarrelsome with him because she was angry about his not paying attention to her. Due to that, he became even more reserved, even if he adored her.

The girl had many suitors. Nevertheless, she was experienced enough, so she realized that men were mainly interested in her beauty and curves. Thus she also didn’t have a good opinion about herself, what the man whom she liked made even worse with his ivity.

She thought how intelligent and beautiful this man was. Why should he take interest in her, when she’s not interesting, besides attracting playboys?

Thus she didn’t assume that he liked her. The single thing two of them did – created an irresolvable condition in of clarification and relationship.

She already had a broken heart.

One day, the young man looked at her and it seemed to him that he saw love in her eyes. Then he thought to himself – Maybe she likes me? How’s that possible? – However, she looked at him in that way because she had decided to give up on him and continue with her life.

She started avoiding him. Because of pain, she even had changed her job. They stopped seeing each other. She found someone, while he was suffering for a long period.

What’s the point of this story?

Every person is exceptional at something. You are, too. There’s no doubt. When

someone is better at something from you, then accept the reality. Still, every person has equal value as a human being in God’s eyes. No one has right to diminish or humiliate oneself. This two people from the example did that all the time, and they failed and were miserable all the time, although they were exceptional individuals.

The story I’ve told happens every day in the world, and for some people, it happens all the time.

Many women think that men are the one to make the first step. Still, exact the same women tease and seduce men in the incorrect way so that they would notice and make the first step. The one who wants something is to ask for it. It’s certainly nice when you like someone and he/she recognizes it and makes the first step. Still, not all people have good observation and good intuition. You have to be straightforward with some people.

Therefore, if the people appreciated themselves, they wouldn’t come into such situation. The question is: why happened that these two from the story had such destiny?

Because they are not persistent they have respect neither for themselves nor for others, and they don’t have faith in God and true love. They’re similar to those who: sting and run.

Many think that this is the man’s trait. That’s not the truth. Women are actually those that act in such manner. They sting the heart and run away.

And why they run?

Because they’ve forgotten that their place is next to the man they love. They think that it’s good for the man to run after them. Afterward, they wonder, how come that they are used?

Well, they’re used because they haven’t chosen their man, and because they’re neither honest nor faithful to them, and because they think that man should assume their wishes and wants, and yet make the first step. As if the first step of a man will recover their dignity?

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SUPERSTITION

Cultural and spiritual advancement of a nation can be recognized in the occurrence of the superstition.


Each man is responsible for his own destiny. Superstition implies that some man is not able to face himself and his actions.

And, what’s basically superstition?

That’s the attempt to put the blame for failure or guilt on someone or something. If you kill someone and put the blame on other, do you think that God will release you from guilt and punishment?

If that had happened, God wouldn’t be able, and likewise, he couldn’t get the name of the God. More precisely, what kind of God would that be, if he had allowed that innocent man suffers? And what kind of God would that be, if he hadn’t punished the murderer, and let the murderer be saved by some influential people?

For that reason, the excessive occurrence of superstition in man is a sign how much that person is backward and evil.

So, why do I write this text?

Many people don’t want to accept consequences of their own actions. Many people are superstitious so they believe that some man is possessed by Devil, or he’s possessed by demons. Therefore many believe in exorcism and dispossession from Devil. Still, I’m sorry to say that some destructive persons will be disappointed, but such things don’t exist. If there are Demons in some man, he created and fostered them on his own. He’ll also have to get rid of them on his own.

Still, what is happening in our region?

Fake healers act like exorcists and supposedly save you from the curse, an evil magic and demons, and from the demon himself. At the same time, they send demons back to where they have come. Ha-ha, I’m asking you, and where did

they come from, and where they send them? Neither they have an idea, nor they know what they do, but they know to take money. No one will take blame for superstitious ones who do evil and trust swindlers. For, as I have said, swindlers lie for the money. They know the soft spot of their victims.

What’s the soft spot here?

Idleness and lack of goodness, lack of love and self-criticism.

I recall a real life case where a young man has been putting off cigarettes on his own hand. He put off 20 of them. His hand was swollen so he went to the Emergency Room.

The doctor said that he’s been working for 20 years and he’s never before had such absurd case. Do you know what the young man said to the doctor?

He said:

– Doctor, please, give me some pills or injections as you usually do, and I’ll go home.

So, the young man had no any consideration to even offer an excuse to the doctor for effort and causing troubles for no real reason. As if the doctor was obliged to tolerate his haughtiness? Even if he’d given him the injection, and if it didn’t help, maybe the doctor would be even more to blame?!

Also, many people go to fake healers. That’s because they’re so much evil and lazy to change their lives and do something good for themselves and others, and also for their healing.

Therefore, I’ll repeat:

Healers and doctors can help. Sometimes they can help considerably. Still, no one can heal you completely if you don’t deserve it, and especially that can’t be done by fraud. No one can expel demons that you feast. A man creates them and feeds them and they grow. They can’t be forced out. They can just be worn out if you don’t feed them, and they disappear. Thus the exorcism is made out for naïve people. It’s the same as if you drank two six-packs of beer and you’re thinking that it could be that you don’t have alcohol in your blood. And not just that! You’re also thinking that doctors are obliged to eliminate it in no time, neatly.

Therefore one of my missions is that each individual should realize that he/she is the master of its own destiny and that it’s very ignorant to go from one swindler to another, hoping to recover, and thinking that someone else will do what you have to.

Many fake healers are messing with such slobs and evil-doers. There’s no wonder that in the end these slobs with no self-criticism are destroyed by them. So, everyone gets what it deserves.

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THE ROAD TO DOWNFALL

The road to downfall is worse than the road to death.


Death can save you from suffering that you’ve created for yourself, but only you can save yourself from the downfall. So, the man’s falling, afterward extremely suffers, and because he doesn’t want to save himself, death remains the only savior.

Many can say at this point that everyone’s going to die. Still, I don’t think only about the death of the body, because everyone’s born anew until it fulfills its karma. Here I think about the spiritual downfall.

Violence and aggression are the safest and the fastest way of the man’s downfall. Still, there’s more dangerous road, that’s at the same time more difficult because it brings slow disaster. The things brought by slow disaster can’t be quickly erased. Also, if you’ve fallen, you’re going to need lots of will and strength to fight against your own disaster. Still, exactly those who fallen, are left without strength and will.

Many say that it’s not a shame to fall; it is shame not to get up.

The question is how sensible and wise is this sentence?

If you have fallen, and you are hurt, so you can’t get up, why’s that shameful,

and fall isn’t? If you had watched where you were going, you wouldn’t have fallen. Thus I consider that it’s greater shame to fall. Not getting up if you can’t, it’s not the shame. That’s simply the lack of will or strength.

Why do I write this text?

People want to make excuse for their fall. When a man falls, God’s helping him. When God has helped him, the man gets up. Therefore, it’s so stupid to think that some man’s not going to get up. God has created him, and God helps him. Certainly that everyone who has fallen is going to get up. Thus it’s shame to fall spiritually. That’s because no one makes you do such thing. Also, God’s always with you so that your success is guaranteed. Only if you excessively err, you are going to fall. Every person gains experience. Who could be guilty if you helped by your experiences choose inevitable disaster? And you furthermore lie to yourself as if the disaster was a success?

There’s a story about an innocent man who came to Devil to ask for help. Devil has asked him what he wants, and he said:

– I’ve spent whole my life in happiness and love. Still, there’s an experience I would like to know. I’ve never experienced regret and absolution from sins. Can you help me?

Devil created three doors and said:

– Behind the first doors is a prostitute. Behind the second doors is a villain, murderer. Behind the third ones is a bottle of whiskey. Choose which one you’re going to enter.

The man instantly thought how a bottle of whiskey is the smallest sin, so he immediately entered the third door and drank whiskey. He was drunk in a couple of minutes, so being so drunk he entered the first door, raped the prostitute in anger, so he entered the second door and killed the villain.

This story simply explains how sin is treated among the modern people as something inevitable, harmless and normal. People think adultery and sin are equal to enjoying life. Still, in reality, there are misery and road to downfall. Such road to downfall is traveled slowly. The man becomes evil and that he doesn’t notice that. In the end, he says that he "only" has slept with someone and has "just" drunk couple of drinks. And there’s no sight of dignity, happiness, and love.

Thus I don’t the claim that it’s not a shame to fall, but it is shame not to get up. That exclamation is made up by irresponsible people who would like to cover up the evil they do. They mask their own downfall so that they drag the others into misery. For me the different conviction is valid. It’s a shame to fall, while it’s not a shame not to get up if you can’t. The first one is a free will, and the second one is unavoidable circumstances. In which way you can forgive yourself, if you know you have had complete freedom to do as you will, and you have done everything to destroy yourself, besides God being your companion, and helping you all the time, so you can’t fall if you stick to Him? And who, under the circumstances, thinks that someone can’t get up if it falls?


Each person experiences failures. Each failure becomes a success in the end when man’s trying hard and trusts God. Still, I don’t talk about that here. I talk about living adultery and sin that certainly lead to disaster, so they aren’t desirable or necessary to life experience. No one needs such downfall, as well as

not getting up.

So, the ion that leads you to promiscuity and living in sin is the old cheater. It cheated so many souls, that their number exceeds the number of stars in Cosmos. It promises fortune but gives misfortune. It promises consolation but gives failure. Thus look at your path, think, and decide what you have to do, because, God is with you. If the man nowadays is socially corrupted, he will not stand up today, be assured of that. He has to accept the hand of salvation first, and that often takes a lot of time, with lots of suffering and pain.

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THE BELIEVER’S VANITY – INQUISITION

Religion is dead, God is alive.


Every member of a certain religion comes into the situation to think as if his religion is the best. He certainly wants to think that Messiah for whom was formed his religion is the greatest.

What does at all mean the best and the greatest?

As if there are thousands of Gods, and some are greater than the others?

There’s only one God.

You ask yourself, how that matches with polytheism? It’s very easy and simple. God inhabits everything created and He’s the Divine Self of everything created. Thus He’s the only in multitude. You can adore Him, as Divine Self of the stars, planets, people, Avatars and Messiahs. That is how ancient Greek did.

Can you guess what I want to talk about?

The question is: what’s it that makes the man not to search for truth, but to glorify its own religion, its Messiah?

I am going to answer it right away: Desperation and skepticism; the feeling of lower value, which makes you proud. Then you imagine how your religion and Messiah are the greatest.

At this point, we’re going to start with Christians and Jesus. Jesus spoke that who believes in Him, will be saved. That’s very easy to understand, but many understand this in a wrong way. Jesus was God-created. Therefore, Jesus is sufficient as a path, truth, and goal. The one who follows Jesus with whole his heart, he’ll reach the goal. Therefore it’s not good for Jesus’ follower to follow other teachings. In his mind and in his faith one can hesitate. Still, those who think that other avatars are no good or are lower in the hierarchy than Jesus, they are wrong. How and why is that so?

If you think that Jesus is the greatest and the only, in that way you show how low

you estimate God, so you openly show to think that God’s evil, and that he’ll allow that only one religion and one avatar can save the man. What kind of God would that be?

Inquisition used to terribly punish people for not ing this standing point. Inquisitors had forced people to think that God is malevolent and that no man can’t and isn’t allowed to compare itself with God.

I’m asking, who should be normally comparing yourself with- with inquisitors and villains? Whom should you try to reach?

They were saying that it’s heresy for a man to say how he has got to know God. They made it up that no man can become God. And they were right about that. The man can’t become God because he already is and God is his Divine Self.

In this way, fake believers and false followers of Jesus (I can freely say it) say that it’s pride when a man claims that God has shown to him. They say that such claim is the classical example of a man being astray and proud and succumbing to evil forces.

I will laugh out loud at this point.

This is a case of classic self-reflection. The man in others sees what he recognizes in himself. Because, what is the fact that someone doesn’t believe in other’s success and closeness to God, and he believes furthermore that God was so evil that he would condemn the man to eternal exile, eternal degradation as compared to God? These are skepticism and pride.

Therefore, inquisition is nothing else but pride and prejudice. It has nothing to do neither with religion nor with Avatar. It only has to do with illness and inferiority complex. Because, the one that doesn’t recognize its own pride in belittling other religions and Avatars, is neither believer, nor a man, and hardly would in his mind and heart God be close to him. Therefore, it’s no wonder that this one stands for such belief.

Thus, always think twice what you think and feel, and why’s that so?

I’m always ing that spiritual teacher should be Messiah of some religion and you shouldn’t change anything. But, why you shouldn’t use such a nice advantage to find God and truth, and not to brag and be proud?

Who’s bragging and showing pride about its religion?

The answer is:

The difficult, evil ignoramus that isn’t searching for truth, but for a cure for his complexes by bragging and humiliating others. Hmm, the question is now, what kind of Messiah, kind of religion, and what kind of God is represented by such ignoramus? What kind of heart has he, and what kind of mind?

Thus, respect your teacher in a manner of respecting the truth and God of every religion and Messiahs. This doesn’t mean that you should believe everyone’s rubbish, but you have to understand that God’s just, full of love for everyone takes care of everyone, and what’s the most important, it’s accessible!

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LACK OF SELF-ESTEEM

A girl’s been growing in a family with an alcoholic father. He was coming home drunk all the time and abused his wife, whether verbal or physical, it depended on his mood. This man was destroyed by alcohol, so he died younger suffering from a severe disease. Because of such father, the girl has learned a lesson.

Which one?

It’s never good to drink alcohol. She has discovered destructiveness of alcohol, and that violent man is destruction for a woman.

She grew into a young and beautiful girl. Because of things from the young years, and because of the pain she carried for her father, she has decided to marry a good man. And that implied that he shouldn’t drink alcohol at all, and he certainly shouldn’t be aggressive.

Still, just because of such childhood and young years she was not able to estimate a man. That’s because she loved her father, and he was evil.

One day she met a young man who was a member of a respectable Christian community. That man neither drank, nor smoked, and was supposedly religious. Why supposedly? Because he had principles in his life and was sure that he was

exceptional for his principles, but that was not actually true.

What happened there?

These two committed to each other, married and had a child. After a while, she physically changed, and he started to avoid her. He was not much communicative, so he didn’t explain to her what it was about. They didn’t have sex anymore, and while he was going out wherever he wanted and with whomever he wanted. He was ignoring her so much that she never knew where he was, or what he was doing. Although they lived in the same house, he was almost not talking to her at all. And he was a member of a respectable Christian community.

After 20 years, this girl, now a mature woman, met a man that was a kindred soul to her. She opened up to him and told him her destiny. When the man asked her why she married him, she answered:

– Because he’s good. He doesn’t smoke, doesn’t drink and is not beating me.

The man answered:

– Since when duties of the man are his goodness? Where is his love that he has taken the oath of? Since when is the man who is not taking care of needs of his wife a good man?

What does this example mean?

Many people have gone through hardships and learned their lesson. Still, wishing to cure their harms, they make mistakes in a way they don’t respect themselves. As we see, a woman from the story in the lack of self-respect confused the evil man with a good one, and she lived in that conviction, only because he was not drinking, not smoking and not being aggressive to women as her father was. She considered that it was normal and she deserved to be spiritually abandoned by the man.


Humanity is a human obligation. It’s not the goodness. Goodness comes from the heart intoxicated with love that melts in sweetness. And who really thinks that someone is a believer if he doesn’t respect his closest ones?

Many women nowadays go to bed with unfaithful men and say how good and noble they are. Why are they good? Is it because they pretend to be gentlemen buying gifts, or because they go to bed with them?

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EGOISM

When some people want to avoid taxes and any charges, they launder their money. To launder money, they need money launderers. When money launderers say their price, those who want to launder money whine and howl thinking, to be honest, while money launderers are thieves and manipulators. A woman took

always her employee money to money launderer. She thought:

– How terrible are those people that launder money! How are they not ashamed to be such people? They shamelessly rob others.

She had no slightest idea what’s consequence of money laundering. If she had considered and understood that, she would be afraid for herself.


The modern tendency to money, influence, sex, fornication and pleasure implies that the collective selfishness has grown and that egoism has become stronger and get an unjustified desirable role in the life of many people. Precisely said, thrift is considered positive attribute for egoism. If a person saves more pleasure and material gain at the expense of others (also when it comes to emotions and dignity), that’s considered to be good, desirable and positive.

Still, destinies of others show a different situation. The life of gain and egoism is the life against oneself and your own happiness.

So, what Jesus said?

– Give to Caesar what is Caesar’s, and to God what is God’s.

On the other hand, nowadays no one has respect, neither for king nor for God.

Regardless the fact that God, who had always warned that the man should have no other idols besides Him, modern people have respect just for the wickedness of the mind and gain. Thus modern people either launder their money or other people’s money and all that to have benefit for their ego, while the soul and the heart compensate for it. Such people are always wondering, how come that misfortune follows them?

Let’s look closer at the case of money laundering.

Money laundering is not just corruption, but also selfishness and insensitivity.

Grabbing at the expense of others brings empty and selfish heart, so the insensitivity appears to be a very auto-destructive state. Helping someone feed egoism for one’s own gain is also equally insensitive.

The insensitivity of some person brings pain and misfortune to others. An insensitive man harms everyone, wherever he goes. Therefore those who take part in money laundering create own great unhappiness because with their deeds they ensure themselves bad karma that has to come true one day.

A person laundering money refuses to give world and society what belongs to them. A money launderer takes part in such inhumane action. A thing I want to explain here is that the modern man sees no harm in laundering his money, but he sees evil in the one who takes to himself to do this job for the benefit of his own ego.

The woman afore-mentioned in the case is certainly not accidentally put in focus here. That’s because women nowadays don't look in which way their men earn

money. If some woman is not paying attention to it, then it’s no wonder if men abuse her in any way, so she stays alone or unhappy (no matter which one).

Therefore, give Caesar Caesar’s means that you have to take care of the whole world and give God God’s means to practice spiritual activities and revive the God from your heart.

Developing selfishness, pleasure and egoism actually close your heart.

Here it’s clear why I have no favorites both among bad people and among good people. That’s because I disperse disillusion that gain and selfishness could bring love and happiness. Selfish people stick to wrong philosophy stubbornly. They would like if God was also as careless and selfish. Still, God is the ruler of the universe just because He’s not such, neither it can be, nor He could become ever such. Only a man may be equated to God. And that can’t be achieved by money laundering.

Specifically, bribe and corruption is a big enemy precisely to those who take part in such relationships and dealings. Because, if you have injured others, you will injure yourself. If you help someone to injure people, you injure yourself again. Don’t trust a woman who doesn’t get that (nor a man).

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THE MYTH OF POVERTY

A woman in one her life was a hardened materialist. She thought if she found a young, beautiful and a wealthy man, that she would be happy. A neighbor was in love with her. She liked him, but he was poor. All her life she was looking for a well-off guy who is besides that a good lover. Eventually, she had found such guy and married. She was disappointed after a while because she was pretty empty and unhappy inside. That was because she wasn’t looking for a man by heart, but by the mind.


In the next life, this woman was a man. The man was coming across women who wanted to use him sexually to have fun all the time, but none of them wanted to marry him because he was poor. That man has been looking for a woman all his life who would accept him as he was. That didn’t happen.

After a long time, the man at the point of acceptance has said:

– God, I’m not ashamed of the fact that I am poor. I’m ashamed to constantly meet women who appreciate money more than me. Are all women materialistic, or my destiny is the problem? From now on, I will look for character and virtues first in persons of opposite sex.

Here we see how karma teaches everyone about own disillusions. If your Idol is everything except God and love, then be assured that you’re going to get a bitter medicine for your own healing. That means that you’re going to learn a lesson through suffering and misfortune.

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THE CONSEQUENCES OF ACTION

The most difficult thing is to engage someone in doing right.


A man wants to live with ease. That’s why truth is difficult for him. For that reason, a man gladly sticks to its misery.

Here’s what I don’t understand.

Many say that you are what you think. A man who realized Self sees himself as the descendant of God. It’s said that it’s going to be as you believe. The man who knows God knows that it’s going to be according to God’s will.

Therefore, such claims, what do they really mean?

Do they mean that even wise and famous people are being under influence of ego, so they pander to their ego and others?

Jesus said: – Love others as you love yourself. Still, Jesus knows who is he, so he knows who you are. And what did know, let’s say, Narcissus? Many say that the narcissus was in love with himself. Eh, if it really was so, God wouldn’t be

unjust to let Narcissus be hurt? Because God is saying: – You shall have no other gods before me. And what Narcissus adored? He wasn’t in love with himself, but with the look of his body. Some people think that they’re much better than Narcissus so they worship their mind, their thoughts, and emotions; identifying themselves with different thoughts and emotions being mixed-up.

According to that, you can’t think that you are a man, and in reality, your Divine Self is God. How can then you can be what you think? In which way you would believe that your thoughts determine your life?

Therefore, what you think it’s your reality, and it doesn’t have to mean to be true.

Are you what you eat? Or your life gets the karma that you create with what you eat? Is your food killed? Has someone paid for you to eat well? Does a man think that he’s going to get away if someone got killed because of him, and is that thought that’s going to come true for sure? Or is that another stupid belief that it’s going to be as you think? Or is it going to be as you believe? Or is it God going to be unjust just because someone thinks so?

Therefore I don’t believe in thoughts. Thoughts are transient and many of it doesn’t have anything to do with truth. I believe in actions because choosing which thoughts to put into action is an action indeed. Saying words is also action.

You are how you act. Your actions determine your karma i.e. merit or punishment. Man can think anything. That can be his reality, but it doesn’t have to be truth. Therefore, the thoughts don’t determine how are you going to live and who are you going to be. Simply, bad thoughts are dangerous and make an evil and unhappy man, and good ones make a happy one. Because thoughts

emanate from the state of your consciousness – if you are diminished, you are going to foster bad thoughts, do bad works, enjoy in them, but you’re going to be unhappy and lonely.

Therefore it’s hard for a man to get interested in truth, the real and the correct things. Because that means that man has to give up on his negativities that he enjoys. And it’s therefore almost impossible task. Everyone keeps to its despair stubbornly.

Therefore destructive addictions such as alcohol, drugs, and cigarettes exist. However, equally bad addictions are sexuality, misfortune and eating meat. A modern man doesn’t see sin in above mentioned, let alone destructive addiction. In this manner, he overlooks God’s justice and inevitable malevolent destiny. Thus, who can convince me that it’s going to be as you think and as you believe and that it should be the truth for sure?

And who preaches something like that, and why?

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THE GLORY AND MAGNIFICENCE OF GOD

A girl was in love with a man. They were neighbors and family friends. She wasn’t much beautiful, but was shapely and not ugly at all. Still, this man preferred only beautiful and good looking girls.

Since he had been chasing only beautiful and good looking girls, he even had dated some of them. He thought how smart he was and how he was a man of style. Many envied him.

Deep inside his soul, this man was lonely and unhappy. Clearly, he felt that he didn’t have, nor he was ever having a girl to rely on. He had broken many relationships because he was suffering because of beautiful girls. With the time he discovered that the beautiful girls he knew were unfaithful and unreliable. They were bragging with their good looks. They take advantage of their looks to live their egoism. They didn’t pay attention to his heart and personality.

One day, the young man had found a sick tom-cat. The tomcat was dying. He adopted him and nurtured him. After a long fight, the tom-cat recovered. Because of the severe illness, the tom-cat looked weak and unnoticeable. Everyone was making a joke on his cat being ugly and scruffy. Still, he was so happy that the cat was alive and there was no so beautiful cat in the universe for him. Because of his weakness, the cat didn’t live long. He died after a couple of years. The young man was inconsolable. The girl, who loved him and was his neighbor, came as soon as she had heard that the cat died. She knew how much he loved that cat.

As she comforted him, his heart opened. Then he looked at her, and he saw God in her. He was crying and thought:

– How is it possible that I’ve never seen how beautiful and magnificent she is?

Because his heart opened in suffering and love, he recognized his mistake and his foolishness.

What does this story mean?

Many proud and skeptical think that they have taste and know what is beautiful and what isn’t. However, God has no physical appearance nor taste, nor smell, and he’s still the most beautiful one. Still, the magnificence of the God is still above the threshold of mind’s understanding. That means that nothing in the Universe is not nearly as beautiful as God is.

This is yet another explanation why one should tend to realization and experiencing God -because God’s the most beautiful and above any duality. All beauty and love, happiness and joy, are found in Him. Everything beautiful in the Universe emanates from God.


Recognizing God in someone determines that it doesn’t matter to you whether someone is beautiful or ugly. Then, of course, you see in this person perfection and magnificence. Then your heart is big and wide. Then you’re happy and joyful because fake’s not the part of your life. You live in truth and recognize the perfection of creation and life.

Perfection is everywhere around you. God’s everywhere, even in you, and around you. If you don’t see Him, you are lost and lonely.

That’s the problem that any man has to solve. Therefore don’t search for perfect looks that don't exist in reality. Look for perfect God, so you’re only to perceive the real beauty and perfection, and that’s God. Huh, and that perfection is actually found in the things that man considers imperfect. Therefore there’s no

end to his unhappiness and loneliness. You can’t plant a tomato and expect for the walnut to grow. You’re going to find, what you have been looking for.

At this point many may ask:

– What’s he talking about? How could you find perfect beauty in the ugliness, and how perfection could exist in imperfection?


Not only that it’s possible, but it’s always like that. Not only that it’s always like that, but it’s also the whole truth.

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THE TRIP TO NEVERLAND

It happens that a husband cheats on his wife. Also, it happens that husband and his lover want to keep their relationship a secret. It also happens that they need a space to commit adultery.

Eh, when the lover’s friend appears (who’s otherwise very ''good''), and offers her apartment for use (and that’s because she’s very ''good'').


Even as I write this, the sense of horror’s coming over me. How far human insensitivity goes?

Here I’ll just compare it:

– It’s just like two sheep are going to be slaughtered, and the third is running behind them, and looking forward to it, thinking how kind and smart she is. Here you are.

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SEDUCERS – FORNICATORS

Not only are seducers saying how are they looking for true love, they even believe in that.


No one’s good enough for seducers. They even don’t consider themselves good enough. They like to raise themselves above others and to live their impulses. They don’t take care of other people hearts, and they call it ''search for love''.

A seducer doesn’t know that the heart’s the most valuable thing on Earth. Thus he injures it all the time. A seducer doesn’t know how many people are sensitive. He lives in the Nazi conviction that he can take advantage of people, because there are those who’re invaluable, and those who are valuable, he thinks.

An invaluable man doesn’t exist. A seducer doesn’t know that. He threads over peoples’ hearts, and calls that ''search for love''.

A seducer always thinks how much he sacrifices himself. He doesn’t notice sacrifice of others. He thinks that only he suffers, while the suffering of others, that actually he causes – doesn’t notice.

A seducer plays with other people’s hearts. That makes him Devil in itself. A seducer is Devil in human form. He has no respect for the human heart, neither for God. If you don’t respect God, how are you going to respect anyone else?

A seducer always says that he has right to do whatever he wants and that he has his own love rules. In reality, the seducer is just insensitive and evil, and matches love rules to his own egoism. Still, pandering to egoism isn’t love. Seducing has nothing to do with love, but with the inferiority complex. Seduction’s the first Devil’s trait.

Nowadays there are many seducers. You just have to learn to recognize them.

Why?

Because seducers don’t know how evil and bad they are. They’re even not aware that they are seducers. They’re even not aware that they don’t search for love but live vanity and evil, and tend to their genitals. The seducer isn’t aware how much he will hurt someone with his insensitivity and irresponsibility. He will always say that he wants only well for you, and how it’s good to be the way something really is.


The common trait of the seducer is to hurt someone’s heart without even noticing that. They don’t realize that people love. They think that the men are made of stone, as well as they are. Their suffering they call love suffering because of their egoism. Still, a seducer doesn’t know the love suffering.

Why?

Because his mind and his heart are shallow; he’s so much shallow, when he gets knee-deep into water, he believes that he’s in the deepest sea depths.

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THE PAST

If presume the fact that God is perfect then we shouldn’t doubt His justice.


A true believer is not afraid of God. Still, that’s not because he believes that God will protect him in that way. That’s because his mundane actions don’t deserve to be sanctioned. If there’s no reason for you to be punished, you don’t have to be afraid of anything. Still, no man knows completely the past of this life, let alone the past lives. Therefore it’s said that the bad man is the one who’s not afraid of God. That’s because the bad man thinks that he can avoid God’s justice. If he trusted God, he would know that he can avoid punishment for his evil doings, so he wouldn’t have done them. Thus being evil, unfaithful and unfaithful to God goes together.

Therefore, as we see, ignorant person is afraid of people, not of God. The ignorant is the one that doesn’t realize that God’s will is always carried out. No one can lose what he has deserved in front of God, and no one can get undeserved in front of God. The worst is when a man gets something and it ends unproductive. These are the cases when it’s better if you haven’t got anything than to make success in the wrong place.

What do I want to explain?

Many spiritual teachers say that the past is the dust. Here, they are right. However, many of them don’t realize that past can’t be erased. They even don’t understand that the present day will be the past. It’s good when a man believes that he can correct his mistakes from the past by his actions. It’s not good when a man neglects its actions from the past and believes that everything will turn out well eventually. Even the biggest fool knows that foundation goes first, and afterward the bricks are laid. Many acts as if their past doesn’t determine their present time. They even don’t realize that their presence determines their future.

Therefore, it’s essential to understand that at this point destiny can’t be changed by force. The sins of the past will not allow that. One thing is when I say that a man is a master of its own destiny. Another thing is when someone thinks that he’ll repent without paying off its debts. So God will be merciless if it’s so.

The success of others is your success. The failure of others is your own failure. The only difference is in time, but naïve people think that the difference is karmic.


Some people do despicable things, but they act as if they were victims. One day when destiny comes for them, they will really become victims. Still, they don’t see Despotism and suffering as the one and the same thing. That’s wrong and it shouldn’t be like that. Everyone has to understand that God is perfect and that His judgment is perfect. No one should think that something can be achieved forcedly, playing smartass and acting to avoid God’s judgment. Everything belongs to God. The death takes everything away, even life. In the end, there’s only past that determines your future in the next life.

Thus, you can’t erase the past, neither the present, even your present actions can’t be erased tomorrow.

Jesus said that there’s no dirt on dusty hands. Dirt comes off a wretched man. If you are able to understand that, you’re going to understand in which way God es judgment justly. You’re also going to understand why God invites crippled, sick and unable to the feast. That’s because they answer his invitation. Wicked people don’t do that. They think how they are so smart and how much they make the sacrifice. However, the person making a sacrifice isn’t aware of his sacrifice. Only God can be aware of it.

Therefore, don’t trust a man that’s afraid of people, and not afraid of God. Likewise, don’t trust a man that thinks that he’ll make benefit from other people’s misfortune. That’s sin from the start because it expresses the belief that God is an unjust fool and that God can be tricked. Such belief is pure ignorance, vanity, egoism. Does it make sense that such man gets God’s mercy?

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THE CREATION OF POWER

Manipulation and creation of power are ego’s properties.


There is something good emerging from every evil. Also, the usual good deed often causes difficulties somewhere. Thus the creation of power strengthens ego, but likewise, the freedom of soul is restricted. Ego strengthening is bad because that’s basically weakening of the influence of soul. Actually, the soul can’t be weakened, but, I’m trying to explain that soul can’t do quick and much if ego is stubborn, selfish and evil. Therefore soul can draw the life energy, so the man who does much hurts himself and others, and even may leave the world prematurely.

Why do I explain this?

Once, I got in touch with a circle of psychologists from our country. When I had mentioned dignity because the topic was pride, some of them said that pride is one thing, and dignity completely different one, and as if we shouldn’t talk about that because we would miss the subject. Still, if something is evil, then there’s something opposite of that, and that’s good. Therefore restlessness is opposite of peace, the hatred is opposite of love, and lie is the opposite of the truth. Likewise, pride is evil, and its opposite is dignity. Therefore, I’m sincerely worried if our psychiatrists are not acquainted with such simple and important fact. That is because the strengthening of pride brings the loss of dignity. So, just think about that how the proverb: off on her hobby-horse again was made? That’s because an immoral person loses dignity, so it has to be proud of it. Thus, the pride is fake and pretense. The same goes for the strong ego. When a man has a strong ego, and satisfies only its ego, then the influence of the soul is diminished, so the man loses love and meaning of life.

Certainly that the power of the soul is lasting, and that the soul always finds the way to guide and save the man. Still, when a man is driven by ego, in that case, it’s very hard, painstaking and prolonged. It’s not the same as if the child is obedient, or when it’s so disobedient that you have to use the discipline measures.

Therefore, the question raised here is, what can you expect from a psychiatrist that’s not able to know difference between dignity and pride, nor realizes their mutual interconnectedness, and yet he thinks that pride can be beneficial in some cases? He also thinks how a man can be proud of his own courage not realizing that it’s impossible because pride is always the result of an unconscious fear, lack of trust to oneself and lack of self-worth. If you really consider yourself worthy and brave, that means that you couldn’t ever be proud of that.

That’s why I’m concerned. Our psychologists don’t have the basic education that they should have. I always say that it’s essential to pray to and trust God. However, ignorant is the one that thinks that knowledge and education aren’t necessary, except the mere faith in God. Therefore, the great majority of our

psychiatrists not only that have no faith in God and not rely on karmic and God’s principles, but they also pretend as if they’ve known something, while they actually don’t, and they even haven’t learned theoretical principles of their own profession.

Furthermore, psychiatrists that strengthen his patient’s ego is not a psychiatrist, but patient itself. Only a patient–ignoramus i.e. psychiatrist–ignoramus (it doesn’t matter) s evil and creating misery. Many psychiatrists pander to their patients, so they actually live instead of their patient. Psychiatrists nowadays are satisfying their ego, making money and growing their influence, so in that manner, both psychiatrist and patient fall deeper into the abyss.

And what’s so important about a psychiatrist and a patient?

It’s important that the patient is cured and relieved of a big problem or illness, and that a psychiatrist gains knowledge and spiritual progress based on that experience.


Many of our psychiatrists are not acquainted with the subject, not just because they don’t know God, but also because they’re incorrectly taught. They are more hindering than helping their patients. Thus a good psychiatrist is only one who knows God, or at least, believes in God, knows His principles and His love, and also has the knowledge that allows him to be educated to the certain degree. Because, when it comes to the work of psychiatrists, the love’s not enough, that I consider essential, but the expertise is also necessary.

And which expertise people have that don’t make the connection between dignity and pride, and they don’t know that one is ruled out by another? Also when they don’t know if they encourage the patient to live their ego, in that manner they attract a negative karma to themselves, to their patient and to everyone who gets in touch with them, so they diminish the soul and its influence on the patient and their life?

Thus, ego strengthening diminishes the influence of the soul. That’s very bad and is the direct cause of suffering and misfortune of mankind. Thus first you have to learn to recognize: whether a psychiatrist is, in fact, a dangerous patient?

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ROADS OF DAMNATION = HUNGRY CROCODILES

Many people couldn’t swim across the river on one part of its course. One day, a young girl has decided to try to swim across it. Since she was young and full of vigor, while she was swimming she realized that she will easily swim across the river. Therefore, she relaxed, and let the river carry her, and even swam downstream. At some point she heard voices that say:

– Don’t swim downstream, it’s choked with crocodiles!

As soon as she had heard that, she saw large crocodiles on the bank. She swam to the bank of the river and ran headlong.

What does this story mean?

At a time when I’ve taken interest in spirituality, a new wave of spirituality emerged when many spiritualists said not to swim upstream because it’s easier to yield to the river of life. They discovered it’s easier like that. Still, I have perceived that it’s not exactly like that. The life is a river that flows. However, if you have to cross over from one bank to another, then it’s not advisable to swim neither upstream nor downstream. That means that it’s not much smart to let the life lead you so that you live as it comes to you, and it’s also not advisable to fight against life and swim upstream. The simplest way is to swim it across. For, if you swim upstream for too long, you’ll be eaten by a crocodile which is the symbol of pleasure, fame, self-interest and voracity. If a man lives as it goes, he will be eaten by a hungry crocodile. If you are oriented to life, and you’re constantly fighting with the world and people, you’re going to use strength, health, and eventually your heart.

Therefore, I stand by the conviction that life is a river you have to cross. The life isn’t something that should help you get lost in the world but is something that helps you, as you live in the world, to reach yourself, your happiness and love. Generally, the world doesn’t offer that, but it helps you achieve that. The mind wants to be lost in the world, but soul and heart don’t. Therefore attitude towards life is important. Who wants to live forever, he’s already has lost its own life.

Why do I find this boring presentation important?

It’s important to point out that young live in a manner that they give themselves to pleasures and weaknesses of lechery, sin, and evil because they are young, full of vigor and have a feeling that they could live their oats out for a long time. They are chasing fame, money, sex and influence. Such kind of life destroys them quickly.

On the other hand, when they get disappointed, they change sides, so they begin to hate creation, God, and life, so they’re against everything that’s good, useful and valuable, furthermore the same valuable things are depreciated, so even now they are living against the life, so they are the same as those who swim upstream.


All of this should explain why is necessary to teach young and children to trust God and to appreciate and respect life from the start. That they must be warned about premature death due to alcoholic drinks, immoral sex, narcotics, and violence. If you think that through well, many famous people die inside just because they have everything, but they don’t have spiritual freedom, so they gave themselves up to such weaknesses and yields to death during their lifetime. It’s not easy to free yourself of weakness. Because, if we think further, many people value love according to someone’s ability to fail together with someone who has already failed. Anyway, you’re wise and merciful, and if you love someone, don’t follow him/her to failure, but get him/her out. Both seem the same in the world, but in reality, they differ.

This means that I personally, for example, wouldn’t allow that someone pulls me into trouble of lechery and vice, and I certainly have known well enough that I’m ready to help such people to pull through.

Therefore, it does not love to live weaknesses with wretched and evil. And that’s even not the sense of life. Love is for saving people from their own delusion and unhappiness. Here, this is what I wanted to say.

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THE OLD AND THE YOUNG

An older people, like to be in a company of the young so that they would feel younger. Some young people like to be in the company of the young so that they would satisfy their egoism. Many young people are worse than pedophiles.


When an older person has sex with the younger person, people want to put him behind the bars. When some other young person does the same, people give him money to go to the cinema. It is weird how people are differently judged based on their age? Afterward, some people that judge like that wonder: How come that life’s cruel like that?

Nowadays mothers teach their sons to sexually take advantage of the women. The question raised is, how that mother have gone through their lives when they teach their sons so shamelessly?

Once there was a circle of friends. One of them was older. There were a young girl and two young men. The older man was kind to the girl. She suspected his intentions. She thought that he was hitting on her. A young man hated the old one. He wanted to fight him because he thought the old guy was hitting on to a girl. Even she was balky. The last one, the other young man, was keeping them apart and said:

– Calm down, we’re just hanging out.

Later on, a young man that wanted to pick a fight with the old approached the other young man and asked him:

– What do you think, should I ask her to go out for a drink, maybe bang her?


Evil doing and evil heart have nothing to do with the age of a person. God determines the motivation for action. The worst are those who think as if young people have some rights, while the old one doesn’t. On the mundane level there exist only evil and good people.

No one should be surprised by this presentation. World and laws are established according to God, not by preference.

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GURU (also known as Messiah, Avatar)

I think that people presently aren’t acquainted with the true meaning of a word Guru, and they don’t know who’s really Guru. People think that Guru is a common man, or mystic, or some person that has various powers.

Guru is God within a human body.


I explain this primarily due to the many of mass religions. Many of them think that Guru is a medium who guides you and enables your connection to God (although He does that).

Still, Guru isn’t medium. How someone who is cause and outcome, who is a seeker, agent, and goal, may be a medium? Guru is Self. Self is everyone, as you are. Self is everything created; Self is love and the one you search for. Who isn’t realizing this truth, will remain running in circles in the dark.


Pray to God to show you the truth and not to talk about something that you imagine or something that’s not the truth. Because if you teach people wrong, many negative consequences will come back to you.

Therefore, all confirmed teachers Gurus: Buda, Mohammed, Jesus, Zoroaster, Krishna, Rama and the rest, are the embodiment of the one. Make effort to realize this truth.

How can you know if Guru is the right one?

It’s very simple. If you’re true explorer, it will present you, God.

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AN ASSUMED PERFECTION

In a million city, there was a place where games of poker were played, in which enormous amounts of money circulated. There was no place like that in the world. To play in that city, you had to have lots of money, and you had to play good poker.

Whenever the party was taking place, a multitude of people was standing and waiting outside the room where they were playing. Many were captivated with poker and those games that are being played at that place. Many people would stand outside and wait for any information from the inside.

These parties were led by a croupier. There was no one closer to his deftness, skill, reliability, clarity of mind and calculation. Players have never wanted another croupier (although they constantly criticized and lectured this one). Many might say that they appreciated and liked that croupier. Still, the truth was that they liked to believe they are powerful and smart and that they deserve highest-quality croupier. According to their logic, a man should be "perfect", so not surprisingly the work must be "perfect".

What was this really about?

It’s about assumed perfection. Many don’t know anything about it, and they think they know it. What people consider perfection is usually imperfection. Many people go into many bars and institutions where people work. They don’t look at that people. They don’t see that there is a human being in front of them. They see a worker without a soul, a robot, for whom they think that is responsible for relieving them of their complexes and of their desire for the assumed perfection. Because, when you don’t see a man as he really is, then you have just assumed perfection. Unfortunate is the one who wastes his/her time with you, i.e. comes in touch with you.

Thus, we are reaching the point that I want to explain. When everyone cares about their own egoism and false brains, it results in disagreement and problems. Because people want to have fewer problems and to solve them easier, they are forced to invent rules. Then they consider how’s necessary to stick to the rules. It wouldn’t be that bad if it didn’t come to an even greater egoism. It is such egoism, that when the problem appears, it’s not looked for what is humane, but each person looks only for their rights. He has that right according to some regulation, as a human being, if this man knew, he didn’t have the right and he wouldn’t even think that he had it. So many people think that someone died justly if he /she ed a red light. Or someone’s not guilty if he drove 59 km per hour, but he’s guilty if he drove 61 km per hour. People don’t look at humanity, but their right (which is invented for humanity among people).

There. Thus such a croupier had to work at the table where the biggest bucks are exchanged. Because many people have lost a sense of humanity and a man’s values, so that assumed perfection has a role to make believe as if someone is respected and valued, whereas this person is actually abused so that everyone could live false abilities, false knowledge and false respect at the expense of humanity and honest work.

This means that people don’t understand why ‘perfect’ have to work for them. So, if bosses and customers are getting worse, then the better ones have to work there. That’s something that egotists don’t understand.

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SELF-REALIZATION

Today is a day when the sun shines. If someone wished that it didn’t shine, it would still shine. If someone strongly believed that the sun wouldn’t shine at the moment when it shined, then such man would have to face the fact that there was something wrong with him.

In the evening, when the Sun goes down, someone may wish that it could shine. Still, for something like that, it will have to wait until morning. If someone believes that the sun will shine in the middle of the night, such a man will have to face its blunder.


Some people say: Just believe, and it will be as you believe. If you want to be happy, then be it. Don’t live in the past, live in the present.

However, people that say these words, aren’t closer to understand that the sun doesn’t shine at night. There is no darkness at daylight. What kind of wisdom is that doesn’t realize such simple things? Has no one said if that isn’t wisdom, but arrogance and egoism?

Today people offer self-realization at every corner. However, it’s a bit unusual

that the actual self-realization they offer is charged a lot and mostly in cash.

I understand that certain services have to be charged for. Each person finds its work and time valuable. However, teaching people to live selfishness and egoism is not the path to self-realization. Secondly, self-realization can’t be bought.

Some people say that man has a chance every day to decide whether he’ll be happy on that day, or not. That’s not the truth. You had to choose to do good or evil. If you have done an evil deed, then you’ll not be happy, but unhappy. If you are unhappy, you can only lie to yourself that you’re happy. If you find a cause of your unhappiness, and you make an effort to sort out your mistakes and dispel the reason of unhappiness, you could forgive yourself, be satisfied with yourself, love yourself, and therefore, you can unburden be happy, peaceful, and live in present.

Some people could think that what I explain here isn’t so important. They don’t have a clue how wrong they are. It could seem to someone that there’s no difference. Still, if someone says you should live in the present, you should be happy, you’ll always be as you believe, then you should know that such person teaches growing selfishness and egoism and related to them the outcome is unhappiness. Right the one who want that, and who say so, aren’t happy, don’t live in present, and don’t believe in the actualization of Self, i.e. consider themselves pathetic, and they have to brag because of their misery.

Here we can understand why I’m so often angry with so called spiritualists, hypocrites, and egotists. That’s because they present their skepticism and ignorance as knowledge and love, so many desperate people are led to blunder and damnation so that they suffer for developing their ego. Whereas their victims: work, make money and pay for their own destruction. Such a tragedy and misery of the human!

Therefore it’s not enough just to believe and to know. It’s necessary and correct to act based on belief and knowledge. Which fool doesn’t pay attention to the mistakes you make and to the misery that you experience, and say that you should just believe in luck?


Only huge, bold, the unscrupulous fool doesn’t. Supposedly, Universe everything sets for you?! For whom it sets? You think that people know who you are when they’re capable of such hypocrisy?

Thus, if you want happiness and self-realization, you have to put at stake something that will bring you success in that field.

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LABIRYNTH (Or so-called, plot)

The mind likes to understand everything and to explain it.


That means that the trouble happens when the mind has to or should explain

inexplicably. The mind is confused at that point. He has no answer and is not recognizing it. Then mind thinks for itself to be stupid and tiny. If a man empathizes with such mind, then such person thinks for himself how stupid and tiny he is.

A person that considers itself stupid and wee is subject to all sorts of doubts and fears. Also, such a person doesn’t know the way, it doesn’t recognize its own value or its life value, furthermore it doesn’t recognize the aim, and he sees a conspiracy and plotting everywhere. Everyone is somehow plotting against him and justice.

Here we see the man that doesn’t know the aim, he’s interested in various methods, various plots, various theories, and various situations, even different worlds.

What’s this here really about?

It’s about that there is only one God, while some people see numerous Gods. There’s only one Universe, while the majority is enchanted by the variety of worlds and dimensions. There’s only love, and the majority has numerous methods of advancement in spirituality and healing.

There’s a question, why modern man sees the evil and plotting of global proportions? Everything in the world looks rehearsed, planned and prearranged so that a conspicuous man falls into desperation as soon as he connects a couple of similarities and ''coincidences''. The man who considers itself puny thinks all the time that society is systematically plotting against him/her. Some even imagine, i.e. they have certain clues that aliens are occupying us.

To cut the story short what's this about? How comes that we get an impression, that all of this is about the planned and systematic exploitation of the people?

The answer is simple.

When people ruling lives for selfishness and egoism, then they seem as they have planned their invasion to planet Earth. It is the truth that when people live by doing evil and satisfying their selfishness, the result is the contemporary time in which we live nowadays.

Still, this presentation isn’t yet revealing what I want to explain.

There are some paths of spirituality and some new ways of healing constantly reemerging in the world. New advantages are found all the time to disparage, underestimate and somehow neglect the old ways. New money should be earned.

Naturally, there are many new methods and new more convenient ways in spirituality. What I want to explain is that everything’s just a means and , not the aim itself.

Therefore, if you are sitting in front of your house and enjoying, that’s not much worse than traveling through worlds and dimensions (it could even be better). Worse is only when the mind considers itself pathetic, and the person thinks that he’s the mind, so he/she has a desire for power and false brains, and thus the desire for false spiritual advancement.

The power is intoxicating and seducing (especially the spiritual one).

Divine Self is for everyone (I will deliberately stop here, and withhold from explaining it completely).

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THE SURVIVAL

Modesty is a virtue.


If you’re modest, you will be humble and obey your teacher.

Have you ever wondered why you need a real teacher? Is that to make you find reasons why you are better and smarter than He is? Many believers accept from the teacher only what suits them. So if they’re so smart, why they look for the teacher, and why they need Him?

If you had found Jesus within you, you would have experienced His modesty and humbleness. If you had discovered Buddha, you would have experienced His dignity. Then you would realize the importance of listening to the teacher, and not pretend to be smart and important. The greatest protection on the spiritual path is humbly listening to the teacher.

Many people think as if they are smarter than Messiahs and Satguru. Such people can’t be protected by God besides His best intentions. Therefore, the statement, that says: who takes care of oneself, even God protects him, is correct.

Anyway, right here in this statement, there’s a trap. People, when they grab for their ego, think that they take care of themselves. They think as if they are ego themselves. They consider both mind and body to be Self. Thus when they snatch food and fulfill their wishes and satisfy their ions and urges, they think that they take care of themselves. However, such people come into situations where they are helpless. Then they think that the world and life are the fights for survival. They think that the strongest survive.

Still, the fact is if the man took care of its environment and the closest ones, the world would blossom, and the weak would be protected. A man looks at injustice, does injustice, and considers God irresponsible and brutal, while he misses to examine oneself.

When creating the world, God created the man as a ruler and the guardian. Thus God achieves a lot with the will of a man. It is nonsense to blame it on God, and you use your mind and body to do evil and injustice and to your urges and ions in a completely brutal way.

Humility makes you capable of not doing evil and injustice. Therefore, the true spiritual teacher is absolutely humble both in of creation and God, as well as in relation to God.

Therefore the role of sheep and lambs in New Testament is misinterpreted.

People and even believers treat believers like sheep that go to be devoured. That’s really stupid and irresponsible since a believer in this way shows that he considers God to be cruel. What kind of man is it when it has such thoughts and belief about God?

Being sheep or lamb shows that you’re becoming absolutely humble and committed to God that he’ll easily take care of you, guide you and protect you from the worst beings and events.


Many people go out into the world. However, they don’t care about people besides them, let alone about the other people in the world. They don’t do good deeds for the world and they rather seek for ions and urges that would repeatedly satisfy them, so in that way, they devastate the world.

So the first step is to learn to serve weaker and closest people. If each man was humble and caring, even the food chain of animals could change, because life creates experiences based on action, primarily of people, and then of animals.

So, why do you need a teacher if you’re so smart and powerful? Mercy, comion, and humility are the results of modesty. Thus the modesty equals to faith in God. Thus the man is recognized by how much he’s ready to abandon those given by God to take care of. Therefore, if you consider God’s mercy and His gifts as distress and infliction, then there’s something very wrong with you, and therefore with the world.

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FORGIVENESS

Cold-heartedness is the trait of the majority of people.


On its way to the final destination, a man has many chances to go astray from God. That’s because there’s only one path of love. The rest of them are leading to failure. That’s why most people turn into the dead-end street. Thus we come to modern humankind that mostly fosters selfishness, egoism, disloyalty and aggression.

When you do evil to someone, then you make an injury. Mainly, together with physical injuries come emotional and psychological. You can really hurt the person even without physical violence. In cases when you do evil to someone, the question of forgiveness is instantly raised, because without forgiveness there’s no freedom, nor the resolution of the problem itself. Thus Jesus said that forgiveness is a higher principle than the principle: an eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth. Still, many people adjusted Jesus’ teaching to their egoism. They invented a lie that with forgiveness someone can be redeemed of sins.

A man learns by repetition. Therefore I repeat all the time the important things. In this case, it’s important to understand that forgiving evil of others is mainly related to yourself and your freedom. Because, if you have forgiven to someone, you haven’t resolved him of its sins, because you’re not God and you don’t determine who has what to learn, and how will be punished. With forgiveness,

you give peace and freedom to yourself, you forget about revenge, and you get out of the cause and effect loop. Any act of evil entails new karma and new unpleasant developments.

So, one of the biggest misconceptions of certain Christians is that they think that prayer and forgiveness can resolve others from the committed sins. God’s just and everyone has to pay their debts. The man that preaches forgiveness and believes that forgiveness can help avoid justice does evil to humanity because with such teaching he makes people believe that someone who has done evil can be saved by forgiveness. It will never be so. Many people and mostly some Christians wouldn’t ever do much evil only if they weren’t taken in by some foolish belief that someone can be saved without paying its debt and learning its lesson. God infinitely loves each person, so it can’t allow him to go unpunished and not to realize the truth that will bring him peace and happiness.


It’s stupid if you forgive someone for doing evil to you and you think that you have done a good deed. Forgiveness is something that brings you peace and freedom, and not to someone else. The other one will always have to pay off evil to do if he did it, no matter whether you have forgiven him a thousand times.

That is why Jesus said if your brother sins seven times, forgive him seven times seven. This is because in that way you’ll break the chain of unfortunate events and this is in itself a great success.

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HAPPINESS

Beneath the seriousness of some person may lay softness. Some people don’t take the smile off their face whole day long, but beneath their smile coldness and contempt are hidden.


In modern time, new spiritualists that make up positive affirmations emerged. Repeating these affirmations, they live a fake and a double-faced life.

What do I want to explain here?

If you’re corrupt and unhappy, affirmations about how super you are – won’t help. Only the solution of your own problems and self-understanding will help. If you’re unhappy, and you convince yourself that you’re happy, it’s called ignoring your inner self. Instead of curing yourself of unhappiness, you repeat meaningless affirmations that make you even more miserable. That’s not good. Therefore, many women-modern spiritualists are very dangerous for humankind. It’s because they preach a false life trough a false spirituality and false positivism.

I keep repeating that one must be focused on the ultimate goal because nothing else will bring complete satisfaction. If this can’t satisfy you, it will bring disappointment and distress. So, lots of women, modern spiritualists preach exactly that: a false goal, disappointment, misery.

What I explain isn’t a joke. Many women–modern spiritualists literally live in illusions. They put their illusions on paper, write a book, the book becomes popular, and people are massively led astray.

I know that these women think they are positive and have good intentions. However, they don’t have it.

Why?

These women are especially attached to the money, success and the emotional relationships with men. They get lost in their seductive emotions, and their life begets some unreal characteristics. That reality is a desire of a woman to exist only positively in the world, which is, of course, determined by her mind and emotions. Considering that her head and emotions aren’t clear. That means that these women don’t know what’s positive, what is God’s will as compared to a man, and don’t really know what makes a man happy.

Therefore many women nowadays imagine that happiness is having money and having sex with the beloved one. If they have that, they ignore inner dissatisfaction, and fake happiness, joy and assumed spirituality. Then they think as if they achieved something great, and they mistake it for spirituality.

Why do I write this?

Because I see many popular and famous women as they turn their back to truth, to themselves and to their own negativities, thus faking happiness and love. Actually, they are oriented to adultery and affluence, they are successful in obtaining the same, their ego goes frenzy, and they believe that they have right to

poison the minds of others with their delusion. Their spiritual life is not going upwards in a straight line as it should be, but they sink into the life of hypocrisy and lies and pull billions downwards.

Thus the techniques of positive affirmations appear, and basically they often rarely have a positive effect to people, especially if one besides affirmations overlooks the evil and negativity in their own life.


Beware of the crazy women who have succeeded in the secular field, so they further on exploit the field of false spirituality. They’re worse than many other false male spiritualists. Men- false spiritualists lie for money. Women – false spiritualists, lie for their own blindness and bias. They are much more dangerous than men-false spiritualists.

What all of this means?

Women – false spiritualists are capable of pretending all their life, until the death. If you don’t know to recognize such women, especially those presenting themselves as spiritual, you’re in big trouble. Trust me, I’ve personally found out that many women are writing spiritual books that are(believe it or not) very popular among people interested in spirituality.

If you don’t know what you are looking for, then every fool can seduce you. And I’ve just explained to you that there are those who seduce billions, and I’m not kidding, nor exaggerating.

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THE INFIDELITY OF AUTODESTRUCTIVE

The infidelity of some person shows that love doesn’t flow.


In real life, and often in movies, many people present this differently.

So once I read a story about a girl who had fallen into bad company and started to date a man, to drink, and to smoke because the man she had fallen in love rejected her. People, supposedly, said to the man that she became such because of him. When he asked why because of him, the people said:

– Buddy, you really don’t know her.

This story is a fabrication of a perverted mind.

Why?

Because there’s no woman in love capable of infidelity and dating anyone else. Secondly, a good and honest woman never gets into a bad company. Thirdly, and the most important, when a woman loves, her heart is open, so she’s incapable of doing evil, let alone step on others. The story that I haven’t fully told, deals with a woman becoming cruel, evil and cold-hearted because the man she’s fallen in love rejected her. Furthermore, it’s said that a man didn’t know her. Here I want to use the opportunity and say that reality is always different from an imagined reality.

I rarely defend men. However, in this presentation, I stand for the minority of men having their principles, and those principles are associated with love. The woman is certainly emotional being. Still, if the woman has no positive principles, her feelings become demonic. As we see, demonic feelings can make you believe that for love one can become a bad person. Trust me that it’s not truth and will never be truth. Therefore man very often rejects woman, not because he doesn’t know her, but because he has principles, recognizes female evil feelings, so it’s impossible for him to make a connection because there’s no true man that loves an unfaithful woman. Those who comply with infidelity go along the path of the least resistance. It may be beneficial sometimes, but as rule, that almost never happens. That’s because infidelity and malicious heart are destroyers of the love and love relationships.

Personally, I was very struck by the story in which female infidelity and bad treatment of other people because of fabricated unhappy love are presented as something normal because it shows that people nowadays don’t appreciate love associated with higher principles. People nowadays believe that love can survive without principles. People simply think that unfaithfulness is related to love. However, I am saying, infidelity is not a reflection of love, and there is no man that becomes unfaithful, evil and wicked because of love.

Therefore, it’s not enough that man is taught sensibility from a woman. It’s very important that woman acquires common sense and principles from man. An emotional woman without principles is an evil and unfaithful woman. A man full

of principles and knowledge is an evil man if his heart is empty, or cold i.e. insensitive.

So, to cut the story short, when a man rejects a woman for infidelity, that means that he knows her, and he knows that her love’s not worth his principles, because such love is not loving actually. When a woman finds someone else, she drinks, smokes and is found in bad company, that’s never the result of unhappy love, but the injury of the selfish ego, and turning against oneself and one’s own life.

I always say that unfaithful people are a calamity to themselves. However, unfaithful people are dragging others to misery. That makes them very dangerous.

I’ve written this presentation to explain that people nowadays simply don’t realize that love brings positive principles, so that man can live them. Here I don’t talk just about morality, so it’s not about moralizing. Here it’s about that where there is infidelity, there is almost no love. There is no worse way to show what you think about yourself and your loved one, and that you’re capable of finding the other partner. If you consider your loved one replaceable, where’s the love in that? What can be your choice, and what’s your opinion about yourself?

Thus it happens that women often find someone to lure in the man that they like, or to find a false consolation. However, Ineffective is a man that overlooks female infidelity, and therefore female malicious feelings, so he gets lured in with such scheme.


Love and faithfulness go hand in hand. The love without principles is incomplete and blind. The woman in love is incapable of trampling on others. That’s because the love opens the heart and makes person nobler. A rude, an uneducated, an immoral and a wicked woman, could never offer true love. Many modern people aren’t aware of that.

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DIGNITY

(The conclusion of the first part)

The key word of the first part of the book is 'dignity'.

Why?

Modern man puts lots of hope into happiness in a love relationship. The most important thing for maintaining a love relationship is love and faithfulness. To be faithful to your partner, you must first be true to yourself. To have complete loyalty in a relationship, then your partner has to be true to oneself. Any expressed unfaithfulness causes loss of dignity. The lack of dignity is at the same time lack of true love. An insincere love brings unfaithfulness between partners, misery, and loneliness.

Once, a girl was talking with a girlfriend on mobile. She said to her:

- I’m very nervous and angry. I had a fight with 'boyfriend'.

When the friend inquired why was that so, she answered:

- He’s alone in his flat with four girls. What do you think they are doing there!

I haven’t put the question mark because it isn’t a question, but an exclamation. The exclamation implies that they certainly do something bad.

We could feel sorry for this girl. We could condemn her boyfriend. Anyway, all of this complicates already undesirable situation.

The problem in such situations is not the partner, but your own opinion about yourself. If a man suffers a lack of self-esteem, he would waste his time on elusive people whom he’s supposedly about to change with his abilities and love.

However, this situation is paradoxical. In such relations, there is never true love. People are actually dealing with others (and that’s why they choose bad and elusive ones), instead of with oneself and one’s own weaknesses. Therefore, they can’t keep their dignity, and they can’t have true love relationship based on love and fidelity.

Why would you have a relationship with the inaccessible and elusive person? Why would have a relationship with someone who doesn’t understand you and respect you? Why shouldn't you respect yourself? Why would you believe that love exists where the existence is impossible? Why would you think that

promiscuity and success in seduction can bring happiness when you can clearly see that it never happen in the world?

According to that, if you want a healthy relationship, the most important is to recover your self-esteem, dignity, and loyalty to oneself. If you succeed, your heart will again become capable of loving and will be also capable of keeping unfaithful and undignified people at distance.

Nowadays is worldly favored belief that everyone has right to hurt the other because of their desire for 'freedom' and pleasure. You are smart. Don’t trust such belief even if the whole world believes in such folly. Unfaithfulness and disrespect of others are always a reflection of disrespect of yourself and selfdoubt. One must completely disrespect oneself to be able to be such person.

Therefore, to recover dignity, the true faith in God is necessary. If you realize that God’s your Divine Self, you will realize that your value is infinite. If you know your value, you’ll never yield to unfaithful ones. You wouldn’t even want to change them. It’ll be enough to keep them far from yourself and your desire for relationship.

This means that attraction and sexuality don’t come first to you, but dignity. And dignity isn’t subject to the drives and filth.

Thus, if you want the true love and love relationship, synonyms for fulfilling these desires then should be loyalty and dignity.

Pay close attention to whether you respect others, and if a partner, not the current one, but potential one – doesn’t respect you?!

BOOK NO.2:”SEXUALITY AND SEDUCTION”

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INTRODUCTION

This text is written to disperse misconceptions about human sexuality. As always, I advise people to check the legitimacy of the creation. Nothing is accidental, and no action is without the consequences. This text should help the reader realize that there is no coincidental happiness, but only deserved one. That also means that happiness related to sexuality can’t be arbitrary. It is the result of a pure, innocent and human sexuality. Who doesn’t believe such claims, my advice is to check for validity of this reading at least. Still, it’s always better to live properly and humanely, than to check for errors, faults, and sin. The results of errors are always: the waste of time and misery.

That’s the truth that modern man has forgotten. Even worse thing is that there are a few of those a man can learn from the laws of Universe, which are happening every second faultlessly.

And why is that so?

It’s because a man feels lonely and lost in Space. It’s time to change this situation.

Chapter I – Sexuality – A short guide for dummies

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PERFECT AND POSITIVE

God is perfect and everything He creates is perfect. Therefore all created has perfection within itself and has a perfect purpose.

What does this mean?

Souls are at different developmental stages. Thus they inhabit different bodies. Therefore each being has perfection within itself while only his thoughts and actions can vary from the worst possible to best possible ones.

Still, even the worst deeds entail perfection because the outcome of these deeds would cleanse and lead to the goal. In this way, you have right to free will, but you don’t have right to randomly change the outcomes of the actions.

From the secular point of view, God is the only one who is perfect and everything else is imperfect. Therefore, from the secular point of view, there are positive and negative actions. Positive actions results are mainly good while negative ones are insignificant.

It can be easily seen in the case of masturbation. If a person has no sex partner and wants to live its own sexuality, fairest solution is masturbation. While masturbating you may make two catastrophic mistakes which are not nearly bad as irresponsible sex relationships with other human beings. When it comes to masturbation, it is bad if you think about someone else’s i.e. the person in the relationship. If you think about someone else’s partner, then the consequences won’t be good for you. Still, even in that state of desperation, if that other person that you are thinking about has clear mind and heart, it will be protected from your lecherous thoughts, so you will be the only one to suffer the consequences. Otherwise, the other person may be encouraged by your imagination, and he/she may have problems too. Still, I have to mention that events and problems that are the outcome of this case can’t be desirable or positive, although many would like to think how can that be so, but not to happen in that manner. The other mistake is thinking about the single person. That is also wrong because that is an attack on another person’s freedom and dignity.

So, when masturbating you have right to think about your partner or about an imaginary person if you need sexual gratification. Such doing, maybe isn’t perfect, but it’s very positive. That is because in such manner you achieve an extent of sexual gratification generally without doing much harm to anyone.

This could be explained by a straightforward example. The knife has a perfect purpose. One of them is to cut a slice of bread with it. If you cut yourself or others with a knife, then there is no slightest positivity in that let alone perfection.

A lesson is following:

Perfect acting brings happiness and true love. Positive acting brings selfsatisfaction, the growth of love and joy.

Why do I say this?

In order not to be burdened by imaginary perfection; not to judge to self and others; not to commit sin by destructive sexuality as one thinks how fancy, able and modern he/she is.

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AN IMAGINARY PERFECTION

One of the worst misconceptions of a man is to think as if sexuality is a sin.


God created sexuality. He created the sexuality as an act of lovemaking and the way of continuation of the species. Sexuality as such has perfect nature. The other thing is that people use such wonderful gift in a negative way so that they correspondingly get miserable, sick and lonely.

If a man is disappointed by sexuality, he should think about its own behavior and dignity.

In the past, people suppressed the sexuality. That was due to the collective belief that it’s bad. People have condemned themselves and the others so it has reflected very negatively to the human psyche and to their acts in the past. They

were under pressure that they shouldn’t live sexuality because it’s bad and sinful, thus they condemned themselves to bad deeds and bad luck. Nowadays, it goes to the other extremes. Modern people think that they have right to have sex with whoever they like. As if the sex isn’t a sin. They have forgotten about their and other people’s dignity. They don’t realize that disrespect for oneself and others are also disease, as well as suppression of sexuality. However, sex can be really sinful if you use it for sinful aims. It’s very simple to come to such conclusion.

Having in mind that sex as everything else has its perfect purpose; this means that since the man can’t achieve perfect sexuality instantly, he has to use sexuality in a positive manner. That means a man has right to live sexuality at a certain point of his life when it’s got proper conditions to do so.

In order to acquire and meet such conditions, the effort is needed. It’s all in vain, but everything has to be deserved and for all is required mental effort. You can’t have regular sex if you don’t know well or respect your partner. That takes effort and time. You can’t have positive and satisfying sex if you haven’t acquired responsibility when it comes to the happiness of your partner and responsibility for the possible children.

The positive purpose of the marriage is that you can have free and safe sex in a marriage and planning the family is your own will. Any other sexuality out of the marriage is more or less destructive for an individual. Also, children that grow in normal and sensible marriage without the unity of both parents greatly suffer, and the parents themselves suffer too.

Sexuality outside of the marriage results in very bad consequences. Sexuality is nowadays lived under the motive of a modern love relationships ‘'boyfriend and girlfriend’’. And in the majority of cases that is not positive sexuality and many complain and are angry at such claims. In reality, people don’t want to it their irresponsibility and lack of dignity, and they don’t it that their 'modernity' is actually bigotry that they want so hard to hide not just from others,

but also from oneself. For, the glorification of things bringing misfortune and pretending to be special by committing a sin can’t bring you or assure you happiness or success.


Many say that sex is not sinful. I would add: a divine aspect of sex that’s achieved by fidelity and love is a positive sex, and as such has a positive effect. Of course, some sex can be very sinful. Don’t trust people that give such short and incomplete statements. It’s not a coincidence that they are so stingy with words and that they say that the wise man is quiet. Because, if they had been smarter, they would know that a smart man says what should be said and how much it should be said.

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THE NEGLECTION OF THE PARTNER

When a man is in search for happiness, it’s completely logical that one day he will eventually reach spirituality. Spirituality is the path that man takes when a man needs God. Such man is disappointed in world and life, so he turns to God.


There are many spiritual paths. God is only one.

That means that many are entrapped by Ego, so they think they are more spiritual that those living a secular life.

Since the sexuality is a topic here, we have to deal with it through this problem.

Many spiritualists opt for abstinence from sex. That is not so bad if you don’t have a partner. If you are married, then you have obligation to take care of partner’s wishes. If you don’t live sexuality while someone lives it, that doesn’t mean that you are better or more spiritual than that person. As we have already concluded, sexuality has positive application and as such it helps people on their spiritual way. That means that two coupled in their common and pure sexuality always make progress on their path to God. They never regress. Only those irresponsible and reckless in their sexuality regress. Those not consummating sex and thus thinking they are for it better than others also regress. That’s a first class egoism. Neglecting partner for the imagined spirituality is egoism.

Just to make clear something that many spiritualists haven’t explained until the present day.

Why do people want to repress sexuality?

The reasons are selfishness and will to power.

Sexuality is powerful, thus living sexuality takes so much life energy. If this energy is saved, it can be used to develop spiritual powers. However, you generally don’t need spiritual powers. God protects you and takes care of you so that helplessness really doesn’t exist, because who could feel helpless if has God beside oneself on one's side? In that case, a man can only look helpless or think

that he/she ‘s helpless.

A man eager for spiritual progress and progress of spiritual powers actually gives up on love.

Even a sick man feels love. A man without strength also feels love. If you lose everything, the capacity to love is not lost. Likewise, a man that lives sexuality doesn’t lose the feeling of love. It is only lost by the one who looks for an imagined more and better. Ha ha, do you leave a loved person, even your children, under the excuse that they drag you backward on your spiritual journey? How much egoism is blinding in this case?


Each person is on its spiritual path, even the worst ones. Denying and belittling of sexuality implies complexes and injuries that have to be cured. However, this doesn’t mean that person who realized God wants to have sex. Avatar has no desire for sex and it’s really foolish when people want to find the significant other for Christ. In the same manner, many people have mentioned Buddha’s married life before He realized himself. That’s very ignorant because if you don’t eat bread anymore, you don’t really need a knife to slice it. Degrading God and self-realization is also egoism and ignorance. Two people as a couple always reach the point when they consensually agree that they don’t want anymore to have sex. That’s perfectly natural process.

According to that, a person that openly and honestly lives its own sexuality is better than the person who saves sexuality by taking advantage of others and for its own spiritual powers.

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CONTRACEPTION AND ABORTION

Contraception and abortion are integral problems related to sexuality.


Every person that has sex comes into a situation that there is a chance to deal with this problem

Contraception is used for many reasons. It’s used with the goal of decreasing a possibility of conception and to protect a man from sexually transmitted disease.

Certainly, the modern suppliers are dealing with statistics and possibility. So, in such cases, their statistics are insignificant, although they want to prove that it is.

If the thief is caught red-handed after the first robbery, and the second one is caught after the tenth robbery, then statistics that you get away from punishment for ten times has no significance. In both cases, you’re 100% in trouble if the statisticians will say that the second one went well in 90% of cases. Specifically, it is worse if you get caught stealing for the tenth time, because it’s very likely that your previous offenses will be exposed, so the punishment will be more rigorous.


Ignorant people rely on contraceptives. Due to the consumption of contraception, they are easier to engage in sexual relations. In such situations, it is much more likely to get a sexually transmitted disease or become pregnant, because no contraceptive is 100% safe, which manufacturers hide. And if you have received a sexually transmitted disease or conception occurred, then it was likely to happen 100%, and not 5% or 3%.

Contraception is a wishful thinking of the modern man to live selfishly without knowing it and to destroy oneself and one’s own life. People that use contraception out of the marital relationship want to avoid the consequences of their selfishness. Therefore such people take risk of developing severe illness or facing the “accidental” pregnancy. Thus people, who engage in irresponsible sexual relationships, also use contraception irresponsibly and use contraception for negative purposes. A person using contraception for negative purposes always has an excuse and always wants to present to the world how properly he conducts i.e. to show its valid reasons. Such people receive and suffer sexually transmitted diseases, sometimes terminal ones. They also face an unwanted pregnancy. Then, naturally, not did they used contraceptives wrong, but they also want to terminate, and great problems arise for participants in sex, as for an unborn child. At this point, severe traumas have been suffered by man’s psyche.

Many people think that only women have been damaged by abortion. Nonetheless, even a cold and insensitive man is suffering severe consequences subconsciously, as well as by karma.


The contraceptives are a perfect invention for couples who have chosen one

another, who married and decided to have sex, as to reduce the possibility of conception because in the given moment that isn’t acceptable solution. In such cases even if conception and abortion happen, consequences can be timely neutralized and more or less acceptable.

Using contraception for the sake of living of egoism and as protection from disease, and abortion as the consequence of irresponsible sexuality, bring huge karmic problems and psycho-emotional issues. As it would be said in my country:

- A little music and lots of money.

In doing so, the music I have mentioned is shallow and heathen, i.e. destructive.

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CONCLUSION

Practice positive, innocent sexuality, while improving love and fidelity, and don’t worry. God rewards such people and never condemns them.

If you look at something and think that it is fine, and is done in sin, then you look bad. That is why you think that it’s better for others than for you, and it’s no wonder that you are always disappointed.

Believe in perfection of God and creation. Believe in purpose and benefits of God’s gifts. Sexuality is one of those gifts. You have right to live it as it’s appropriate for a human being. On the other side, you’ll be in trouble. Believe me, with such laws – there is no favoritism, nor random luck.

Because, how many people you know that pray for mercy, but they don’t get it? Because it’s a lot, and they haven’t given when they should give. Unfaithfulness, as irresponsible and sinful sexuality, is a denial of mercy and happiness to oneself and to others.

So far, that would be all about that.

The rest of the questions and stories related to spirituality and the life of the man you can find in my books coming out in sequels in Serbian and English as ’’Return to God’’( Men and Women, Love Relationships), “Modern Relationships” and ’’A Contemporary Spirituality’’.

Chapter II – Lectures/Discourse on seduction

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SEDUCTION = SELF-DOUBT

The young are under great pressure nowadays, when it comes to sex.


Many say that if you have been put under pressure, you would get stronger. However, many of those don’t mention what is even more important: if you back down/give in under pressure, you will fall apart.

As you could see, if you are exposed to troubles and pressures, the end result could be manifold.

The same goes for temptation. The reflection about the committing the sin is already another kind of pressure. That kind of pressure is negative because if you give in to it, you will head to misfortune. If you don’t succumb to it, you will be in the situation you should have been in without the stress (thus losing strength and time).

Your body and mind are not immortal. If you unnecessarily expose them to the pressures, you will lose their strength and durability/endurance/permanence. Everything that is put to excessive use, it lasts shorter. This means that the wisdom of a man is reflected in choosing those experiences, and therefore the pressures that will lead him to the meaning and purpose of life.

Why have I mentioned that the young are exposed to the pressures nowadays?

Because the pressure I’m talking about is not productive. It destroys them.

If a young man has found a ‘girlfriend’, many will wish to do likewise. This is because they think that this young man is not only happy, but also important. Young men nowadays are under great pressure because they are not burdened with respect and love towards women, but only with seduction and sexual intercourses. This kind of burden and pressure is the consequence of self-doubt. Young men are unhappy with themselves exactly because they have sexual intercourses and they don’t respect themselves. However, because of the pride and such state of affairs in society, they pretend to be special and happy about these actions.

Since young people are essentially inexperienced, they gain experience in the wrong way, and accordingly, they are unhappy. At that point, they think that there is something wrong with them, or even worse, they think as if they are unfit because they don’t achieve the happiness as others do. But, alas! They even don’t know that the others are not really happy.

As we can see, here is also revealed the truth that I have been warning you about all the time. The truth is written within you. Faking and pride can’t hide the truth and self-doubt that you could see in front of you. Thus, you better look for the truth that comes/surfacing out of you. Don’t waste your time trying to

comprehend the world and people. That is due to the people’s capacity to pretend and lie. Jesus told that you will recognize such people by the works they do.

If you have done some wrongdoing that brought misery to you, then you should at least realize that the result is the same with other people. Never trust the illusion that it will happen differently for someone else for same doing or wrongdoing. God is fairminded and objective in making his judgment. Everyone gets the same sentence for the same good deed or wrongdoing. Maybe karma or motives are different, thus it is difficult for a man to recognize that.

So, not that long ago, people were under sexual pressure because the modern conviction has been created that sex is the meaning of life, so they had to masturbate in “ the worst’’ case. However, they were even there under great pressure because it was put into their heads that the masturbation is a sin. Still, both masturbation and sex can be sinful, but not always, but only when they are used to violate dignity, integrity, and love of the man. This is how it came from suppressing sexuality to do abuse of sexuality, that is even worse. This already has been evident in the excessive increase in the number of divorces, changing partners, even in the one-night stands. There is the onset of collective misery and loneliness. Succumbing unfortunate flow of life and meaninglessness. Snatching material gains and living selfishness. That is what is left if you have given up on God and His love.


Self-doubt is the problem that you can hide from others, but not for yourself. If you think that you are miserable, try turning over a new leaf. Many people believe that the success in the world and appraisal of others, fame, sex, power, and money will bring them luck. Don’t be so naive. Start to believe that your misfortune is brought upon you by self-doubt because of which you have to do shameful deeds, be proud and prove yourself. Thus you better start praying and trust God. His concern and presence will diminish your self-doubt, so you will

stop losing your esteem and dignity, trying to put up yourself and humiliate the others.

There is no worse self-doubt (and evil itself), from the wish to seduce. That sort of bigotry and pressure destroys self-respect and happiness of the young, and further on the old because the young become the old at some point.

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EXPERIENCE IN SEX

Steer clear of the one who has lots of experience in sex, and it hasn’t gained it with you.

To put it more precise:

– It’s always better keeping your dignity.

Imagine someone who has experience in infidelity...

... and that is it.

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SEDUCTION AND MANIPULATION

During my life (unfortunately) I often have the opportunity to see young girls ruined in a short time.

How does that happen?

The biggest problem is that no one warned these girls that seducing and manipulating are leading people to misfortune. It happens that a girl sees seduction by men as something normal and highly desirable. Then it happens that she answers in the same way to the male seduction and manipulation. By manipulating, the girl is actually ruthlessly used, without seeing that coming.

Under such circumstances, no relationship will survive. That is why is girl always trying again and again to make a new relationship.

This is the way how this girl gets ruined, in just couple of years.

Thus the woman has to keep her dignity and her faithfulness. She owns that to herself and her happiness.

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THE ART OF SEDUCTION

Some men are nowadays considered to be great seducers. Many ire the skillful seducers, even women.


That means that there are many women that don’t recognize true values in men. For reason many ire egotistical seducers, there are many hearts broken nowadays.

However, in this presentation, I won’t deal with the real seducers, except that I will say that they will get what they deserve. For those who don’t know that, there are much more men that would like to be successful seducers. Their problem is just that they haven’t mastered that skill.

What is this about?

At first, you want to be someone. Then you invest time and effort to be that someone. And you end up by paying off your wretchedness and sin, because what you have become stands for evil in the world and brings inevitable badluck. When I say inevitable, that means 100% will happen.

Therefore, learning to be a seducer, that is not only a complete waste of time, but it’s also investing an enormous effort in your own and other people’s misery.

It’s a great sin to learn to seduce people.

Pray to God to protect you from such a way, and from this kind of people.

Chapter III – The examples of seduction (Note: this examples can also be found in the other books)

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SUBURB

In the suburb of a city, a hunk of a guy moved in. The girls that were living there were much delighted when they saw him. He didn’t pay attention to them. One of the girls from the neighborhood was very interested in him. She was not afraid to show him that. He, however, was not touched. She seemed funny to him. He had such attitude because he’d already had such experience.


Some people grab the attention of the opposite sex just with their appearance. However, such people are faced with this from the earliest childhood. Nevertheless, these people realize that people who are impressed with the fake, i.e. with the thing that you’re not, basically don’t appreciate you and don’t love you, and they don’t have the slightest idea about who you are, or what kind of person you are.

Of course, from this point, I don’t talk about narcissism. Narcissists hate others in a way that they adore their physical looks and consider it the most important. Here I talk about the realization of the man who has realized that the only important thing is that your potential partner takes interest in you, for what you

really are, and not just for looks, material goods, abilities, and influence.

Many saints are teaching that praise doesn’t enhance you, and that criticism doesn’t break you. That’s because the both of them deal with ego and complexes. Initially, you want to believe how special you are, so you’re bothered with other people’s opinion. Then you realize who you really are, and you know how much you’re worth, so the shameful seduction of others makes you laugh. It exactly makes you laugh, and not angry, or enlightening you. Because, the one who knows Self, knows that potential partner must see real him/her if he is really interested in it and its personality.

Here we can realize why sex addicts are bad with the opposite sex. That’s because they are interested in fake. That’s because they present themselves falsely, so exactly these people are astounded how "fool" or "sissy" gets the girl.

Here I want to note that this tendency of man has its roots in parents. Children subconsciously acquire lots of things from their parents, and often the worst things. Finally, many people hate traits of a parent which are actually the traits of the child from the previous lives.


Find your value so you don’t yield to seducers and those who don’t know who you really are, and what kind of person you are. Because, it’s a great delusion when people treat you like undivine being, and you think how special you are because the fanatics are cheering to you. Therefore, don’t yield to seduction. Love yourself and your heart.

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DESPERATION IN LOVE

Nowadays, women and men, instead of learning from each other, they fight among themselves.


Many women don’t realize that men are principled. They don’t like if a woman acts badly. Women are emotional. They don’t like when a man’s brutal.

In this story, certain women are the topic, thus we will commit to that. The story goes on:

A woman has fallen in love with a man. The woman acted lasciviously. The man didn’t like that and he was withdrawn. When she noticed that he is withdrawing, she used the art of seduction. That has made the man withdraw even more. The desperate woman had found another man and hoped that the one she liked was going to be jealous.

One day, these two have met. He was still alone. She told him that he deserves a good wife. She was thinking that about herself. He knew that, but he was playing stupid. He thought to himself:

– God, is it possible that such women exist- women that do evil every second? Is it possible that she has an affair with another man and still, thinks about me? Does she still think how she loves me, and how good is she?


Don’t trust people who think that they have right to love one person and to sleep with another one. Don’t trust those who commit sin from ‘’love’’.

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DRAMA

A girl fell in love with a man at her work. She entrusted both her male and female friend with her secret. They laughed at her. They told her that the man is worthless. She was ashamed. She also overlooked the truth that no man is worthless, especially if he inspires noble feelings in someone. She also didn’t realize that her friends laughed at her because they didn’t take her feelings seriously.

A man whom she liked was not at all being aware what was going on.

Soon afterward, the rest of the colleagues at work observed that she liked him. Since she was beautiful, they were very envious and jealous. ed together, they used every chance to keep her away from him, while she was trying to get closer to him. The man turned out funny in their presence. How not to be funny,

if everyone has humiliated him at the workplace?

However, this girl didn’t notice that her colleagues are traitors, but she thought how extraordinary they are because they’re so smart and capable. This situation was very painful for her because she thought how stupid she is because she liked such a clumsy man. She was crying.

The man that she had liked still had no idea about that.

Everyone knew about her feelings for him.

He still didn’t know anything.

Then, the disappointed girl started drinking and loafing around, and she ended in bed with another man, whom she didn’t love. She was broken. She felt unloved.

The man whom she was in love with still didn’t know anything.

And how could he know if she hadn’t entrusted that to him? She disclosed her innermost feelings to fools, and not to whom she should. Why and how could he know, if she was hanging around with those who belittled him and even if she had confessed to him he wouldn’t trust her?


Many women are known for gossip. However, to reveal one’s feelings to someone who shouldn’t know about it, and hiding one’s feelings from someone you mustn’t, equals to suicide.

Many men are fooling around and pretending as if they knew everything. Thus, many aren’t sure about anything until you say them so. Even then they suspect, although they fake confidence. That’s because the man is thinking much more than the woman. That’s the reason he has doubts. Women think that they’re the only fragile.

For that reason, a woman should disclose intimacy only to a man she truly loves. She also has to be sincere. Female sincerity is the greatest gift to the man. There are no charms that can impress him as devoted feelings. Many women know that.

In this instance, it’s not only important woman’s sincerity to the man she loves. This example implies that when the woman’s in bad company, not that she can’t get the man whom she loves, but she also goes astray with time, so she becomes unfaithful and evil, and she imagines how unfortunate in love she is. More precisely, as weird as it sounds, love of the women described here – was not sincere (that is not love because love isn’t like that).

Chapter IV – Delusions on Sexuality

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SEX WITH NO STRINGS ATTACHED

Many things in the world and life very often happen just in someone’s mind. When one looks the same thing from the side, it will come to the conclusion that many people live in illusions.


That mainly means that people are twisting a lot, so they distort both reality and truth. Exactly these people consider themselves realistic (especially men).

A person makes a conclusion in various ways. The worst is if you live on assumptions. The one thing is if you have to do something so you have to figure out everything that could happen. In that case, the assumption can be helpful. The other thing is if you deny everything around you and interpret it as matching to egoism. Because of the selfishness of the modern ego and its constant desire to be smart and special, there are lots of misconceptions nowadays based primarily on assumption, and further on denying the world and its laws. Those who often deny reality are the people who are only looking for material things and facts. Such people deny spirit, energy, inner vision and God itself. If they just stand off for a bit, it’s because they got some impression that energy, thoughts, and emotion exist, so they must acknowledge it.

That’s how emerged concepts such as ”friends with benefits”, and ”sex with no strings attached”. It even goes so far in the disregard of existing concepts, it is believed that you can have friendly sex with someone, with no strings attached, and then when you have found a partner, you will end an agreement, and makebelieve, nothing happened!

Of course, this is a serious misconception of the mind. Every normal person knows that every action has its reaction. The very idea about the sex with no strings attached being favourable situation for someone, implies selfishness, irresponsibility, debris, and desire to do evil things without a repayment, what is, honest to say– severe ignorance, because, that is as equal as when you have eaten an apple and you believe you would not have to digest it, and that you are so special so you would not have to it by defecating.

Today, I simply want to explain that sex with no strings attached is a fabricated idea that doesn’t really exist. It exists only in disillusions of the mind. If you are having sex with someone, you are obliged by karmic laws. You are forcing it upon yourself. There is no running and avoiding the law. Also, if you think that you are having sex with someone as a friend, in that way you just show that you are not his/her friend at all. True friends help and respect each other. Sex with no strings attached is irresponsible and implies disrespect for oneself and the person you have sex with. There can’t be mention of friendship, without it being a lie.


The friends with benefits is a concept that doesn’t exist. There is no such thing as sex with no strings attached. The sex itself is already obliging. Thus, one should not confuse this , because it brings lies and confusion. There is a sex when one wishes that it is not obliging. However, such wish can’t is ever fulfilled.

Many spiritualists say that it is all possible for God and that He could make any wish come true. From the example, we see that is not always realistic to believe in such thing. God can fulfill any wish. Still, He will not by the laws of Cosmos He himself has established. Therefore, the wish is in vain, i.e. it is not possible to fulfill it in the way you would like if it goes against the laws of creation. God does not fulfill every desire precisely because He is perfect and omnipotent. If He use his own omnipotence to satisfy human stupidity and egoism, the world would not be ideal for the development of the soul.

Therefore, trust that God can fulfill every your wish which is in accordance with your development and the development of others. Otherwise, you will believe in blunderings and illusions. The life of blundering and illusions is a life of disappointment and loneliness.

Thus, if you often get disappointed in the others or in life, think about that: isn’t the problem with you?

Because I have just explained that non-existing concepts such as ”friends with benefits” and ”sex with no strings attached” are a reality for some people and they often use them in their mind and in their speech. They even try to live them, as if it is possible!

Hehe, it is possible, but without the benefits (with uncomfortable consequences) and with responsibilities. Why they then express themselves differently, and thus confuse many other people?

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TANTRA

From the East, and especially from India, many different teachings came to us.


India is a country where the people are raised in such way that most of them have a place for God. That means that India is modern Mecca of spirituality. From there came many useful and positive spiritual disciplines. Also, there are many good and true spiritual teachers in India. In the other countries, they are rare (at least not of that capacity).

Still, many times I have pointed out, and I will keep warning you about that. There is a black sheep in every flock. Thus it’s not bad to mention that there are many false spiritual teachers in the East. That means that there is the greatest number of wrongly directed spiritual techniques.

One of them that I will mention here is ”tantra”. By its origin, that is the discipline that entails the sex and the partner with the aim of being united with God. Certainly, the idea itself is a failure. However, due to the new wave of sexual so-called freedom, people all over the world were greatly interested in this technique. That is because tantric teaching went so far in a negative direction that the rule was established that all must have sex with each other in such institutions because a woman is ”joni” that must be respected. Therefore, No one has to be offended or to refuse the person of the opposite sex (hehe). And this reminds me of Hue Heffner’s philosophy that has a lot of similarities (once again, hehe). You humiliate and destroy yourself and women on all possible levels and you are saying that woman should be respected?

Also, lately I notice that wherever there are trials in the courthouse too much attention is given to the facts and evidence while the injuries of the soul are overlooked. So it happens that woman gets divorced and goes away with another man while the abandoned man is treated as aggressive and jealous. I am the most surprised by the fact that if the woman is already with another man, isn’t that good enough proof that man had reason to be jealous and mistrusting and that he suffers from typical injury of his heart and soul?

On the other side, if a man acts in that manner, women ignore that, which is even more strange.

So, here I am again explaining the importance of loyalty and dignity. All my teaching consists of continual repetition and pointing to these values and necessity of the same.

Very few people know that there are two directions in Tantra. This other direction has exceeded sexuality as a possible way to be united with God.

How did that happen?

Simple . There are always people who are honest in their search and what prevents them from progress on their way to God awakes them and puts off of that. Thus one shouldn’t judge quickly when someone says he/she is tantric, because that doesn’t mean that sex is necessarily used, but it can easily be the other way round, that such person has opted for celibacy, yoga, mantra, and meditation.

As we can see, tantra (although I would rather say and advise, common, simple sex) can be useful for some time in marriage, if you practice it only with your partner. Still, even such sexuality at the threshold of the old age must go away, because that’s the natural process.

Therefore, if you have sex with more people, you will lose your dignity. Many tantra practitioners lie themselves and others that there is no sign of jealousy in their practices of tantric sex. That’s the lie. The man is not an animal so that he can be trained to such unfaithful and insensitive way, but the other way round, he should turn more sensitive. Sexuality is powerful and divine energy that has a positive effect only in loyalty and dignity. Changing partners or using a partner through sex for the purpose of fictitious union with God is the misconception. It’s a simple desire for pleasure and powers which is not an integral part of the spiritual path. An unfaithful man betrays, and inevitably creates injuries and jealousy. God and love are automatically pushed into the other plan, i.e. there is no chance for them to come into focus.


As we could see, an attractive way turns out to be the worst possible one. Respect the perfect teacher, but at the same time be alert to the buffoons who are more numerous in their ignorance and deception. So, never trust those who have more than one sex partners. Neither in their happiness nor in their love. Let alone believing in such spirituality. It is all lies and misconceptions of the mind.

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OEDIPAL COMPLEX

Many things are focused on sexuality in the modern world. Because of the excessive, and I must say unnecessary forcing of sexuality, much of things is misinterpreted and evaluated wrongly.


Because science and intelligence are very ired, many like to apply psychology and to interpret characters and behaviors. Of course, I must point out that this is done completely wrong.

Therefore the Edip’s complex is considered to be an exclusively sexual problem.

Freud was a great psychotherapist. However, we shouldn’t forget that he was the contemporary in the society where the sexual revolution was very cherished. That means that he was obsessed with sex like many of his contemporaries so that he associated many things with sex, although it didn’t have to do anything with it.

Likewise, the Oedipal complex is having very wrong interpretation nowadays. Still, I must state that Oedipus complex is very much present nowadays. That means that it exists in excess, but it is badly treated and cured.

Oedipus complex has much to do with mother, i.e. with the connectedness of son and mother and not with sexuality as it is thought. When Oedipus has discovered that he was married to his mother and that he had sex with his mother, he blinded himself. Thus many people associate Oedipus complex with sex. However, the truth is completely different.

If the man hasn’t grown up, he is always mama’s boy. Such man is very often incapable of success in the world and his relationships with women are not relationships, but connectedness similar to a mother-son relationship. That’s why immature man tied to the mother is never going to have a healthy and normal love relationship. He links connectedness to mother and lack of closeness to a mother with a woman he is in a relationship with thus he has to bear with such relations. If such man has no wife or girlfriend, he always ends up with his mother. That is because the mother doesn’t allow her son to be independent, she is not raising him well and she makes the catastrophic mistake that many modern women don't see as a mistake, and that is that they criticize father and represent him in a negative way. Mothers that Oedipus complex in men-their sons, and in that way bring misery to their sons, teach sons that their father is bad and they shouldn't look upon him when it comes to character.

That is very harmful because in that way son loses the male principle and the in life thus he becomes incapable of career and love with the opposite sex.

Therefore, the Oedipal complex is closely connected with the spirituality of the man. If a man doesn’t direct his look towards God or to his inner self, it is almost sure that he will become mama’s boy in this modern time. Because, the negative battle between sexes was never so strong, present and devastating as today.

Many women started to recognize this negative disposition of the men, so mama’s boys became despised in female company. However, it is very strange that women are driving forces and creators of mama’s boy. They subconsciously, but on purpose create mama’s boy that later on destroys them in love relationships.


Oedipus syndrome has lots to do with the bad connection between son and mother with lack of closeness between son and mother and then son and father, that has to be born because the mother is not playing the true and decisive role in the life of her son. Therefore, the Oedipal complex has very little to do with sexuality between son and mother because the love and closeness are not determined by sex and lust.

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THE ABUSE OF HUMAN BEING

If a man wants prostitution services, he will have to pay with money. The money that the person sets aside to pay sex services s the survival of the prostitution chain.


Those who organize a chain of prostitution gain bad karma. Still, those who also the survival of that chain with money or in some other way, also gain bad karma.

The same situation is with modern television shows, especially with the reality show. Those who organize the reality show gain a very bad karma. Nevertheless, those who watch, and especially those who vote, with their money not only the public broadcast of the fornicators’ actions, but also justifying the situation of people being treated as cattle and for putting money and salaries into

the reserve houses and yards, wherein this way they destroy: their dignity, integrity and the possibility of a sublime life.

As I have put it here, if a man uses his mind, he will understand. However, there are many other relations where people don’t understand, nor they can understand that something is simply bad. On the contrary, they have lots of suffering to survive, stumble and think. I will try to explain this with an example.

A young girl had left many relationships behind her. She has never been ‘alone’. After she has broken up with a man, she will straightaway begin another relationship.

It happened that she was alone, a and she immediately fall in love with another guy. She used her friends to get to know what he thinks about her. The surprise was great, he said that he wouldn’t even dream of being in a relationship with her because she is not a reliable woman when it comes to a relationship. He used her promiscuity and constant change of partners as the explanation.

She was very angry when she found that out from her friends. When she had found out that from her friends, she has been very angry. Secretly she blamed him as if he lacks respect for her and how he talks bad about her. She immediately has found a new man, although she was still in love with the first one besides being offended. She was telling to the second man as if the other man lacked respect for her and considered her an easy woman. This new man who dated you started to hate the first one. Secretly, he was also mad at him.

One day, this girl’s friend was talking to a guy she was previously in love with. She told him that she is a decent girl and criticized him for considering her friend easy.

Then the man said:

– It is not about what I think and feel about her. Her actions are such that there is no man that could rely on her. If my opinion was so bad, I would have slept with her. It is more obvious that man having sex with her is the one who doesn’t respect her and considers her easy.

Indeed, the man who dated her failed her in the end.


One of the most frequent reasons for divorce today that people almost don’t notice is taking something that firstly shouldn’t be taken away from the person you ”truly love”. That is sex (and often the marriage, too) with someone you shouldn’t have anything common. That is also the reason why many people in the old age stay alone and lonely inside, without the emotional of the partner and without the feeling of God as Self within oneself.

Here we can make a parable as compared to prostitution example. If a potential partner doesn’t respect oneself, that doesn’t mean that you have right not to respect him-her. That means that woman is not made easy by men’s judgment, but with her actions. So it is that woman is more often considered easy by the man who is having sex with her and takes away her dignity, and not by the one who talks straightforwardly what he thinks and feels.

The indifference is huge when someone thinks to have rights to buy love and

sexuality with money.

That means that hard fate affects the men who under the disguise of “love”, power and money take advantage of women. The same is for those who prostitution with their money or mess with people in reality shows.

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ONE NIGHT STANDS (aka, mutual raping/abuse)

One of the most common misconceptions nowadays is a belief that the one who reached the greatest pleasure, has accomplished the goal of life.


If the man turns his back both to love and God, then he is left only with transient things. The most tempting of all transient things is a pleasure.

Weak people who are afraid of love ire mostly the pleasure. Enjoying sex is very tempting to such people and that is the main reason why many chose seduction. When it comes to seduction, it is respected how short it took you get him-her into bed and how much pleasure you take by having sex with her-him.

Thus nowadays there is the bigoted conviction that one night stands are very desirable in the life of each person.

Mind thinks:

-I can have tots of partners if I have one night stands and there is no need explaining that to anyone, in addition to that, I can brag and appraise my achievements.

However, the pleasure you have achieved is gone. So what’s the goal you have reached if it lies in past? And that’s not the all. Who thinks ever that he can save love, happiness, dignity, and self-respect with one night stands?

The answer is:

– The man who is alien and disgusting to oneself.

The person who sleeps with the stranger is the stranger to oneself. If you are having sex with the person you don’t love, you are closing your heart completely.

What kind of person is capable of having one night stands?

The answer is:

An unhappy seducer.

So how it’s then possible for the seducers to be so much ired in the modern society if it is obvious from the start of this presentation how dangerous people they are, and very miserable indeed?

How is possible that people give up on themselves and their happiness so much so they strive to seduce others?

The next thing.

Seduction of the man is never that devastating as for a woman. Girls are taught seduction from the young age. They experiment with their attractiveness and charms, so when the attack happens or even abuse or rape, no one realizes how that happened. Nowadays rape is taken for granted. The act of raping is very ignorant and so bad that the one who is raping has to become a victim at some point. I have personally watched in the working place how many women working in various institutions were being psychologically abused easily. Because the line between sex and raping is thin, then the line between communication and psychological abuse barely exists. It is publicly accepted (and lame) conviction that every man has a right to psychologically abuse any woman. It’s a terrible fact that modern women are involved in the seduction game with men so mutual abuse is no longer imagination, but the reality.

Men and women have dates and one-night-stands, and this is nothing than the consensual rape. Sleeping with the stranger is neither good nor useful, although in the mind and the thinking this idea seems remarkable.

Even if the powerful pleasure happens in the one-night stands, this event burdens people in the future and all their future relationships, so such person not only do

lives in past, but even his dignity is undermined and destroyed. Such person does it deserve that because he/she doesn’t value oneself, one’s own body, neither own heart, nor happiness.


One night stand destroys your heart and your happiness, undermine your dignity so that you will never again appreciate yourself. Chasing for pleasures is not the purpose of life. Enjoying the power of pleasure and always striving for new and stronger pleasure is the first line egotism that leads a man to loneliness, sadness, and misery. Those who insist on seduction and pleasure don’t know themselves, they are strangers to themselves, therefore they believe that sex with a stranger could be useful and good.

However, any action has a reaction, so if the action is selfish and inhumane, such reaction will come back upon someone someday as a boomerang. Many people are forgetting that God is omniscient and omnipotent. That means that what you secretly do maybe couldn’t be seen by anyone, but God certainly sees that (and karma itself). Thus, no wrongdoing could ever without the punishment.

A piece of advice:

Beware of temptation when you think that nobody knows what you are doing when you think that no one sees you, and when you think that nobody can find out what you have done. That certainly is not the truth.

BOOK NO.3:”RETURN TO GOD: LOVE RELATIONSHIPS”

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NOTE TO THE READER

There isn’t greater joy than getting to know your own being. The better you know yourself from the inside, the more you’ll know others. And this is reflected mostly in male-female relationships because such relationships aren't kinships by genes and blood, but by your closeness to the partner. And that closeness is determined by how much you’ve got to know inner being of your partner, as well as your being.

The books that I’m writing should teach you exactly that thing. To get to know yourself and others in the right way, and not to swim in shallow waters as people nowadays do, while the truth, love, and happiness are hidden.

Be self-critical and enjoy the news that you’ll find out with the help of this book for the first time both with surprise and relief.

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INTRODUCTION

Positive thoughts for the whole world are a remedy for the whole world.


Thoughts and ideas come from the mind. Man chooses by his will which one to put into action. If you don’t have evil thoughts, then there is no reason to do bad things.

This same philosophy can be applied to sexuality and love affairs of the man. If the man uses his sexuality in a divine way and if he/she truly loves and respects its partner, he/she’ll have a healthy love relationship. If all people have nurtured healthy love relationships, the world would have completely recovered. When I say recover, that means that people would find happiness and live happily in their families. And if families are mended, the whole world will recover too, because, it actually consists of families.

Many spiritualists emphasize that the sexuality is overstated and that connectedness to the family is a source of suffering for the man. However, they don’t realize that human kind works and survives on the basis of love relationships and sexuality. Thus, they aren’t meaningless subject at all. On the contrary, the effort to reach the high quality of the love relationships in society is generally of great significance. Because the one thing is to fake spirituality and despises creation. The other thing is to accept the world as God created it and to nourish love and knowledge.

The second point.

Many people emphasize the importance of imagination. It’s believed that the

more imagination develops, the better for the person. However, if the person uses too much of imagination as an escape from the reality, such state could even make worse his/her hard life and that one isn’t even aware of it. Going into the world of imagination can increase the sense of suffering because imagination can just make a person even more vividly recognize his misfortune and cause a stronger resistance to situations in one's life.


People daydream about the love and sexual relationships all the time. In their imagination, they have invented that, so with hideous living and wrong use of sexuality they can gain happiness and enjoyment. However, the fact is that today people are mostly lonely, and in general, the endurance of today's love relationships is devastating.

People are often disappointed so they are frequently in a situation to look for new a partner. Such lifestyle brings loss of dignity and faith in oneself to any person. Every failed relationship makes a stain on self-esteem because what mind doesn’t like and not want to accept at all are failure and defeat. And every breakup is that.

The man who has many breakups behind him, in order to cover up lack of confidence and loneliness, starts acting as if freedom and promiscuity suit him. And not just that. The man acts as if he didn’t respect others and as he respected oneself in the same manner. Many even believe that if they humiliate someone in a sexual or love aspect that they would return their self-esteem.

What is the reason of all of this?

Destroying the quality of love relationships because of focus on selfishness and pleasure.

Therefore we can draw on the first law that reads:

Mending love relationships of the modern people means mending the whole world.

The first question is immediately posed:

- How can a man earn a fulfilling love relationship (of course, if one wants it)?

The main part of the answer can be found in this book.

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ABOUT THE BOOK

My first book on men and women is called “Return to God: Men and Women”. This one is named “Return to God: Love Relationships”. Many readers would immediately ask: -What do God and success have to do with love relationships? This is exactly what is about. The intention is not just about making a person think about it, but also to realize that everything in his life depends on his relationship with God.

When it comes to the family, it’s best for the child’s parents to be together, that they are all together and that they love each other. If a child has no parents, or they abandon him, that’s the very bad situation for the child. Just imagine. What if a person turns back on someone on whom everything depends? If he turns his back to God?

Of course that when the man turns his back on God, God doesn’t turn back on that person. God still takes care of that man. However, psyche and life are considerably changing for worse when man forgets about God. He often does evil and self-destructive actions and loneliness and misfortune come after him. Playing smart and proud become priorities for him while happiness and love come after that. Such person is not aware of this fact.

I don’t like to deceive people. I don’t want to cater to the human ego, because exactly that human ego (especially mind) with which almost every person identifies, is a jailer of the human soul. I want people to realize that everything in their life depends on their relationship with God, even the love relationship and depth of their intimacy in sex with their partner.

From this, we can immediately conclude that both love and sexuality come from God, and since the God is perfect that means that happiness in those things can be earned only by honesty, morally and ethically.

There’s no happiness in indulging oneself in godless ways. There is no chance that a person would act wrongly, without having respect for himself and others, and that he could gain love and truth. God is the love and truth. Without the faith in God, no one can achieve lasting and fulfilling relationship. No one can even live sexuality and enjoyment with dignity. That’s the thing that each person will have to know, if not from those who already know it, then based on their own experiences and sufferings.

However, as soon as you realize that the life without God is a fake life in misery and sadness, the sooner you will reach the fulfillment of your wishes and happiness.

Somebody will think as if he happens to know people that don’t believe in God and they have achieved a good love relationship.

I can only ask: - Is that really so? Are they really happy? Have they really abandoned God?

Many have turned back on their parents, many are angry at their parents, and they are still tied to their parents and it matters to them what their parents think and do. In the same way, many pretend that God doesn’t exist because they are angry or hurt inside, so they experience God as guilty for their lack of selfcriticism. However, in difficult situations, this person always recalls God and prays to Him for help.

A lukewarm person is not non-believer necessarily, although it’s very bad to be lukewarm i.e. indecisive (he’s both not for God and not against it, so in egoism, he acts according to his needs). For such people, God says that He will spit them out of His mouth (because they’re tasteless). The man that’s cold to God is a creepy person that doomed oneself to misery and loneliness. Don’t you ever have such role models and don’t try to follow such people as much as it seems tempting. The end of the disbeliever’s road is always full of tears and disappointment. The end of this road is the beginning of the faith in God. That means that the road without the faith in God is suffering and the waste of time of each individual, with no exceptions.

Keep this in mind when you look at yourself, the world, people, and life.

Chapter I – PSYCHOLOGY OF LOVE RELATIONSHIPS

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BROKEN HEART

There is a plant in the world named "broken heart". Modern people are well acquainted with it and it’s nourished well. Thus it grows very fast and in many places.


That means that this is the current situation in the world.

No one knows whom does one belong to. Everyone’s hitting on anybody, and making mistakes.

In the end, people get disappointed and they reconcile themselves.

Eh, you see, there’s something that many people don’t know.

Right in the "broken heart" there’s the Supreme being itself. If you call Him, He will respond from there. Then you’ll realize that " broken heart " actually doesn’t exist. It’s a pure illusion.


Your heart is invincible, even when you it defeat.

Because, who has ever defeated the Invincible one?


No one ever did.

Thus, if you don’t find Supreme being within yourself, or at least in your partner, you will stay unfulfilled at your heart and dissatisfied in your mind. Then there’s even no use of the "mutual love".

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GETTING MARRIED

When you go on a train trip, you first take a bath, then you pack your things and

suitcases, then you go to the train station, buy the ticket, wait for the train, and you get aboard.


This order of actions brings success in traveling by train. I believe you don’t know anyone who’s got onto a train without the previously mentioned actions.

What’s this about?

Love relationships have a certain purpose in life. Getting married gives you a chance that through obligations, duties, and feelings you reach love, God, and meaning of life.

Many people make mistakes in the very beginning. They think that marriage exists for pleasure and for living selfishness and egoism. They start love relationship as they are already on the train, i.e. they start with sex and intimacy, the things that should follow in the end.

Thus the explanation of preparing for the train is important. A person has to prepare oneself to be ready for the marriage. It’s not desirable that a person gets married if he/she hasn’t previously cleansed from the inside from selfishness and egoism.

How can a person clean oneself from the inside?

He/she can do it with the faith in God and work on oneself.

When the love feelings are overflowing within you, the willingness to sacrifice, and when the God is close to you, at that point’s good to look for a partner, but for marriage.

Why just for the marriage?

Because the determination and commitment to one partner is an indication that someone can rely on you, and that you’re steady in your actions and feelings. A person who experiments with people of the opposite sex doesn’t respect others, not even himself. This means that if one doesn’t think of others' dignity, he doesn’t even think about his own because he doesn’t have it at all.

So, swimming and packing a suitcase is the same as an individual preparation of a person for marriage by cultivating closeness to God and nourishing faithfulness to oneself.

Then comes the departure to the station. That is getting to know the potential partner.

A person must solve all the dilemma related to the potential partner before getting married. If two people have an agreement and solve their problems before marriage and before living any sex or intimacy, then their problems in marriage are the one to help them spiritually improve. That means that such approach greatly reduces quarrels, jealousy, and rage in marriage. Also, partners can mutually respect each other for that, and be truly intimate. Living sexuality before the decision and marriage, and before any agreement on mutual life

important for each individual in a different way brings a failure through mistrust and disrespect for the partner.

When you have made an agreement with the partner, and when you have chosen your partner with the whole heart without sexuality and intimacy, that’s great point to enter marriage. In this case, this is the buying ticket at the station, waiting for your train to come, getting onto the train, and coming to trip together with your beloved partner.

The question is following: Why are modern relationships and marriages so short?

Because the participants of such marriages don’t respect themselves, creation, others, and God himself. No one’s thinking neither about the wellbeing of the partner and his dignity nor about the injuries that will follow if the relationship fails.

Some people may say that everyone makes mistakes. However, if you hurt some other being, such excuse is fake. Such mistakes create long-term unresolved injuries and unfortunate fate. Therefore it’s important for everyone to think about themselves and their behavior related to male-female relationships. More precisely, modern relationships are mainly not based on decision and determination, but on the principle ‘we’ll see how it will go’. Eh, that “we’ll see” is in the reality unsuccessful for sure.

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ENGAGEMENT (betrothal)

In near past, people were smarter and they knew the frailty of the heart in love relationships.


In the past, people more thought about themselves, their own happiness and dignity. That's why they were trying to make rules that would ensure love and happiness for everyone, especially for the young.

Modern people have forgotten the sanctity of the marriage. Young people live so that they don’t respect themselves and they live to satisfy their egoism. Satisfaction of egoism brings rushing misfortune, and then loneliness, which brings us to the conclusion that modern people give up easily on themselves and their happiness very early. Positive rites, traditions, and ideas are lost. That’s how a man lost its value.

Many are horrified by parents choosing partners for their kids while they are still young. That’s how is bigoted considered nowadays that kids are promised to one another while they have just a few years. Nowadays one believes in a possibility of choice. However, even if you go to the most expensive restaurant where there are various tasty tidbits spread on the table, you could still choose food that is the least to your liking.

Therefore, if you don’t consider God to be your perfect friend, you’ll believe in the possibility of choice. If you consider God to be your most perfect friend, you’ll know how much He loves you and cares about you, so you’ll not believe in the possibility of choice but in a God’s providence, i.e. gift. At that point, you will also know that God will always give you what’s best for you. That’s why the

possibility of choice much more has to do with the self-esteem issues of the man and with his/her misfortune (what is unbelievable for many people).

So, why do I consider that it’s better for parents to choose marital partners for their children?

Because the children don’t have to make a choice, they don’t have to seduce, they don’t have to have harmful sexual experience, and they can surrender themselves to love completely, without spiritual injuries that can result from illtreatment.

However, we have to be realistic here and make the conclusion that people consider very bad the fact that someone else is choosing your partner, especially someone else than your parents. Eh, this opinion is also ok.

Why?

Because the modern parenting has largely failed so parents become incapable of finding a good partner for their children. The best solution turns out to be the worst solution in this case due to such circumstances. Parents that choose partners for their children should have integrity and dignity (that’s lost because of the modern promiscuity).

For that reason, the modern youth had to change because one has to rebel even against their parents if they persistently serve him misfortune despite their good intentions.

Thus today young have to find the partner on their own. They have much more responsibility because they have to cultivate and educate themselves.

It’s clear here why I insist all the time on the importance of fidelity and determination. Temptation and seduction are the safe way to damnation. Young nowadays have to give up on promiscuity and ”boyfriend and girlfriend” relationship and they have to realize the importance of marriage and decision.

Since many young people start early with the love relationships, it is very difficult to opt for the marriage since the person is ready for the marriage only after the twenties (and some even later). However, even for such situations, our ancestors had mostly positive solutions. They invented an engagement based on which two people as a couple would promise each other to come into marriage when the situation is ripe and achievable. In that way, young people could be together without being married.

However, this solution is not productive for the present time because people don’t understand the importance of a promise. People easily break up marriages, so why shouldn’t they easily break an engagement?


Engagement has powerful and positive effect if two people have integrity and they realize the importance of the human heart and promise. Also, making prearranged marriages is great provided that parents that arrange marriage are moral, well-educated and they themselves have a happy marriage.

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TWO FACES/SIDES

The truth is always one. However, in the events between people truth has many faces. Scarce are those who equal themselves to the truth.


Let's take love relationship as an example. Partners experience a particular situation, but they have a completely different view. There’s a friction between their egos because of the difference in views. They clash more or less, there is solidarity between them more or less, which depends on viewpoint and conviction. To make things even more strange, viewpoints of both partners usually have nothing to do with the truth. If you happen to explain to those people that they are making mistake, they would even get angry. That means that the truth is always somewhere in the middle. Both of them have to give up on some of the selfishness and ego in order to find the common truth i.e. the right solution. It’s clear why I suggest here that two married people have to make effort and participate because two people in the marriage are a whole. If one of the partners is not communicating and trying to find a solution in a peaceful way, the relationship will fail unmistakenly.

That’s how a very young man found a girl whom he fell in love deeply. One would say that the girl was very good at first glance. She listened to a man, didn’t contradict him, while he was very nervous and insecure. He was causing a lot of problems to her because of his insecurity. He accused her of many things that she didn’t do. If she tried to defend herself in such a way that she explained to him that he was too rough, he would become even worse. He had such a low opinion of himself that he couldn’t take a criticism from the person he liked.

Karma never sleeps. The moment came when he had to go for a while. Since they were fighting all the time, he went after the argument, so they didn’t have a chance to make it up. So he went away and he didn’t have a chance to consider herself to be his. She found someone else during his absence. That broke him.

As we can see, the man really had reason to be uncertain about her. She was nice, but on a subconscious level, he knew that he couldn’t rely on her, and that was the reason for him to make a fuss and be bad to her.

After a while, the man had some experiences that made him change. He gained a milder nature over time and become patient. Then he met another girl. As soon as he started being nice to her and fell in love, she started raging at him. As much as he assured her that he loved her, she was being even worse to him. He was recollecting his relationship from the past at that point. He ed how he loved the previous girlfriend, and how terrible he was towards her, and how she hurt him. Then he realized that he’s not giving to this girl what is necessary. He realized that she’s furious at him because she can’t rely on him. He thought to himself: – No matter what happens, I will not let her down, and I won’t look to some other girl. I will love her just the way she is.

As soon as he has made the decision, the girl changed her attitude to him. His decision brought to such attitude in life that it simply it was not possible to do differently.

What’s the moral of this story?

Everything that happens to you, has one face, a present face that you look at and understand in your own way. However, the other side, the person you are related to is your face. Both your mistakes and mistakes of your partner are your mistakes. Not just your partner’s.

We can clearly see from this example that it’s silly to blame your partner. Partner’s mistakes don’t give you excuse and right to sin. As much as your partner is bad, that’s not an excuse for you to be bad. That means that if you correct your mistakes, you will also correct the mistakes of your partner.

If we think well, the guy from the example could do the same as his exgirlfriend. In that way, he will gain lots of negative karma, and he would learn nothing. However, he ed the mistake of his ex-girlfriend, and his mistake, so he could understand his present girlfriend, and he could understand that he is basically unfaithful, and he has to give faithfulness to his girlfriend. That understanding gave him persistence, patience, and endurance, which are essential in situations when partners have problems. And if partner notices your endurance, he will feel safe, and he would not even want to leave you, so how many do you know that have someone to rely on, spiritually?

There are almost none of them.

So, everything that happens to you, you were either on the other side, or you’ll be. Because it’s important for you to learn, and to solve your mistakes, not your partner’s. Changing partner’s character is very often waste of time because if you have such attitude, that means that you see things and events distorted, you are not self-critical, so you can’t change partner’s mistakes in the right way.

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AN UNHEALTHY JEALOUSY

Nowadays we can often hear the statement of some people that their partner is unhealthy jealous. What does that mean?

If someone was emotionally hurt, he or she has the propensity to doubt. When he recognizes the patterns of behavior at its current partner matching with the previous partner that hurt him, such person can be jealous because he/she was hurt in that way. The injury revives again because the new partner is the one who in the present acts and does the same.

Therefore, unhealthy jealousy almost doesn’t exist. If someone is jealous of you, it is better for you to look for the mistake within yourself. The real truth is if someone is jealous he/she has the valid reason to feel that way. Then the one who causes jealousy pretends as if someone is unreasonably jealous.

A person that makes its partner jealous is much worse than the partner that is jealous. The one who suffers jealousy is always braver and more sincere. The one who creates jealousy and still pretends that it is normal is an insensitive person, and there is something very wrong with that person.

People that cause jealousy, spread misfortune, and when they pretend that others have no reason to be jealous, they cause anger and contempt in hearts of those who they deceive. Thus those who cause jealousy are in dire ignorance, and they say that someone is unhealthy jealous. Such people will in near or far future be exposed to jealousy, so their emotional wounds will teach them to act with comion.

Causing jealousy (both deliberately or unintentionally) is basically irresponsibility, insensitivity, and pure evil and cowardice. In this case, it is caused because of a person’s wish to rise above partner and dominate. That’s the indicator from the very beginning that there is no love and that person that

causes jealousy is more concerned with self-liking ego than with love and the partner. That means that jealous negation of love that should be the essence of a love relationship is justified.


If someone tells you how jealous he-she is, or if you notice that your partner is jealous, be self-critical, and think: are you doing evil? Even if there is an unhealthy jealousy, it’s better for you to believe that it doesn’t exist. Those who don’t to face themselves and their shortcomings have invented the unhealthy jealousy. A person that causes jealousy certainly has self-esteem issues.

People that don’t care about others and cause jealousy are not just fragile and miserable presently, but they will be even more miserable in the future when they will have to face their sins. Causing jealousy is unfaithfulness, too. The unfaithful ones, in the end, get hurt, and they ask:

– How does that happen?

Simple, thanks to karma and God’s justice. If you’re hitting in the middle of the heart, those same blows will come back at you with the same force. That’s the ancient law that always works.

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HOW MUCH DO LOOKS MATTER?

We live in a time when the pleasure is highly valued. If one values pleasure too much, then much will be invested in things that bring pleasure. Thus they begin to value: looks, affluence, intelligence, science, and sex. Love and character, as well as God, is being neglected.


Egotism and the human stupidities are one and the same thing. Stupidity destroys the character of the man, its dignity, and its capacity to love. That is generally reflected in the misery of a man that lives and acts in such manner.

Once there was a girl that had "something" that many men liked about her. She was really unattractive, but she always got to find "boyfriend". Because she was unattractive, she envied the girls that looked handsome. Because of her despise towards beautiful girls, she insisted on the conviction that the physical appearance is not important for the relationship between the man and the woman. That is why she convinced herself that the beautiful girls are not special and that they find the man thanks to their looks. She liked to think as if she was special, and has "something", because, although she is unattractive, she was always capable of finding a new "boyfriend".

One of her ex-boyfriends has found a new girlfriend that was really pretty. He said:

– No matter what kind of girl she is, I prefer beautiful one with flattering behind and boobs, just being without "something" that my unappealing ex-girlfriend has.

What is this about?

Many beautiful and attractive people have bad character and live promiscuously. However, many people with unappealing looks are the same. It is very negative if you are envious and hate good-looking people (also unattractive ones). The character of the man is the most important thing to look at. Envy and hatred are very negative personal traits, and they define how bad is some person. Thus pay attention to "something" that many are pointing out. What is it that is special according to their point of view? If someone is not iring beauty, why is that so? Why would someone not appreciate something that someone else has?

The beauty is ing. However, that’s the reason to appreciate and respect it more. Also, many other things are ing. Fame, power, money, etc. What matters about the false things is that they are transient. But if something is transient, that doesn’t mean that you have to hate or despise it. If so, the ugliness is transient too. Certainly, the life will come in which you will have a beautiful body. It is not good to hate neither beauty nor ugliness. Any feelings related to that represent your karma for past actions. That means that your character determines both your physical appearance and your attitude towards it.


Many unattractive people are worse than the beautiful ones. That has to do with the character, not with the physical appearance. Thus the character of the person is not estimated according to its looks. A beautiful woman that had only one man is more faithful and dedicated than the one who had many. The same goes for a man ( heh, it is strange everything that I have to write ).

That’s why the ex-boyfriend statement that I mentioned in the example is not strange at all. Manipulation of intelligence, money, convenience, looks, and genitals, can never be assumed as "something". Thus, take close look at positive dispositions that some person has and watch how he/she uses them. It is not bad to respect beauty and usefulness if the character is shaped like a diamond. However, those who don’t have good dispositions bouth the things that are not necessarily negative.

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MATERIALISM

Today there’s a rule that man must be well off. Many girls act wantonly and because of their seductive and provocative behavior they attract men that don't pay attention to virtues, but they just care about ion.


A man who mostly cares about ion, as a rule, is not a good person, neither a faithful man. The woman that causes jealousy and dresses provocatively, is hardly a good one, and even harder could be a faithful woman. Unfaithfulness never has anything to do with sexual unfaithfulness. Sexual unfaithfulness is just a final material proof of someone’s brutal unfaithfulness.

Nowadays, the man that’s rich or physically strong is very often considered special for that, so he also thinks that he can do whatever he wants. A nice looking girl has many wooers, so she thinks that she has right to act as she wants. Beautiful girls, as a rule, are subject to temptation i.e. their weaknesses so

they play with the men’s heart. That’s why many marriages are made based on the interest and ion. Only when these people begin to grow old, they realize how much they did wrong and how powerless they are and they used to act powerfully.


None of the girls that causes jealousy and lust around can’t find a good man. That’s because a good man doesn’t like emotional abuse. Causing jealousy is certainly, emotional abuse. Thus girls that cause jealousy always find the man that hides its true intentions (that certainly are not noble). The normal man wouldn’t tolerate such behavior, and he would say:

– Hello, what are you doing? It can’t be like that.

If a man acts in such way to such female behavior, such man hides something very bad.

Also, the man that relies on his own look and material state, can’t find a good woman. A man has to rely on God and virtues. The man that relies on attributes and on material state certainly is not much wise, and very likely not a good man. Such man certainly doesn’t respect a woman, and oneself can illusory respect only if the other side if it’s in suppressed position (i.e. if he considers himself superior to a woman). The man who wants to make a woman dependant on him has issues (is evil).

Eventually, searching for love has never gone out of style in God’s eyes. The one who thinks differently gets really disappointed.

Why am I writing this?

Because of many materialists and sexually endangered act as if they were so good and they look for or offer love. Learn to recognize such people, just to protect oneself. What is fake will never be the truth, neither valuable as such. Thus, don’t allow lovers into your home. Those are not lovers, but enemies who pretend to know love. You better ask yourself:

– What’s wrong with me, if I let such people into my bed?

UNFAITHFULNESS AND NEGLECT = RUTHLESSNESS

A guy had a girlfriend whom he dated for a while. During that period the two of them seemed as made for each other. They lived together for a while. Still, they haven’t decided about one another, and they haven’t married. Due to such situation, their relationship was in crisis. During the critical period, the guy cheated on the girl. There was a breakdown in the end and their relationship fall apart.

Soon after that, she finds another guy. He was not doing well. A bad luck followed him, so he earned less and less and was not having luck and success with girls.

Many people that know him were joking with him as his ex-girlfriend is happy with another guy and how stupid he turned out because of his doing and for not marrying her. Everyone believed that the girl is now happy with another man. As if the other man was much better and able than our character. These people thought as if their statements were very smart.

So, what happened?

He met the girl one day and saw that she was on her own. She was not with this other guy anymore.

What is this about?

It’s about the people being insensitive, and not that they are ignorant, they are also merciless. They don’t see if two people are made for each other. Then, their wittiness additionally bothers the couple already having lots of problems. If the people knew something, they wouldn’t go with the tide.


A person has to be very simple to think that it’s easy to erase one’s love. In addition, I am noting that the first one always has privilege. No guy, nor a girl, has right to interfere any love relationship, even when it’s apparently finished. That’s because God doesn’t allow such sinful acts of people changing partners all the time. So what kind of person it is who doesn’t look into his business? Which do laymen think as if someone can easily erase the love of their life? What kind of person is it when takes your heart for granted?

And what people today do?

As soon as someone loses its partner, they don’t try to help, but they advise a new relationship. What kind of person is so stupid, careless and uneducated, that it gives such advice? A person is not a sex organ that can tolerate everyone. A person is a soul in the midst of the heart. Why would anyone think that soul likes the change of the partner?

Why would anyone think that soul thinks about who is better, more capable or smarter?

Why would anyone think that pointing out that someone is without its true love will bring him happiness?

Why people do such things, that someone turns back on their partner, while someone else accepts for the partner the person that left its partner in trouble?

How possible it is that someone has no wits nor feelings, at all?

According to that, the one who knows that you loved, and doesn’t care about that, but takes you to bed, have you asked yourself: what kind of person is that? And why do you think that the relationship with such person can succeed? What will happen when this person realizes that you can’t get it over? So who can get over its own betrayal at all?

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BEING LOYAL TO A PERSON

There’s a conviction that a man should supply the woman with money, gift, good time, good sex. That he should be attractive. He should be capable and successful in his job. It is desirable to have a big house and a fancy car. It should also be raised as beseems the modern guy.

Ah, yes. The modern humor is also desirable, and being smart.


Loyalty to the features I have listed is not being loyal to a man. Therefore, women taking primarily care of these listed features, are not faithful to themselves, so they can’t be faithful to a man either.

Such women are slaves to their misconceptions. Love is a distant and inexplicable concept for them.


A girl not being committed to a human being remains out of love forever.

Because love goes from being to being.

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APPREHENSION (PREMONITION)

There are many men today who believe that there is no woman they could understand. Some women are also insecure, so they say that they are special, so there is no man that could understand them, nor fathom them.


That means that men who have such feeling rarely think and they are disconnected from their heart. A person that is at slightest related to God can understand and experience the woman. The woman that thinks of herself being unfathomable to men and how special and good is that in reality, doesn’t understand herself. Such a woman with her conviction brings much misfortune to men as well to oneself.

You are wondering, how?

The woman that thinks that she shouldn’t be fathomed psychologically, as well emotionally, lives in delusion because such situation reflects the distance between men and such women. Distancing proves that she is not capable of surrendering to love, which is the highest goal of women in love relationship.


If you have lived many lives by now, that means that you have been man many times, as well woman. For that reason, stating that all women or all men are the same doesn’t the real facts, because that statement itself is the attack on each personality (even yours) which brings us to the conclusion that person with such statements negates oneself, one's goal and purpose. Such statement is the indicator that the man by not understanding the opposite sex is primarily not understanding oneself, while by condemning the opposite sex he condemns himself by simple absence of self-criticizing and wishes to change oneself. To be more precise, the people of the opposite sex are not unfathomable, but the one who thinks so. The reasons for that are unfaithfulness and fear from love. Eh, those are the characteristics of people for whom is said is impossible to catch them either for the head or tail. Thus these people are always unhappy and they

speak about the opposite sex with contempt.

Men and women who are capable of love are making an effort to understand the opposite sex. It happens for reason that this is the main purpose of love relationships. They exist for the purpose of two people meeting each other in the most intimate way. Two people don’t meet because of manipulation, selfish interests and finding relief for their issues in an impossible way.

A piece of advice:

Give up on egoism and fake wisdom that lead you to stupidity and misfortune. Discover yourself to yourself, in order to discover others. How are you going to discover God, if you are not discovering yourself to yourself, nor others to yourself?

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SUBTLE PROMISCUITY CALLED MISFORTUNE

Little mistake in the beginning, grows big mistake in the end.


There was a young girl full of happiness and joy, and full of life. She lived alone in her apartment.

Because of the commonly accepted modern disregard towards oneself and the opposite sex, she thought normal to find a “boyfriend” under such circumstances. Since she was young, beautiful, smart and funny, it was not hard for her to find a boyfriend. The only problem was whom she will choose because there were many of them. She decided to date a guy who seemed like right one. He was from good family and spend lots of time with her. He didn’t contradict her, and he was not violent.

However, this girl, although coming from the family where she was loved, was not well raised. That was because her parents were not aware of causes of their problems and dissatisfaction. That was the reason why this girl didn’t know anything about devotion to self, spirituality, about keeping one’s dignity. Because of the narrow-mindedness of the society, she was not even thinking why God has given obvious virginity to women.

That’s why she got into the relationship with a guy who was immature, and not even close to the capability of making clear boundaries, and that he could completely choose her. She wasn’t aware that such men are worst for women, and that such man couldn’t and shouldn't be trusted.

Her parents were “optimists” and blind with their eyes. They knew that their daughter is special and brilliant, and they didn’t know that unfaithfulness and promiscuity destroy even such exceptional persons.

Because of doubtfulness and unconscious unfaithfulness, this relationship falls apart quickly. After the breakup, the young man was still present in her life in a way and in her apartment, although they didn’t date, they were still being intimate because he was often in her apartment.

After the breakup, she was severely hurt because of the bigotry of the modern society. She didn’t pay attention to that but she wanted to repeat the same relationship with another man, and she thought that the next relationship will succeed.

She has also found a good boyfriend who would do everything for her. He was ever more mature, he was driving a car, coming when she called him, sleeping and spending time in her apartment. However, she was very unhappy and lonely in that relationship. She thought as if something was wrong with her since the guy was so kind, and she doesn’t appreciate that, so she thought that she doesn’t deserve him. She was still not acquainted with the hidden promiscuity that is presently lived under the explanation of extramarital communities, and fictitious modern love relationships. She didn’t know that there is nothing worse for the woman than having sex with a man, without being married to him. When a man loves a woman, he primarily thinks about her heart and her dignity, so he gives her security when it comes to that through the decision and taking vows as getting married, and he gives her the gift of permanence when it comes to faithfulness and feelings.

The neighbors also started looking suspiciously at her, because when there is one guy after another, then no one is indifferent to that.

Therefore, when another relationship was broken, she was only left with: working on herself and mending her wounds, so that she could gain at least some faith in herself and men. However, since she hasn’t learned anything, she would start new relationships until she is spiritually ruined. In the end, she married the man she didn’t love, neither she was capable of surrender to him. She had a restless marriage in misery, and sickness came. That’s because the young man is capable of being dedicated to the first love relationship 100%. The second relationship has a chance if one makes effort. The third relationship is already a chaos of life.

Therefore, the girl eventually married and started the family, but does the whole story seems as a happy fairytale and success?


A minor initial error makes a lot of damage in the end. It always seems to people, let’s enjoy, fulfilling our wishes and pander to ions, it’s probably going to turn out well. However, such behavior is sin and irresponsibility towards oneself and others which as result has a total disaster.

I am always saying that children are the result of parents’ upbringing. However, I know that there are parents who love a lot their children and wish them all the best, and for real. I have addressed this text to these people.

It is very important for the people to give up on the belief that there may be ''modern relationships''. The only certain and safe thing is the marriage with the mutual consent and decision.

Why would risk your and your children’s lives?

Many people think that there are risks in life. They do, only if you act wrongly. In reality, life is certain if you are dedicated to God and love. Don’t you ever think that something would turn out well out of the incorrect, promiscuous and immoral behavior? Never trust to ''boyfriend'' and ''girlfriend'' relationship.

This text means that parents must realize this truth and invest all their strength

and patience to explain to their children that impatience and promiscuous enjoyment bring loss of dignity, and the loss of happiness with itself as well capacity for faith, faithfulness, and love. The truth is that God established virginity and marriage that people would ensure their happiness, their dignity and their devotion in love.

Even many modern psychotherapists are complete enemies and idiots, so they teach people irresponsible sexuality and ego realization via betrayal, unfaithfulness and lack of dignity.

This means that any advice and any direction outside spirituality and orientation to God are pure evil and misfortune for the man.

Parents, protect or save your children! Don’t let partners sleep under the same roof, before the clear decision and accepted responsibility, because, looked from this view, it just seems as a minor mistake that can be fixed.

Be blessed.

Chapter II – RETURN TO FAITHFULNESS

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CONQUERING

The desire for conquering is related to the complexes of the man.


If you are not satisfied with yourself, you will want to achieve the state of satisfaction. However, if a man isn’t satisfied with oneself, that means that he hasn’t still discovered self-esteem and what could bring him/her satisfaction. As a rule, a dissatisfied person doesn’t know happiness, doesn’t know how to achieve it, doesn’t know true values, and as an effect has no self-esteem. When a person lacks self-esteem, he/she has to be proud. Pride makes you want to have something that others don’t have or to achieve some achievements that nobody did.

That’s how the desire for constant conquering rises.

At this point, you should think a bit.

Many people dream of being like great conquerors from the past as Napoleon or Alexander the Great. Likewise, many would like to be as Casanova or Don Juan. Many in such desires recognize wish for greatness and not the first-class selfesteem issues.

So, you can estimate the psyche and the character of the person by idols that person has. If someone has a strong desire to conquer then there are many certain things about that person. And what is certain should be avoided.

People suffer greatly because of their complexes. There’s no doubt. However, who gets involved by their own choice, takes over the similar suffering to oneself. Therefore, comion is one thing, and human ignorance is something completely different. If you want to go with conquerors to battle or to bed, you are only responsible for your fate. Still, the question is following: what kind of fate is that, and is it really desirable?

What’s the thought that I want to suggest now?

A man should want to achieve what every person needs to achieve, because God has given him. The reason is the divine love of God toward man. However, many people and men mostly want to do or achieve something that nobody did.

Why’s that so?

It’s because of ... complexes and of self-esteem.

Each person has to achieve happiness and reach God. Even if he has just anticipated it, he would want to give the same to others because he was raised correctly. A fragile ego wants to conquer, enslave, humiliate and rob of something. The fragile ego wants something that nobody has got.

Why do seducers care so much of notches? Why the conquerors can’t stop conquering?

Because they are getting away with their actions from God, happiness, and selfesteem. They are drowning until they get tired, and until they open for the other, better solutions. At that point, God helps them. The help consists of getting such experience that they would never incline to conquer, but only to God, and to help others.

True power is in helping others and offering them relief and feeling of selfesteem. Everyone can conquer (although many don’t agree with this statement).

Why can everyone conquer?

Being bad is easy. That is because you can follow a wrong way in a million ways. You should just find where you’re capable of doing evil. There’s only one correct way. If there is only one correct way, that means that you could be stubborn and be a rebel in a million ways. Because the rebelliousness is widespread among young people. People teach each other to be themselves and special.

Why?

Because people don’t realize that God is being Himself and special. The man as the creation of God is, in the same manner, being oneself and special. Trying to be yourself and special you are showing that you don’t realize that you have always been. At that point, you are doing the things which exemplify the selfishness of ego, and not what would describe yourself.


There are two forms of conquering nowadays. These are seduction and suppression. Both of them are complexes. Therefore:

How much you want to differ from others and to stand out? How much have you got to know yourself and God?

The only success is to attain a goal that God determined for each man. And what does the one who wants to stand out in the world, and wants something that he/she has never attained? To be precise, if you want to conquer someone, that means that you don’t know their value. Not recognizing the value of others is not recognizing yourself and your values. These are characteristics of the seducer and conqueror. If you conquer the whole world, you will be the emptiest of all souls. Who needs such exertion?

Nowadays the seduction is highly valued. If a person seduces, he/she doesn’t have to deal with oneself and go the right way. Everything one has to do is to deal with self-liking ego. The number of such people is growing. Thus loneliness and emptiness have inhabited many peoples’ hearts.

As you could see for yourself, you’re not that poor if you think so. You just need to open yourself to correctness and truth. Then every illusion and misfortune will run away from you. If a person keeps them closely, they are not going away.

Every soul abandons seduction and conquering at some point. The question is only how much is a person willing to endure pain and suffer i.e. will allow his complexes to swallow him/her up.

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RESPECT FOR THE PARTNER

It is characteristic for persons in relationships or marriage longing for the respect of their partner nowadays.


That means that presently people in almost any relationship lack mutual respect. If you could spot a glimpse of respect in it, as a rule, it’s just acting. This statement will not appeal to many people. Those who are mostly provoked with this statement, are showing that their dignity is injured and that they are incapable of self-esteem and respect for oneself.

How a person comes into such situation, and why is that so?

Focus on pleasure and sex brings faulty valuation of Self and God. What was once first becomes the last. What should be the last, comes in front. In this way, a person lives wrongly, commits sin and does evil, so one can’t respect oneself. If someone doesn’t respect oneself, he/she is not respected by others. If such person wants to be respected, one could start pandering to the selfishness of the others so that they could start respecting him/her. He hopes that in that way he could regain self-respect and self-esteem. Still, it is impossible to regain selfrespect in that way.

The present men suffer because the persons of the opposite sex don’t respect them. If a modern woman has driven for dedication and desire to ire the man, she blocks and suppresses that because she wants to be emancipated. In fact, she acts in spite of man because her soul is hurt and because men don’t respect her.

Why is that so?

In order for others to respect you, you have to respect yourself.

Indeed that more famous you are, the more others will not respect you. They can’t respect you if they initially don’t respect themselves. However, close persons that you share your life with would have to respect you. If you keep by your side those who don’t respect you that means that you don’t respect yourself enough. At that point, you think that disrespect of your Self is someone else’s problem.

But here, we’re just chasing tails. If someone doesn’t respect you, he/she shows that is not respecting oneself. If you don’t respect yourself, neither others will respect you. If you don’t respect the others, then the life is a real hell for you, although you would like to think as if you are so special. Failures and disrespect

for those you care about are eroding your dignity, so you are completely losing your self-respect.

It’s all because of ego and misjudging. Misjudging makes you act wrong. Acting wrongly brings not only misfortune but also loneliness and lack of self-respect. Then you are trying to force someone to respect you because deep down inside you feel that it’s really important.

As we could see, enjoying and sexuality aren’t the most important in love relationship. The most important is self-respect. It keeps safe your dignity and happiness.

But, how are you going to achieve that?

By knowing values and priorities.

Power, money, attraction, and lust are not important for a relationship. The most important is love. It is not important for self-respect that others respect you, but that you respect yourself. So, in order to bear a true love in your heart, the love of God is essential. Since the manifested God lives in all living beings, with respect and love for God, you are building a love and respect for yourself, and with the others at the same time. Thus Jesus said that what you do to others, you are just doing it to yourself. Self is present in everyone. If you don’t respect others, that means that you don’t respect yourself. Very plain and simple.

Therefore, God goes first, universal Self is following, then goes your Self, and eventually the Self of others. Only after that follows decision and stepping into marriage and sexuality. It’s very ignorant to think that you will deserve respect

and gratitude by having sex with someone.

However, people don’t appreciate at all true values. They value things that are almost worthless without God, self-esteem, and self-respect. They value capacities, power, money, lust, enjoyment, sexuality and they wonder how none of the partners has respect in love for them. When adultery happens, people, even many psychiatrists say that forgiveness is the foundation of love. That’s ok, but no one understands how much the love is being neglected if the partners are mutually unfaithful and they don’t have respect for each other.

Thus forgiveness has no some important role because where there are no honest emotions, neither forgiveness has a true role. More precisely, it is hard to forgive because of ego. It is easy to forgive for love. In this way, it is hard for people to forgive because they don’t love honestly. They easily fail partner because they don’t love honestly. They don’t respect each other, because they don’t love each other, but they, honestly - hate. Even if you forgive unfaithfulness to someone, it will not mean much to them, because he/she cheated on you because he/she doesn’t truly love you.

That’s why people who put sexuality in the first place, live in hate and mutual disrespect, while they convince both themselves and others as if their love is special. That is how we came into a situation that husbands batter wives and that wives emotionally abuse their husbands and that both sides in the relationship believe that love might be the foundation for such relations.

Why do they believe so?

Because they don’t have basic self-respect.

And how to regain self-respect?


If someone who means a lot to you doesn’t respect you, you are suffering a great abuse. That abuse could be so strong that you could even become terminally ill or even die. Therefore the love of God and self-respect with dignity, honesty, and morality is the only safe way to cure yourself and get in touch with people with whom your life will make sense and have value. Because there is nothing worse than being faced all the time with the partner who neither appreciates nor respects you. In this case, you have to make the right steps. Lying oneself and turning your head won’t help. However, I have to note here that I don’t necessarily think about leaving the partner or about revenge because that’s basically lack of self-respect.

Thus it is important to build your relationship with Self and God. Because if you want to go into a relationship and you wish your dignity back, it could very easily happen that your partner won’t wish to continue forward with you in that manner, and still, to put it bluntly, something like that would be undesirable. An inevitable break-up is abuse and loss of time and dignity in itself.

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FEAR OF LOVE

Fear of love is the worst of all fears.


The only certainty in the Universe is a pure love. The whole Universe is created and it grows based on love. Thus it’s the truth when it’s said that God is a pure love.

Therefore, there is nothing more powerful than love.

Thus, fear of love is most prevalent, although the most illogical. This kind of fear separates you from God, yourself and those you love. The person that is afraid of love always finds ''reasonable'' ways to get away from the loving person. At the same point, he/she is not aware of the fear that carries inside. This person experiences love as a great burden. Also, this person is subconsciously aware that he/she will be left without the loving person. Thus he/she can’t imagine how much it will hurt when he/she is suffering so much because of love now.


Stay calm. Recognize the fear of love. Be aware of this fear. This fear will take you to the bed of the person you don’t love. In this way, you’ll miss the chance for spiritual growth. Hold on to tenseness. Endure the fear. Choose love.

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CLOSENESS

Peace, closeness, and safety go hand in hand.


One of the main God’s features is the one about which people forget all the time. That is the power of peace. The perfect peace is something that God only possesses. There is equality for people, the more peace, the more of love and spiritual strength in a man.

The peace is such strength that many due to their hypocrisy want to present it as weakness. That’s how happens that partners in the relationship argue. That is because they want to create emotional distance because too much of peace and intimacy hurts them. A truly strong man strives for intimacy and peace in love relationship.

People that run away from love to make a fuss a lot and to stand out. Of course, they also like to point out their feelings. Because they are doubtful about themselves and their heart, as well about their partner, they have to do so. Insecurity is the trademark of people who avoid peace and strive to events and interconnectedness.

Almost every man has a vision that he/she can cope with a close and open relationship. However, when the opportunity arises, what person hides even from oneself comes out. He is capable of being with someone whom he not cares about enough and that’s only because closeness terrifies him. Because of the fear of closeness, people are bonding in the relationship based on their subconscious emotional distance. Their contract on a subconscious level is like this: we’ll be together, we’ll sustain our relationship, we will argue and not respect each other

just to avoid hard and painful moments of closeness.

Thus people nowadays nurture arguing relationships. Thus they nurture promiscuity and unfaithfulness. True feelings of love that bring complete closeness and peace tear them apart. They can’t stand that. That’s why they blow themselves, magnify their ego and bad deeds and afterward, they live complete loneliness even if they have “lasting” relationship. However, even that lasting relationship is basically not a relationship. That’s the situation of avoiding the real relationship.

Thus think: do you run away from people that cause the strong feelings of love within you? Could you be cool in your outbursts of feelings and tenderness?

Don’t be scared to acknowledge the truth of this text. This presentation should entice in people something they subconsciously repress since their first injury in their childhood. It might seem incredible, but that’s the repression of love and escape to discontent and misfortune due to unconscious fear and wrong education.


Open your heart. Gain the inner strength that you could endure the power of peace and love. Don’t be afraid. Too much of noise is a constraint of love on purpose. This in the least goes for love relationship, although the relationship is the initial topic of this presentation. That means that if the partners in the relationship often argue, that is because they can’t stand the power of closeness and love. Therefore the doubt is here justified that partners have subconscious agreed that they will be together because they lack the strength to be with someone they truly love.

Therefore, as we could see, the game of power and the game of love could be one and the same thing for the lay person. However, that doesn’t mean that partners who argue can’t reverse the situation to the absolutely positive. The opening of the heart is the answer.

Here you can explain to yourself why seducers are successful. They are successful because of their emotional remoteness due to which persons that are not related to love and seduce each other. That means that seducer doesn’t differ from the victim and vice versa. Precisely said, only a seducer could seduce a seducer and take him/her into bed. And nowadays there are lots of seducers.

Chapter III – RELATIONSHIPS AND KARMA

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SPIRITUAL PARTNERS

When two souls are very close, then they are willing to sacrifice for each other.


That means that if someone, let’s say, get ill, certain souls could make easier the illness and in that way, they take a part of suffering to themselves, so in such way, they share the illness to be more tolerable. This often animals do for people, especially for their master. That means that kindred souls, i.e. of spiritual partners mostly sacrifice for each other. It happens life after life.

However, in the world and the life, it is not always easy to recognize it. It often seems that some people are enemies to each other, but if someone is capable of viewing the inner world, one could realize how many souls of the people are mutually sacrificed and helping each other.

That’s why I often say that people are unaware of themselves. They don’t realize that they are soul, but they think that they are ego.

It’s not the same if you consider yourself being ego or Self. There is much misconception in this difference, like in communication, as well in acting, and in the same way in experiencing truth, lie, happiness, and misfortune.


The true sacrifice is the one when the soul, i.e. Self is sacrificed for someone. You could get ill without knowing that you are actually making a sacrifice for your partner because he is maybe facing the sea of troubles that your soul wants to alleviate. On the other side, a person with developed ego and with lots of pride and vanity, who could supposedly stick for the closest ones, making a sacrifice, and eventually ruining it all, and bringing misfortune right to the person he/she wanted to help. That’s because when a person is acting with pride, biased and selfish, such person can’t even help himself/herself, and let alone others.

Someone would ask oneself, how could someone else take on the consequences of your acting upon yourself if I have explained for many times that everyone pays its own debt?

So, you see, that is also the karma that you have deserved.

By doing good deeds, you are gaining love and faithfulness of human souls. In that way, by doing good acts, the larger number of souls will protect you on the inner plan, and it’s all more feasible because you are gaining more positive karma, while the negative one is vanishing.

At this point we could conclude:

– Who takes care of oneself is even protected by God.

That means that by protecting others, you are protecting yourself. And since the others are one and the same God, these others will protect you. In this way, a righteous person can’t be harmed, and even if it does get harmed, there are lots of mitigating circumstances, because many souls on the inner plan will sacrifice for him.

PERMANENCE

Jesus said:

"Whoever swears by the sword will fall by the sword."

Many people are interpreting this proverb only in war categories, conflicts, and physical aggression. Precisely said, as related to this statement people are only comparing their weapons.


Of course, that sword in this statement is not representing just weapons. It represents everything that man uses to win for the benefit of its egoism and to satisfy his selfishness, pride, and vanity. Therefore the sword in this statement mainly represents the corrupt way of living. Corrupt living in some segments brings certain misfortune and suffering to the man. Because of God’s justice, you can never avoid it.

So in this statement sword could be drugs, alcohol, gambling, cigarettes. It could also be ion, pride, vanity. It could also be aggression and false sanctity. It could also be lying, theft, and infidelity. It could be all and everything if you just think about it a bit.

Based on that, the sword is a negative action of an evil man.

At this point, I want to look at a sword that is the most widespread and part of the greatest delusion in the history of humanity. That is the sword of unfaithfulness to oneself that has ascended in the world as love.

The very fact that shows that people selfishness and unfaithfulness call and consider to be love is enough to realize how much are people ignorant nowadays. As I have already said lots of times, the ignorance is the demon that brings misery to a man, even without his not knowing that.

This further means that it’s ignorant to keep repeating the same mistakes all the time, and repeatedly getting even more unhappy and lonely.

Two young men in full youth strength mocked and provoked an elderly man. That man said to them:

- Guys, forgive me the thing that I will say, but you two are very naive.

Youngsters were stunned because they hadn’t expected such reaction from the man.

He said to them:

- I was working all my life with crazy, violent people, criminals, and murderers. Do you know why I am still alive? That is because I was not taking out my complexes on everyone by arguing and making conflict. You two are going to be

injured much faster even than you could guess. You could have even the hundreds of victories, but only one moment is enough, one defeat, so that man could be dead, or that his body suffers the consequences that will diminish his permanence, strength, and longevity of life.

This story is not just reflecting the truth and justice. It also means that man who believes in God, believes in His justice and protection. Security of the faith in God determines your security in Self. Many people are nowadays practicing martial skills. However, people are being all the time challenged by others because no one anymore has confidence in oneself. Self-confidence is at the same time the ing by of the fights.

Here we come to the point that I want to explain.

Every person has its own spiritual partner. The man always has such destiny that he/she meets its spiritual partner in his life, whom God has assigned to him for grooving on the spiritual journey, and that he/she is not alone on this journey. However, many people rely only on destiny forgetting that they are the ones who create their future by present actions. So if you don’t want to take effort with your partner, or if you want to be unfaithful to your partner, or you want to leave your partner, then God has to respect your decision. Exactly in that way people deserve to lose their true love. God helps man according to the actions of that man. Some people are jumping into relationships, pretending that they look for love and happiness, thinking that world and God are unjust, while the only truth is that God and world work for the man’s well-being and that man persistently refuses help with his bad actions, and thus refuses both love and happiness.

Weird, isn’t it?

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ADAM AND EVE

One of the catastrophic features of the ego is that likes to blow things out of proportion and to brag.


When someone tends to make a mountain out of a molehill and to brag, he inevitably comes into the situation to show that. However, that’s not all. Such person inevitably comes to facing oneself and its own delusion i.e. frenzy.

Once a man woke up from the long sleep. When he came round, he realized that he was on a spaceship traveling to some planet far away.

There was a lot of people on that ship. They all acted normally as if they didn’t sleep and didn’t miss much. They were talking among themselves about things and events as if it really happened, so the guy who just woke up had a feeling that he missed lots of things. He said:

- The way you talk people, it’s impossible that you’re making that up or acting. You really experienced that.

However, in that moment, he recollected his loved one. He also ed that he had left her for the higher goals (at least he thought). He felt immense suffering and insufferable pain. As soon as he opened his eyes from the long

sleep, although being aware that he was away from the loved one for the very short time, his realization that they were not together for a long period made him very unhappy. He hugged the pillar at the center of the ship and bitterly wept. Everything that he wanted was to tell her how much he loves her and that he doesn’t want to part ever from her. Not even at the price of death.

Interesting, isn’t it? You are going for higher goals and just two minutes after you realize what a sheep you are.

A kindred spirit is your partner in a worldly manner and life. The rule is following:

-Never part from your kindred soul.

However, this rule is not the most supreme.

Which rule is more supreme than that?

- Never part from God. – This rule is more supreme.

However, people betray and abandon God for trivial stuff. They fight for the world and for survival in the world. Thus they are unhappy and immensely suffer. They think to suffer because they are mortal and they don’t fulfill their wishes. They don’t realize that they suffer because they have given up on God. They think that they could achieve happiness without God. They also think that there is somewhere partner better than their kindred spirit waiting for them.

Here I want to point at a great delusion related to Bible. When Adam and Eve have tasted the apple from the tree of acknowledgment, the story is that they did it while God was absent. When God supposedly came back, He was angry and banished them from Heaven, He has decided that Eve will give birth in pains and that Adam would have to work hard in the field.

We can see here how much people nowadays are negative, that even the legends of God are wrongly interpreted.

The first thing is -God never goes away. God’s leaving is the man’s oblivion. God is always present. The second thing is, God never condemns, He just explained it to Adam and Eve that forgetting God they are taking on them the suffering of the worldly life and suffering of the soul due to the separation from God.

Life on the Earth always involves suffering. However, the suffering of the soul and loneliness could be avoided by the conscious presence of God.

If the man forgets God, he greatly suffers. He thinks that there is a happiness in the world without God. That could never happen.


God never abandons the man. Only the man abandons God.

From the initial story, we could easily conclude that man has put himself into a situation that he wanted to be with his beloved one, but he couldn’t because the spaceship was already far away on its way to a distant planet. Many could say that he was hindered by circumstances. However, the main reasons are actions and decisions that lead to it. The man has to take steps afterward that will again lead him to a situation that he wants. Thus we could make out a new principle that says:

-As soon as you pay off all the karma, you will return to God.

Until is so, you will have to settle with the God’s notice (if it appears at all).

This rule also means that if you have deserved parting with the kindred spirit with your bad deeds, in order to be reunited with it, you will have not just to pay off negative karma, but also to do positive steps to deserve it again.

God is not punishing the man. The man is the one who punishes himself, people, and God.

The man who hasn't realized Self spiritually suffers terribly. Social status, role and capacity, and possessions in the world are not playing any role as related to the suffering.

So why then give up on valuable things that you possess and make scenes and magnify such ignorance?

I always say that the man should live principles (especially men) and that life without principles is also life without sense and love. However, based on this example we could clearly see that many people are only thinking as if they are having principles while in reality, they live egoism, cowardice, stupidity, and self-destruction. In this example a man not only that he didn’t appreciate himself and his life, but he hurt himself, even the loved one that he left for “supreme” goals.

All of that happens because the man forgets God and isn’t evaluating according to God. That’s how the principles get wrong.

So, Adam and Eve are the perfect examples of the human race on the journey towards self-recognition. They are the expression of human privilege and not punished or some renegades. They are remarkable road sign to the humankind that the man mustn’t ever forget about God.

Forgetting the God is the acceptance of false, and giving up on oneself and one’s happiness.

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HOW TO (NOT) /BE SUCCESSFUL IN LOVE

A woman wanted a rich man. When she had found a rich one, she realized that he was penny-pinching. Then she said:

– I hate most of all stingy people, and I came across such one.

Then she wanted beautiful and handsome one. She found such guy. It turned out that he was a narcissist because many women wanted to have sex with him. She realized that he is unfaithful, so then she said :

– The most of all I hate narcissists and unfaithful men, and I have come across such one.

Then she wanted the smart one. She thought that the man without ''powerful'' brain is no good. She has found such man. It turns out that he considers her a fool, he had no respect for her, and he acted as if he knows everything, although she knew that she was neither less smart, nor less worthy. Then she said:

–I despise the men with complexes and who have no self-respect, and I always choose someone like that.

She was very hurt, so she went to a psychology counselor. There they have explained to her that if she acts according to rules, she will find a good man (?).

They have taught how to behave. They have told her what is allowed to her, and what’s not.

In that way, she had found a seducer and a manipulator. Then she said:

– I hate simpletons the most because they have not a bit of dignity, and I chose such one.

One day, she met a wise old man. He noticed how sad and unhappy she was. He asked her why was she unhappy. She nicely explained everything to him. Then the old man said:

– Why wouldn’t you pray to God for man that is going to love you, and you will love him in return, and you will have a relationship where both of you are happy, and where your relationship brings happiness and joy to all people, and in a way that you stay together and in love for the rest of your life?

She listened to the piece of advice, So she started praying to God as the old man suggested. It was a long time before she cleaned herself from the inside, and while she cured her spiritual distress. In the end, due to her endurance, moral purity and sincerity, God has fulfilled her wish, so she has found the man that she loved, and that he loves her. They stayed together. They haven’t abandoned each other, and it never comes across their mind to do so. Then she said:

– I like the best love, and it happened to me that find the man who offers that. Thank God for such gift.


God fulfills all the wishes. Everything comes from Him. However, there are no rules in love. Love rules.

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STORY ABOUT PAIN, SADNESS, AND MISFORTUNE

A woman was looking for the love of her life. A day came when she met a man that she liked a lot. Without a thinking, she started a love relationship with him. She got to love him a lot. They had a good sex and they felt nice being together.

Over time, his true face started to reveal itself. She discovered him being egoistic. He was being nice only while it suited to him. He didn’t care what was she like, what was important to her, what were her thoughts, hopes, wishes. The only things important to him were that she was attractive, good in sex and a good housewife.

He started seeing other women. Before that he has made her kids because now he gets to know her well, so with kids, he wanted to tie her to himself and to the house. He cheated on her all the time. She was sitting at home and crying.

In the end, totally unexpected even to him, he left her and went with another woman.

She has suffered and was being unhappy for years. She condemned the man and the day when she met him. She thought how bad he was and how much evil he had done to her all the time.

One day, her pain was so great that she wept all day long. At some point, an

unimaginable sorrow surfaced. The sorrow larger than any she has ever faced. Suddenly, she was not thinking how much her husband was evil. She started to pray to God for the forgiveness of sins.

You ask yourselves, how’s that possible?

However, it took lots of time for her husband to live his oats out that she will reach evil and injuries that she did to other women and wicked deeds from the past, she recognized herself in her husband. Thus he prayed for forgiveness because she realized that justice has come to take her toll and that doors of repentance and comion are opening for her.


Recognize yourself in others, especially in those who do harm to you and pray to God for forgiveness and salvation. This story also means that you should steer clear exactly of this strong feeling of lust and attraction. They exist with the reason, and most often they are not positive, nor desirable, although many want to believe that they are.

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RELATIONSHIP WITH YOURSELF

Some person has gathered a bad karma in the past.


That means that someone, let’s say, could be unfaithful to its partner for five times. Someone was unfaithful to his partner only once.

I would have to explain this.

The person who was unfaithful with five people has gathered much more negative Karma than the one who was cheating only on one person. The more cheating you do, the more negative karma you will get with different people, furthermore, the more contempt you are carrying inside, and therefore the more you still have to learn. If you have hurt someone, he/she carries the abuse within oneself, even if you lose . That abuse gets noticeable via karma when you meet again in this or some other life. As a rule forgiveness and love get visible when the karma is made even and the person stops having the certain problem when gaining insight and knowledge. For that reason, it’s not good doing evil and not taking care of creation in any way. If someone causes the slightest inconvenience to nature, to some animal or a person, that has to equally reflect on him, whether he believed in that or not. I note this because nowadays there are many people –ignoramuses who like to think that they are above nature or living beings that they consider inferior to them.

Someone could be cheated only once and being able to free oneself from contempt and unfaithfulness. The one who cheated for five times probably carries inside much more contempt, and thus it could happen to him that he gets cheated again all the time until he/she frees oneself from too much of negativity. Thus I always say that person slowly gets liberated, without exaggeration. It’s like throwing the trash out. You take it out pile by pile. You can’t do it all at once.

Negativities are the karma. If the person is unfaithful to the partner or to oneself, such person shows open or hidden contempt to oneself or partner. Such a situation depicts suppressed love, and a person without the possibility to manifest true love is an unhappy one. That is why I often state the final equation, and that is that the unfaithful man is the same as an unhappy man.

A sincere believer is the one who prays to God all the time to beg for situations so that he/she can properly pay off the negative karma without waiting and without being again involved with the people he owes to, and of course, to gain insight and knowledge. Thus the help of a good psychotherapist is golden. Because a real psychotherapist can help the patient become aware of negativities and help him/her diminish them and get rid of the same.

The message is:

You’re never a lost cause. Take care of yourself and your problems until you manage to solve them and gain freedom. Never doubt and give up. Now I think that it’s clear why I point out that one should love one’s life and one’s destiny. You are one of the kind in the world, and you deserve to act to yourself with respect, even if you have many evil actions on your back. Why would you punish yourself if you know that you will properly pay off your debt? God’s love, grace, and justice will not give you the second choice.

Chapter IV – DEVELOPING SYMPATHY

EVIL MEN

Evil men exploit weak women.

Such men are cowards.

My heart is with such woman.

Why?

Because I know that Supreme also feels the same.

Girl, if you are crying, don’t be afraid.

The time of freedom is approaching.

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ABOUT ABUSE (or, to women)

It happens that a man beats its woman and he tells her that he loves her.

Such man not only that is brutal, but it also lies.

Such person lies both himself and you.

Such person is actually a coward because he can’t face his weaknesses.

The one who loves is not able to do such a thing.

Never trust such man.

SOMETHING ABOUT FAKE FRIENDSHIP

Earlier I had chanced to see some women having ''friend'' in a literal sense of the word.

What was characteristic of such a friendship was the fabrication of various stories and provocative behavior in order that the selected listener would be in a state of deceiving, jealousy, worry, and abuse.

What I want to explain is that such relations are not friendship. Friends shouldn’t be so dishonest.

Such friends like hyenas eat one another after a while.

One should avoid such people.

Friends are gentle and soft, they never abuse the position.

Chapter V – EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE

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ENLIGHTENMENT

In my life, I could repeatedly see as woman abandons her man. Then she founds someone else, although she hasn’t forgotten the previous one, and pretends to be happy.


That means that previous man will find himself a better woman, and the first women after a while can’t pretend anymore, so she loses the second man too.

Why is that so?

Because insensitivity and selfishness are man’s false friends.

When you are pretending, for the sake of ego, then you lose.

Be faithful to yourself, and to your Self.

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WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND

Once I have heard the story at work that a colleague has cheated on her boyfriend, who was also her colleague. Everyone laughed at him behind his back. I didn’t.

That is because I know that it’s better to be cheated on than being the one who cheats. The one who cheats is just making its own debt.

So, if you have already been laughing at others, laugh at those who do evil, and not at those who suffer it.

It’s a bit stupid that willing going to slavery and misfortune is considered to be special.

Because here is the question raised: what is waiting for you in the life just with such attitude?

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MODERN MOTHERHOOD

We all know that parents love their children generally. When one talk about love, the maternal love is considered to be the greatest.


Where love rules, the peace, happiness, and prosperity rule too. However, we have to be realistic and it that today there are the most of lonely and unhappy young people. Such state is the result of parent’s lack of care. That further means that parenthood has failed. Consequently, the mother maternal love has also failed (although many wouldn’t like this statement).

What’s the reason of that?

For the men, i.e. fathers it’s obvious. The contemporary men are above the average, egotistical and disinterested. With women, it’s also clear if we’re being realistic. The downfall of the woman resides in her emancipation. However, the problem is not generally in emancipation, but in what many people (and such an intelligent people) consider emancipation is.

If the man is egoistic, female emancipation consists of their trying to be a man. If you are a woman and you want to have the same rights and live like any egoistic man, it’s understandable that this is the wrong way and wrong goal.

Women give the name of self-realization to what is actually ego confirmation, or

satisfaction of selfishness, lust, and careerism. In this way, a woman becomes insensitive and bad for the upbringing of her children. Poorly raised children must be unhappy. So, I’m not only talking about evil deeds and wrong ways here, but also about the misfortune that is the result of lack of parental love and proper upbringing.

Self-realization is achieved with inner unity with God. What could then emancipation bring? It brings the realization of ego, and not self-realization. Emancipation brings loneliness and misfortune to a contemporary woman, but also the disappointment in the sense that her children turn against her, or in the best case mothers have to look at the suffering and misfortune of their own children. If they look at it and it even hurts, they still don’t realize their mistake, and they don’t understand their pains and pains of their children.

Emancipation is nowadays mentioned in very positive context. Nevertheless, both doing good deeds and love are mentioned in the positive sense. However, the contemporary woman doesn’t recognize love as well the essence of emancipation, nor she is recognizing the good deeds, and furthermore, she doesn’t know how to properly raise the kids and how to sincerely love the children.

This is the delusion of the contemporary society. Instead of looking for the roots of the misfortune, everyone glorifies something that is basically not only low in intensity, but it also turns out rotten.

This further doesn’t mean that maternal love is considerably lower in intensity. One of the reasons is emancipation. The second, also primary reason is insensitivity of the modern man who, with his unfaithfulness is not leaving another choice to the world but for women and children to suffer, make mistakes and do evil and thus suffer.

The men definitely allow that children suffer for the sake of money and career. They invented the principle that the smart one is the one who snatches, and not the one working honestly. This is how the gap is made in the society because of which many modern generations are greatly suffering.

All of this wouldn’t happen if a modern woman really wanted to actualize oneself. The modern women are so wayward that they believe that they could make achievements with selfishness and egoism. Such women, when they see the suffering of their own kids, in case they are smart they would think about the causes and start to change. But how could change the person in which the selfishness, contempt, and egoism have taken over and master him? Something like that is almost impossible. Therefore such a sad life stories happen because well-fuelled egoism is not thinking about changing. Only suffering and humble heart manage to change the selfishness of an insensitive person. That is why mothers don’t realize their insensitivity. They poorly raise their children and cheat on their husbands, believing that they are emotional and good-natured.

Evidently, the primary reason for the suffering of the young people is insensitivity of the fathers. This reason fuels the women with the desire to revenge and get equal to men.

Maternal love has always been glorified. The maternal love is considered being a supreme secular love. However, devastating is the fact that quality and intensity of love generally greatly decreased.

The message is:

What is valuable is protected with valuable. What is worthless, is changed with valuable things. Emancipated women have forgotten that, and what is worse, they are not interested in it.

That’s why despite their success in society they have hands full of bitter tears.

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